Not giving a fvck leads to results

[user43770]

Yeah...sometimes you have to do what you have to do tho...

I think you're full of sh1t.

Married guy, spends all of his time on a pick-up forum preaching the sex god method like he came up with it lol.

Then tells a bunch of noobs to put themselves in a situation that might end up in gym banning or jail time.

Fvcking champ.

 

[The Diver]

I think you're full of sh1t.

Married guy, spends all of his time on a pick-up forum preaching the sex god method like he came up with it lol.

Then tells a bunch of noobs to put themselves in a situation that might end up in gym banning or jail time.

Fvcking champ.

Got my popcorn and drink, show time,,,, Lol

 

[user43770]

Married guys always like to tell you how the game is.

 

[skinnyguy]

LOL Marmel is married?????

 

[user43770]

LOL Marmel is married?????

Marmel gives good advice. I'm just saying he's full of sh1t

 

[skinnyguy]

Marmel gives good advice. I'm just saying he's full of sh1t

He is Poon King version 2. Gets lots of likes but personally attacks members who don’t agree with him

 

[user43770]

He is Poon King version 2. Gets lots of likes but personally attacks members who don’t agree with him

No. Marmel is no poon king.

Not that that's a bad thing. We need marmel's just as bad as we need poon kings. Sousuave has never been a monopoly on thoughts.

 

[user43770]

Not to say that marmel isn't full of sh1t. I think he is

 

[Murk]

He’s hit and miss, I enjoy his advice, sometimes he will just repeat what many have already said in a thread which I hate, sometimes he will be rude. Overall I want advice from non-married guys in the field battling these wh0res, but good advice is always useful so I like marmel.

 

[marmel75]

I think you're full of sh1t.

Married guy, spends all of his time on a pick-up forum preaching the sex god method like he came up with it lol.

Then tells a bunch of noobs to put themselves in a situation that might end up in gym banning or jail time.

Fvcking champ.

Ok first of all, I think people need to learn the fvcking law. Sexual Harrasment is an EMPLOYER BASED STATUTE. Meaning that this only applies while AT WORK or if you are out with someone from work. It DOES NOT APPLY to random encounters with people.

Second of all, I hardly spend all my time here. If I did I would have far more posts than I do. I joined Jan 2012 meaning I've been here 74 months roughly. 5316 posts in 74 months is 70 a month or 2.3 per day. Hardly the stuff of someone spending "all his time here".

Third, you can believe whatever you'd like. I know some disagree with what I say and do, and that's fine. There is no right or wrong way that works for every person. I know what personally works for me. And yes I am married, but I have probably banged more chicks and been on more dates than at least half the single guys on this board in the past 3 years. I'm not proud of this and I have basically been off the grid with for a little over a year but this chicks ass was too amazing to pass up. She has that "I like to fvck" look on top of it too. Poon King? No not even close. But I have brought myself up from terrible to pretty good with women via hard work, analyzing post dates that led to changes in date and results. Better results than many here get I'm quite positive of based on posts, married or unmarried. Morally bankrupt? Maybe...I have urges and I succumb to them. So in that way i lack self control I suppose. Ive been trying really really hard over the last year to suppress them but its at the point now that the beast wants to come out. Poor girl has no idea what awaits her in the bedroom...she will probably love it tho...they almost all do.

Fourthly, i had never even heard of the "Sex God Method" until people mentioned it on this board. I looked it up yesterday and saw its a book...never read it. I have mentioned numerous times that quite a bit of what i talk about has been from personal practice which was put into practice after watching a video series called 2 Women Teach Sex. Far better than any book could possibly be. Its like 12 hours long and talks about pretty much everything and anything created by 2 porn stars nymphos.

 

[zekko]

Ok first of all, I think people need to learn the fvcking law. Sexual Harrasment is an EMPLOYER BASED STATUTE. Meaning that this only applies while AT WORK or if you are out with someone from work. It DOES NOT APPLY to random encounters with people

Be that as it may, your remarks could have gotten you banned from the gym had she complained.
And depending on where you live, your state could have laws against making lewd comments or remarks about her sexuality or body that make her uncomfortable that could be considered disorderly behavior. But I guess that's where the "not giving a fvck" comes in.

Just to be clear, I'm not being critical of your actions, I'm just saying that something like this could go wrong for some people, especially if they have a creepy vibe or are not well calibrated or experienced.

