"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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captain55

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This is the truth. If you haven’t had sex with a girl that is an 8 or better or a relationship with her by the time your 25 it’s most likely never gonna happen.

I’m 25, and already at a point where the idea of banging countless women bores me. Why? Because I’ve done it already. It’s all the same ****. And I’ve been with enough hot women to know that most of them are ****.

If a guy shows me a Ferrari I will be impressed. Only because I’ve never had one. The guy who’s got twenty luxury cars in his driveway doesn’t give a ****.

If you want to bang hot women and it’s not happening, stop wasting time when you could be doing other things and go straight to the source...and get you a high class escort.

Or you can keep fantasizing about banging that 9 that’s never gonna happen. Now let’s say you are one of those few dudes like myself that has hot women after him, one day you will wake up and realize hot women are nothing special. Most anyways...

I get so annoyed when my friends talk about hot women like they are the greatest thing ever.

For the record I’m not bitter I have a date with a model this weekend, but i am already contemplating blowing her off because she sent a text that pissed me off.

it takes more to impress me than a hot piece of ass and a face. Personality, substance, kindness and ambition are what will be required to be my wife. If you are sitting there obsessed with banging hot women you most likely just haven’t experienced that yet
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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True. Two women back, I was seeing a model for about three months. Banging her was pretty fun. Aside from her droopy labia. She was very loud and talked dirty.

I think the exciting thing about being with hot women is that they are generally more sexy in bed due to their higher self confidence. Women who are average or slightly above don’t own their sexuality; it’s more the mans job to dig that out of them.

But yes, hot women are not what many men make them out to be.

I wouldn’t agree with your hypothesis of, “if you’ve never banged a hot woman by 25, you likely won’t”. Not true. People change and can gain self-esteem and confidence over the years. Just like one can acquire enough cash to buy the fancy car. Not everyone is on the same timeline..
 

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Show me a hot woman and I'll show you a guy who's tired of fvcking her. End of the day, you'll be spending more time hanging out with a woman than you will be fvcking her. Choose accordingly.
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If I were you I'd probably be focusing on what happens once you are seeing a woman because your frame pretty much evaporates immediately in ways I cant even fathom.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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