"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rapport101

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I was being sued about a year and a half ago and got this lawyer. She’s a smoke show. I wasn’t very nice to her and ended up firing her because she was a junior lawyer and sucked. Anyway I matched with her on tinder and would love to hit that up.

Just need a couple tips for openers/breaking the ice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tell her she looks good and ask her what new and exciting stuff she has been up to.
 

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So you werent very nice to her and you fired her........and she still matched on Tinder? She probably was machine gun swiping and didnt even realize it.

If it were me, I would go into the convo acting like you dont even remember her........
 

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So you werent very nice to her and you fired her........and she still matched on Tinder? She probably was machine gun swiping and didnt even realize it.

If it were me, I would go into the convo acting like you dont even remember her........
In all fairness she wasn’t very nice to me either. But it was different. Sometimes we were nice and joked around and sometimes we argued. I thought it was kind of f.u.c.ked because talking to her was like talking to a girlfriend or something, not my lawyer. Was a bit flirtatious. Definitely agree to act like I don’t remember. My feeling on it is that she’s going to be a freak in bed.
 

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In all fairness she wasn’t very nice to me either. But it was different. Sometimes we were nice and joked around and sometimes we argued. I thought it was kind of f.u.c.ked because talking to her was like talking to a girlfriend or something, not my lawyer. Was a bit flirtatious. Definitely agree to act like I don’t remember. My feeling on it is that she’s going to be a freak in bed.
So invite her out and escalate.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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