Do I need to relax my standards on women's body?

[oldmanofthesea]

Go to as many Crossfit gyms as you can find. That's where girls who look like this hang out.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm not getting into a relationship with anybody unless they're genuinely a fantastic person through and through

and women with bodies like that are nowhere near dime a dozen, what are you smoking bro? 90% of women nowadays are either fat or frumpy/avg bodies

So we need to worry about being successful "players" first. It doesn't have to be a bad thing at all.

Yes you need standards in line with what you can actually get and not models

He can get them. He has to market himself correctly . They are going to be a host of problems compared to other females .

 

[QuadDeuces]

So let's say magically the 10/10 girl appears from your opening post.
You had a great first 3 dates, smashed on 2 dates, amazing sex.

Now what?
You found your unicorn, your princess, she has every straight guy on the planet as her option. You have only the fat cashier at the gas station who told a friend she likes you as an option.

She is gonna shyt test the hell out of you, you got that premium pvssy, what are you gonna do now?
Getting the chicks is easy, keeping the chicks coming back is where the true pimp game comes in.
When you start dating 10/10's you inevitably turn into a scarce "keeping" her mode, afraid to let your unicorn go. You basically turn into her slave or into a bitter tyrant who is going to use physical force to keep her around.

You must be able to drop a girl and replace her, without the slightest emotional attachment. Because ironically if she senses that she is replacable she will come back. But if she senses that she is your unicorn, oh boy, she is going to take you on a roller coaster ride.

So I suggest first start dating in a catergory of girls where you don't care whether you keep them around or lose them. Develop your confidence and pimp game. Then move up in ranks and keep all kinds of options hot. make sure you always have a flock of different kinds of women around you, available to you, make women fight to be your priority girl.
Push Pull, direct your attention to other chicks, triangulation, are very powerful tools to keep a chick addicted to you. Especially in 2018 where practically every millennial is an entitled narcissist who craves superficial egoic validation like a junkie.
By giving it to them and taking it away and giving it to others you can turn the hottest chicks into your slaves.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So let's say magically the 10/10 girl appears from your opening post.
You had a great first 3 dates, smashed on 2 dates, amazing sex.

Now what?
You found your unicorn, your princess, she has every straight guy on the planet as her option. You have only the fat cashier at the gas station who told a friend she likes you as an option.

She is gonna shyt test the hell out of you, you got that premium pvssy, what are you gonna do now?
Getting the chicks is easy, keeping the chicks coming back is where the true pimp game comes in.
When you start dating 10/10's you inevitably turn into a scarce "keeping" her mode, afraid to let your unicorn go. You basically turn into her slave or into a bitter tyrant who is going to use physical force to keep her around.

You must be able to drop a girl and replace her, without the slightest emotional attachment. Because ironically if she senses that she is replacable she will come back. But if she senses that she is your unicorn, oh boy, she is going to take you on a roller coaster ride.

So I suggest first start dating in a catergory of girls where you don't care whether you keep them around or lose them. Develop your confidence and pimp game. Then move up in ranks and keep all kinds of options hot. make sure you always have a flock of different kinds of women around you, available to you, make women fight to be your priority girl.
Push Pull, direct your attention to other chicks, triangulation, are very powerful tools to keep a chick addicted to you. Especially in 2018 where practically every millennial is an entitled narcissist who craves superficial egoic validation like a junkie.
By giving it to them and taking it away and giving it to others you can turn the hottest chicks into your slaves.

The fine ones or the crooks you shouldn't care to keep, have them while you have them and drop them when they become an issue . Keep the ones around who help you and do things for you.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Can he with his mindset get them? I actually have similar stats as he does plus actually have game and sanity and those women would be a huge reach for me

All I was saying is it is physically possible . Like if he was a drug dealer in her party circles he could phvck them, or a club promoter, or he was a manager or executive in a company that models buy things from . His mindset kills the possibility. I think he needs to work himself up the ladder till he feels they are LUCKY to have him .

 

[BeTheChange]

Can he with his mindset get them? I actually have similar stats as he does plus actually have game and sanity and those women would be a huge reach for me

Not necessarily. A lot of it is contextual, as well as being personality and situation dependent. My current plate / quasi-gf has a similar body to the chick in the OP. Thick legs, fat ass, slim waist. The kind of body you can only achieve from years of training. She's been doing martial arts since she could walk, black belt by her early teens. Personally has one of the best bodies I have ever seen. No exaggeration.

