"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
Everybody has their opinion. How did you arrive at this hypothesis and what’s the meaning of life then?
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Literally, to reproduce.
As is the purpose of a bacteria's life.
Because I know about science and evolution. Do chimpanzees have an afterlife? What about lizards or fungi? We share most of our DNA with even very distant species.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
Links to any without a shadow of doubt factual evidence disproving the afterlife?
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Science books. Piece it together yourself.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
Okay, thanks Rich
Spot on. That's why he's getting clowned.
Think of anybody you may consider "alpha" outside of yourself, of course
do you think they would really carry on like this creep?No man who is secure in his confident masculinity goes around acting like that.
I want the guy to heal though. He's what @tennacity used to call a cartoon alpha
It's very possible. I don't agree.
Yeah that's pretty much were he's getting clowned. Well, delivery? or trying to insult the audience? I always ask myself when someone is delivering a message (especially online)
.....How would this come across if he and I were sat there sharing a glass of Laphroaig 18 year and chatting away?
Now, if he would present the message in the same way face to face, I may have to step back and go ....."wow quite a guy" or I may
just shovel a glass into his face and follow it up with an elbow to the jaw....that mean I'm an internet "hard guy"?
No, that means I'm a male who probably wouldn't listen to that ****e face to face (which doesn't make me special, any of you living in the real world knows that......the fellas gonna react.)
Inconclusion, anyone speaking that way on the internet....usually is full of fvcking ****e
Amen.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I learned.
Ha, it's the only way they can start learning short of multiple near death experiences .
And if you treat them like gold their guaranteed to treat you like garbage .