“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Duke

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Decided to go out Sunday night for a drink with a buddy. Stopped in at a sports bar, and the place was pretty dead. There happened to be one really hot looking late 20’s blonde that was on what looked like a date.

She looked pretty bored with this guy and he was pretty lame. He looked like an uptight, conservative, clueless, Ivy league frat boy complete with a polo. There was nothing edgy about this guy, totally safe and unintimidating.

The girl was his polar opposite. 5’5” , 110lbs, long blonde hair, fake boobs, couple tats, perfect body, great face, and wearing some revealing clothes. Definitely HB9. I didn’t care if she was on a date or not, she was hot and I was going to talk to her!

I got my chance when she went outside to smoke. Her “date” got paranoid when she left him at the table by himself and started giving my buddy and I the evil eye so I went around the outside so he couldn’t see me approach her.

I strike up a conversation with her. Turns out she is a Bud Light Promo model. Lol. I bust her balls and ask her if the guy she was with was her little brother, she claims he was just a friend but that’s what they always say. I tell her I’m a male dancer living on tips and a trust fund. We had a few good laughs out of that. Asked for the number and got it.

Went to a 2nd place and right when we were rolling up every one was leaving. We happened to be in my car with the top down which draws lots of attention. Female’s become far more friendly and are willing to approach when I’m in this car. There was a good looking mid 30’s HB9 getting into an Uber so I asked her why everybody was leaving. She said the band was done, but there was another band playing at a different venue.

We head off to the venue she suggested and after 30 minutes she finds me. I had no clue she was even there. We talked a little, tells me she is Russian and I realize she is there with some old guy. Tells me that is her husband which I am surprised because of how flirty she was. I build a little rapport with him and ask if I can dance with his girl. Her and I make our way to the dance floor and I thought I was getting a lap dance from a $tripper. At one point I’m sitting in the chair and she has her crotch in my face. Totally Hot stuff and the entire place is watching! I guarantee she was an internet bride this guy met off some foreign dating site. I didn’t bother asking for the number although I’m sure I could have got it. It’s a shame her husband puts up with her behavior.

That little display the Russian hottie did got the attention of the other girls and a little competition anxiety played right into my hand as it wasn’t 10minutes later and another chic came to sit down at our table. This girl is a late 30’s HB8 from Brazil. We talk and dance for a half hour and then she writes her name on a napkin. I’m like….”I know your name silly, its your phone number I want”. She pulls her phone out, asks me what mine was and calls my phone. As I was leaving she follows me out to the parking lot. I don’t know if she wanted to go home with me or what so I went for the make out right there and told her I had to go to work early. By the time I got home she sent a “glad I met you text” .

I wasn’t even dressed to be going out to any clubs. I had on jeans/tight fitting t-shirt/hat/sandles! I was just there to have a good time, the focus wasn’t on women. It also helped that we didn’t have much competition. I’ve said it before, but those of you that are afraid to dance need to learn. It will open doors for you when it comes to getting women. In the early days of PUA, they used to push “kino”…..well dancing is the ultimate and most natural form of kino that you can do. Use it to your benefit. Women let their guard down when proper comfort has been built which is why conversation/kino is very important.

Overall, we had a blast. No cheesy pua lines. Just a few laughs, a little touching, a little teasing, and some light conversation. Sure beats the hell out of biatches on Tinder/Bumble seeking custom tailored men to meet their over the top specifications then ghosting when they get their dose of validation.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Decided to go out Sunday night for a drink with a buddy. Stopped in at a sports bar, and the place was pretty dead. There happened to be one really hot looking late 20’s blonde that was on what looked like a date.

She looked pretty bored with this guy and he was pretty lame. He looked like an uptight, conservative, clueless, Ivy league frat boy complete with a polo. There was nothing edgy about this guy, totally safe and unintimidating.

The girl was his polar opposite. 5’5” , 110lbs, long blonde hair, fake boobs, couple tats, perfect body, great face, and wearing some revealing clothes. Definitely HB9. I didn’t care if she was on a date or not, she was hot and I was going to talk to her!

I got my chance when she went outside to smoke. Her “date” got paranoid when she left him at the table by himself and started giving my buddy and I the evil eye so I went around the outside so he couldn’t see me approach her.

I strike up a conversation with her. Turns out she is a Bud Light Promo model. Lol. I bust her balls and ask her if the guy she was with was her little brother, she claims he was just a friend but that’s what they always say. I tell her I’m a male dancer living on tips and a trust fund. We had a few good laughs out of that. Asked for the number and got it.

Went to a 2nd place and right when we were rolling up every one was leaving. We happened to be in my car with the top down which draws lots of attention. Female’s become far more friendly and are willing to approach when I’m in this car. There was a good looking mid 30’s HB9 getting into an Uber so I asked her why everybody was leaving. She said the band was done, but there was another band playing at a different venue.

We head off to the venue she suggested and after 30 minutes she finds me. I had no clue she was even there. We talked a little, tells me she is Russian and I realize she is there with some old guy. Tells me that is her husband which I am surprised because of how flirty she was. I build a little rapport with him and ask if I can dance with his girl. Her and I make our way to the dance floor and I thought I was getting a lap dance from a $tripper. At one point I’m sitting in the chair and she has her crotch in my face. Totally Hot stuff and the entire place is watching! I guarantee she was an internet bride this guy met off some foreign dating site. I didn’t bother asking for the number although I’m sure I could have got it. It’s a shame her husband puts up with her behavior.

That little display the Russian hottie did got the attention of the other girls and a little competition anxiety played right into my hand as it wasn’t 10minutes later and another chic came to sit down at our table. This girl is a late 30’s HB8 from Brazil. We talk and dance for a half hour and then she writes her name on a napkin. I’m like….”I know your name silly, its your phone number I want”. She pulls her phone out, asks me what mine was and calls my phone. As I was leaving she follows me out to the parking lot. I don’t know if she wanted to go home with me or what so I went for the make out right there and told her I had to go to work early. By the time I got home she sent a “glad I met you text” .

I wasn’t even dressed to be going out to any clubs. I had on jeans/tight fitting t-shirt/hat/sandles! I was just there to have a good time, the focus wasn’t on women. It also helped that we didn’t have much competition. I’ve said it before, but those of you that are afraid to dance need to learn. It will open doors for you when it comes to getting women. In the early days of PUA, they used to push “kino”…..well dancing is the ultimate and most natural form of kino that you can do. Use it to your benefit. Women let their guard down when proper comfort has been built which is why conversation/kino is very important.

Overall, we had a blast. No cheesy pua lines. Just a few laughs, a little touching, a little teasing, and some light conversation. Sure beats the hell out of biatches on Tinder/Bumble seeking custom tailored men to meet their over the top specifications then ghosting when they get their dose of validation.
And that is exactly how it's done Gents. Tip of the hat Howie :)
 

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Nicely done bro!
 

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I post these field reports to try and encourage others, especially the less experienced guys or those who are burnt out on OLD and looking for something much more productive. Back in the day, field reports were pretty common on this forum and some were highly entertaining.

The last few months OLD hasn't produced very good results for me like it once did, so I've spent time on girls in my social circle and in the night life scene. Its way more fun, and not such a beat down. There is more than one way to skin the cat, always good to explore alternative arena's.
 
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