"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Guys here in their 30s (or even 20s) who are balding

bigdave17

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What did you decide to do? Are you shaving the head, getting a hair transplant or just rocking the receded look?


Have you had any less attention from women since losing hair?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigdave17

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Chop that ****. Don't even attempt to hold on to it if it wants to go.
you're black

black men lose nothing by shaving their heads. Lots of white guys look like terrible cancer patients bald
 

bigdave17

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Grow beard. If you have a white collar job do stubble.
Some guys can't grow beards

I have fantastic beard genetics but me with facial hair and bald head = looking about 40 instead of 29
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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R.U.G.

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You can get some good sh!t at Minoxidil Max's web site. Also take Toco-Sorb available from GNC. Both worked wonders for me.
 

The Duke

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I just pull my back hair out and glue it to my head. Way cheaper that way.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Pasty white guys have two options: beard game, hat game. For those who refuse beard and hat game feast your eyes and pick your poison.

 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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R.U.G.

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If you catch it early enough, you'll be fine. Mine reversed in the early 30's by using what I suggested above. If you wait to late, then you will be screwed. Unless you want to look like a cue ball. Not many white breads can pull that sh!t off. Then again, if you are built like a motherfvcker and have a decent tan, then it may work.
 
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