What's with the mentally ill women

[051AV]

I'm in the trades so I watch stuff related to that on youtube and Instagram especially women in trades as its good to see it changing from a male oriented career. One of the women I was following on IG, chatting with her about how she learned her skills etc she was interesting. Then all of a sudden she blocks me out of the blue for no reason, wtf is with her. I recently find out she suffers from mental health issues, she had a rough childhood. That explains it, must have said something to her that triggered something

I've been noticing that millennial women seem to have mental health issues, the parents in the 80s-90s didn't know how to raise their children or what? I'm a Gen X the women I grew up with mental health issues didn't seem that prevalent as it is in millennial women, my ex is a millennial she's mentally ill. The Gen X women get issues later on in life when the baggage starts piling up, millennials are damaged right off the bat, later in life when the baggage piles up

Once you've been with a mentally ill woman you have very low tolerance interacting with a woman with mental illness even if its just a friend only basis. I could careless she's blocked me now that I've found out this woman has mental health issues. Life for her husband must be living hell.

 

[marmel75]

They have been allowed to use these excuses as a crutch their whole lives instead of demanding they stand on their own two feet like we do with men(although not so much anymore) .

As such, whenever any adversity comes up they jump to use this excuse for their behavior and are continuously allowed to get away with it. Its a learned behavior...similar to Pavlov's dogs with their dinner bowls.

 

[ohrein]

It's everyone who has mental health issues now. It's not a simple "this is the reason" that mental illness is on the rise but there are a bunch of factors I think that are at play.

Consumerism is a big one, amplified today by social media. The constant stream of "beautiful" things and people that make your life look bland by comparison. The lack of value structures with the decline of religion (not advocating for religion here, just making an observation) has created a massive nihilistic vacuum as predicted by Nietzsche (God Is Dead). Without meaning in our lives, we try to create it with consumerism. I think the fact philosophy is not taught as a core subject means people have no respect or understanding of values as well, so they don't even understand how the loss of religion is impacting themselves and society. This ties into one of the biggest causes which is entitlement. We live in a culture of rights, and as Jordan Peterson would say, not responsibility. People have this strange belief that they are somehow owed the life they desire (and they don't even know what life they desire), simply because they exist. This belief is again a result of the lack of philosophy. People don't understand where ethics (rights) come from. They are born into a society that shelters them and believe they are entitled to it simply because it's how they have lived. But morality is constructed and fluid and exists purely as a result of the system so many people despise. Ironically the same system that allows consumerism.

Wow, this rant went off the rails. Anyway, best thing people can do for their mental health is take ownership of it. That's what cured me. But it's very difficult to do as a result of how sheltered we are all raised.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

 

[051AV]

Another young lady watch her YT she had a mental break down, you could see it coming she was running away from her problems it caught up to her. It seems like more and more women are suffering from anxiety or depression, with anxiety being the more prevalent.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I'm in the trades so I watch stuff related to that on youtube and Instagram especially women in trades as its good to see it changing from a male oriented career. One of the women I was following on IG, chatting with her about how she learned her skills etc she was interesting. Then all of a sudden she blocks me out of the blue for no reason, wtf is with her. I recently find out she suffers from mental health issues, she had a rough childhood. That explains it, must have said something to her that triggered something

I've been noticing that millennial women seem to have mental health issues, the parents in the 80s-90s didn't know how to raise their children or what? I'm a Gen X the women I grew up with mental health issues didn't seem that prevalent as it is in millennial women, my ex is a millennial she's mentally ill. The Gen X women get issues later on in life when the baggage starts piling up, millennials are damaged right off the bat, later in life when the baggage piles up

Once you've been with a mentally ill woman you have very low tolerance interacting with a woman with mental illness even if its just a friend only basis. I could careless she's blocked me now that I've found out this woman has mental health issues. Life for her husband must be living hell.

We haven't had a strong generation since WW2.

Strong men --> good times --> weak men --> weak children --> weaker children --> even weaker children --> transsexuals --> nuclear war --> strong men

 

[Billtx49]

Anxiety in particular is absolutely exploding. I think it has changed the game, you need to walk more on eggshells than you used to, and it's more difficult to make the first move imo.

Yes, but on the other hand, if she’s on SSRI’s you are missing out on the womans full positive and negative emotional aspects. Women are emotional beings and if those emotions are being blocked by drugs at some level, what are you getting from her?
Nothing close to the real deal…

 

[The Duke]

Recently, I had an old high school friend visiting from out of town that I took out to a big dance/night club. He asked two girls to dance and got turned down. The rejection coupled with the size of this place and the huge crowd caused his anxiety to sky rocket and sent him into an irrational rage. He couldn't find me and that pizzed him off even more while he assumed I left. Once he finds me he starts blaming his problems on everyone but himself and tells me he is leaving. We were there with some others so it caused a big scene and was slightly awkward. He ends up taking an Uber to a $trip club a few miles away.