Looking at her relationship history all her previous bfs were good looking gym rats but didn't have much else going for them. Of course as we know for women in the 15 - 24 bracket that' pretty much all that matters.

If you have great body (jacked, with six pack) and a good job and a solid social circle and game you are in the top 1% of men. Hot girls are more common than we are. Trust me. Shoot for the moon. You might surprise yourself.

OP - go offline.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Can he with his mindset get them? I actually have similar stats as he does plus actually have game and sanity and those women would be a huge reach for me

1. Those girls are not worth as much as they think they are. Maybe 1% of what they think they are, if all they have going for them is their body.

2. You just need money. LOTS OF IT. Dave thinks he's rich, but he's not. Notice he was nowhere to be found in the real estate investing discussion. Also, you can't be a wuss and get those girls.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

1. Those girls are not worth as much as they think they are. Maybe 1% of what they think they are, if all they have going for them is their body.

2. You just need money. LOTS OF IT. Dave thinks he's rich, but he's not. Notice he was nowhere to be found in the real estate investing discussion. Also, you can't be a wuss and get those girls.

If he has money and no game they can use him as a sucker and he can even be used and get no sex.

 

[Von]

Even if OP approach the girl... Why would she go with him?

He's a 1% man, so she can get 1% man.

OP will need game to beat the other 1% man.

Or the girl will go with the 0.1%to 0.9% men.. Or a 1% man with game.

Beside why are we answering the thread? As soon he's challenged or dont like the answers he's getting.. He will pop another thread

 

[RichardTheFrog]

If he has money and no game they can use him as a sucker and he can even be used and get no sex.

Very few people are actually that stupid.

 

[Bible_Belt]

The pic in the original post looks photoshopped to make her ass bigger.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Even if OP approach the girl... Why would she go with him?

He's a 1% man, so she can get 1% man.

OP will need game to beat the other 1% man.

Or the girl will go with the 0.1%to 0.9% men.. Or a 1% man with game.

Beside why are we answering the thread? As soon he's challenged or dont like the answers he's getting.. He will pop another thread

We're putting this b1tch on a pedestal, knowing nothing about her except that she has a butt.

 

[Paarth Shah]

did you read the thread bro?

I'm good looking, ripped and rich...but I'm only about a 7/10 in the face which makes it difficult to do online dating

7/10 is not bad, you could probably pull plenty ass with that.

 

[greatsnake]

it's good to have standards, but being realistic also increases your chances of getting laid.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

it's good to have standards, but being realistic also increases your chances of getting laid.

So does not putting someone on a pedestal just because they have certain body parts.

That girl has nothing to offer me that a hooker can't do. Other than that, she would be a liability. A very pretentious liability.

 

[bigdave17]

Yes you need standards in line with what you can actually get and not models

you guys got it wrong

I want a 6-8/10 with fantastic body. im not looking for a 10

 

[mrgoodstuff]

you guys got it wrong

I want a 6-8/10 with fantastic body. im not looking for a 10

If you worked your stuff right you could have a rotation of them .

 

[guru1000]

Dime a dozen. L-i-t-e-r-a-l-l-y.

Getting a girl < Keeping her
Keeping her < Making her a trooper
Making her a trooper < Making an army of troopers

Dave, you are at the elementary level of just trying to get one girl. You have a mountain of work ahead of you in learning how to make troopers out of an army.

 

[bigdave17]

I have been involved with women that look similar, it's just extremely unstable and high maintenance. I'm more about my sweet spot, low maintenance.



You think she's a 6?

6-8 face with great body is what I want

the girl in the OP is way more attractive than what I require. I just used that pic to show what body I like

 

[BeTheChange]

I have been involved with women that look similar, it's just extremely unstable and high maintenance. I'm more about my sweet spot, low maintenance.

Girl in question is the least high maintenance girl I have ever been with. Provided you have high enough value and they arent crazy, hot chicks, contrary to what this site tells you (and apparently your own experience), are suprisingly easy to deal with. They are generally more positive and fun to be around precisely because they've never had to deal with the baggage ugly chicks get handed.

It's all about perception. Women don't mess around with guys they view as scarce unless they are mentally unstable, insecure or have no interest in monogamy. Been with this girl for 6 months now. Zero sh*t tests.