"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi guys, what groups of women have you managed to land the highest quality from?

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Meaning for those of you who have smashed above average looking and hot girls, what groups (nationality, race, hair color, appearance, etc.) were they from and why do you think that is?

For me

2017 was the year I got laid more than any other year of my life but even before that, I noticed that the women I drew into my life had the similar look regardless of the clique they were from. Usually dark/brown hair and white/caucasian (although sometimes ethnic and mixed with white). I tend to do well with Latinas and Middle Eastern women with that sort of look too.

To say it in other words, I do well with white girls that have dark hair and tanned skin or girls in general who resemble that look. Italian and darker skinned Eastern European women are very easy for me.

I have no idea why but if anyone would take some stabs at it, I'd love that. I am not even white myself but I clean up with this group no issue.

At the same time, I struggle with the really pale white girls (redheads and blondes).

I am thinking that maybe brunettes have lower standards because they are not seen as sexy as blondes and redheads are?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Perhaps its you.... your mindset. You may feel more at ease and confident with certain types of women and they react to your confidence. You sound like you may have a bit of a stigma about redheads and blonds and that is why they don't perform as well for you? Just a thought I guess?
 

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Quality is mostly upbringing. Stable family unit, parents who correctly instilled morals, taught self control and raised a psychologically healthy person. While there are cultural signifiers of low quality, for example hardcore feminist, I wouldn't use anything purely physical as a screening tool. Just asking for trouble.
 

Who Dares Win

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Eastern european girls below 25, best thing I ever had in terms of look, quality and behaviour.

Western girls are trash under any point of view you may imagine wheter its body fat, rude behaviour or plain inability to accomplish the most basic actions.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eastern european girls below 25, best thing I ever had in terms of look, quality and behaviour.

Western girls are trash under any point of view you may imagine wheter its body fat, rude behaviour or plain inability to accomplish the most basic actions.
Do they cook?
 

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Perhaps its you.... your mindset. You may feel more at ease and confident with certain types of women and they react to your confidence. You sound like you may have a bit of a stigma about redheads and blonds and that is why they don't perform as well for you? Just a thought I guess?
Nah. Women like everyone else has certain prejudices. But it can be overcome if you have good social proofing and high confidence, people will tend to look past their initial prejudice.
 

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Eastern european girls below 25, best thing I ever had in terms of look, quality and behaviour.

Western girls are trash under any point of view you may imagine wheter its body fat, rude behaviour or plain inability to accomplish the most basic actions.
I will up this score from один to два.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do they cook?
My experience is yes, although I think it is becoming a bit of a lost art that women there understand that they need to prove their worth to get a man interested. With neighborhood restaurants so cheap, it doesn't matter much to me (an $8 pork shishkabob with fries works for me!)
 

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My experience is yes, although I think it is becoming a bit of lost art that women there understand that they need to prove their worth to get a man interested.
Roles have reversed in that aspect and it can't last forever. The current abhoration is representative of a degredation in masculinity . Give a woman all that she thinks she wants from a man, now you've become more feminine . She's the more masculine. She's turned off by you nownow sexually attracted to other men who have not submitted to her.

No ho chasing and simping makes matters worse for all men .
 

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Don't mind cooking. All the best chefs r men.

Sure takeout is cheap but being able to entertain is important you ll inevitably hang out with other couples. And takeout isn't healthy.

Fortunately I date Asian girls and any girl that could not cook would be regarded as defective in their culture.
 

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Nah. Women like everyone else has certain prejudices. But it can be overcome if you have good social proofing and high confidence, people will tend to look past their initial prejudice.
I completely agree. I was just thinking that maybe there were some mental(confidence) barriers set up with those particular type of women that were causing him to trip himself up. When you think something is unattainable then it becomes unattainable.
 
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