On the way home I told him that I would never tolerate that behavior again from him and that was the last time I'd ever take him out and he reminded me of some chic! I've put up with that schitt too many times from women, and I have zero tolerance for it coming from men.

The next day he thanks me and says he has let his anxiety get out of control many times in the past with friends in similar settings and they always tolerated it and gave him sympathy. He said I was the only one that ever called him out on his schitt. He realizes its something he needs to work until, but until you hold their ass to the fire they never will.

Too many snowflakes worried about the drama/fallout that comes when you hold some one accountable so as a result we don't! Its why we are in the mess we are in. The parents of these millennials are a great example.

 

[R.U.G.]

Anxiety in particular is absolutely exploding. I think it has changed the game, you need to walk more on eggshells than you used to, and it's more difficult to make the first move imo.

The last three women I dated and fvcked, I later found out were on either two or three SSRIs. WTF. One had never climaxed ever from any type of intercourse. I was down on her for an hour it seemed. Then penetration, nothing. She said it was the meds. We didn't last much longer after that.

You need to check them for STDs and now SSRIs. We're heading for a painful rock hard landing straight to ground zero for mankind.

 

[Dingo]

I don't envy you young Turks with all these crazy ass women...

 

[R.U.G.]

I don't envy you young Turks with all these crazy ass women...

Yea, it's bad. Every one of them wants to be like Cardi-B, Kim Kardashian, or some other celeb. They do not know that those are 1 in a billion and pure luck. THEY are not them. There's no privacy any more and women care more about now than tomorrow until it's too late. Instead of fixing issues and situations, they take a pill for it. Fvcked up world. People dealt with problems for thousands of years. In the last 30, there's now a pill for it. Yet, the side effects are worst than what they treat. It could also be a reason for all the fvcked up screwed up kids that are now being born with all these problems.

I was with another women the other day who's 39. She wants a set of her own. She'll be 40 this year. ???

 

[Billtx49]

She said it was the meds. We didn't last much longer after that.

You need to check them for STDs and now SSRIs.

Yep, Any script intake by her needs to be checked out as early as possible.…
It’s always better to know what she’s bringing, or not, to the table.

 

[Mazer]

Whats funny is my two guy friends have been in a LTR with their women who have been on SSRI medication for a few years for depression and anxiety. They couldnt be happier. I started getting anxiety two years ago, started with a panic attack out of the blue. It was worse than the feeling of a cold approach for the first time. However I do not take medication, I just push through. I sympathize with women who are on medication and the two women I was seeing were sex fiends. This day and age I assume most have taken some sort of SSRI medication. Most women should be on drugs anyway because most are bat **** crazy.

 

[Red Legg]

Whats funny is my two guy friends have been in a LTR with their women who have been on SSRI medication for a few years for depression and anxiety. They couldnt be happier. I started getting anxiety two years ago, started with a panic attack out of the blue. It was worse than the feeling of a cold approach for the first time. However I do not take medication, I just push through. I sympathize with women who are on medication and the two women I was seeing were sex fiends. This day and age I assume most have taken some sort of SSRI medication. Most women should be on drugs anyway because most are bat **** crazy.

The best sex I ever had was with a BPD who was on about 7 different meds,but she was the manager of a shoe store and is now the district manager very high functioning BPD's are by far the craziest.

 

[051AV]

My ex is on SSRI Zoloft and Ritalin plus some other medication I forgot what it was, she was emotionally numb that's for sure, when the meds wore off you could see the emotions. The thought of sex wasn't even there it actually turned her off, caressing her skin or touching her really didn't do nothing at all, I really wondered if she thought she was sexy.

She suffers from anxiety she tried to keep it under control but it was right under the surface, she had her life planned to the second, she couldn't handle change, things didn't go the way she planned it would make her anxious, I could see it in her eyes when she was feeling really anxious.

I suffered from depression (not clinical) the job I was in was toxic, the whole corporation breeds toxicity, I was suffering from job burn out, it felt like I was going no where in the job. Management couldn't give two sh*ts about me I saved managements bacon so many times. There were days I thought would anybody miss me? at the time I was lower than low, frustrated and upset. Today that's all changed I have a positive attitude, I work for a company where I'm recognized and its not toxic. A woman I worked with at the corporation she was middle management they harassed her she suffered from mental abuse her bosses would throw her under the bus.

As I said in a previous post it seems like people suffer from anxiety more than ever, not sure why, I get anxious occasionally if I'm doing something that I've never done before but otherwise I'm calm cool collected. The co-workers at the corporation wondered how I could stay so calm when things got messed up, I can think fast, problem solve on the fly get things running straight again.