 

[Macaframalama]

Does no one understand context anymore?

saw her kinda checking me out

She smiled back

noticed her in my vicinity a few times as i went about my business.

She laughed and was like "Whatever! You wish!" But she was still smiling.

She got all red in the face but kept smiling

Situational/social awareness and calibration folks. Naysayers learn to read between the lines. The devil is in the details. Great post @marmel75

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

It's an experience thing. Marmel is clearly experienced, and can read the signs correctly.

By contrast, someone less experienced in bold flirtation would be ill advised to try the same thing. Sometimes I'll notice a girl smiling at me and think she's into me and I'll be 100% right. But equally for a newb it's easy to mistake "flirty" gestures that are just friendly.

Then you walk up and tell her you want to slap her butt and you end up in cuffs.

If you're 100% confident of the signs you're getting, nothing wrong with being bold like that. But I'd say only a small percentage of experienced men know the appropriate time to go for something like that.

 

[zekko]

Then you walk up and tell her you want to slap her butt and you end up in cuffs.

If you're 100% confident of the signs you're getting, nothing wrong with being bold like that. But I'd say only a small percentage of experienced men know the appropriate time to go for something like that.

I agree, but if you care about this it isn't "not giving a fvck", is it?

Like Red Legg said, women favor bold action. But this is why I've never really liked the IDGAF concept. Obviously, you'd be better off "giving a fvck" than ending up in cuffs. And if you really didn't give a fvck about the girl at all, you wouldn't even bother talking to her. She wouldn't be worth the effort.
I think "Women favor bold action" (since it's masculine) is a much better lesson to take from this than "not giving a fvck".

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I agree, but if you care about this it isn't "not giving a fvck", is it?

Like Red Legg said, women favor bold action. But this is why I've never really liked the IDGAF concept. Obviously, you'd be better off "giving a fvck" than ending up in cuffs. And if you really didn't give a fvck about the girl at all, you wouldn't even bother talking to her. She wouldn't be worth the effort.
I think "Women favor bold action" (since it's masculine) is a much better lesson to take from this than "not giving a fvck".

There's the "not giving a f*ck" that comes with calculated action (Marmel's action here) - which is indeed basically boldness/courage. And then the "not giving a f*ck" that comes with just recklessly doing something like an idiot with no regard for the consequences because you don't care. And that's a bad trait.

The difference that changes between the two is acuity of observation in this case.

 

[Von]

There's the "not giving a f*ck" that comes with calculated action (Marmel's action here) - which is indeed basically boldness/courage. And then the "not giving a f*ck" that comes with just recklessly doing something like an idiot with no regard for the consequences because you don't care. And that's a bad trait.

The difference that changes between the two is acuity of observation in this case.

Agreed.

However, it's applying the "technique" like it's a natural behaviour for OP.

He's outcome indépendant too.

That's why practice is important, it makes you perfect (and natural)

 

[user43770]

Ok first of all, I think people need to learn the fvcking law. Sexual Harrasment is an EMPLOYER BASED STATUTE. Meaning that this only applies while AT WORK or if you are out with someone from work. It DOES NOT APPLY to random encounters with people.

Second of all, I hardly spend all my time here. If I did I would have far more posts than I do. I joined Jan 2012 meaning I've been here 74 months roughly. 5316 posts in 74 months is 70 a month or 2.3 per day. Hardly the stuff of someone spending "all his time here".

Third, you can believe whatever you'd like. I know some disagree with what I say and do, and that's fine. There is no right or wrong way that works for every person. I know what personally works for me. And yes I am married, but I have probably banged more chicks and been on more dates than at least half the single guys on this board in the past 3 years. I'm not proud of this and I have basically been off the grid with for a little over a year but this chicks ass was too amazing to pass up. She has that "I like to fvck" look on top of it too. Poon King? No not even close. But I have brought myself up from terrible to pretty good with women via hard work, analyzing post dates that led to changes in date and results. Better results than many here get I'm quite positive of based on posts, married or unmarried. Morally bankrupt? Maybe...I have urges and I succumb to them. So in that way i lack self control I suppose. Ive been trying really really hard over the last year to suppress them but its at the point now that the beast wants to come out. Poor girl has no idea what awaits her in the bedroom...she will probably love it tho...they almost all do.

Fourthly, i had never even heard of the "Sex God Method" until people mentioned it on this board. I looked it up yesterday and saw its a book...never read it. I have mentioned numerous times that quite a bit of what i talk about has been from personal practice which was put into practice after watching a video series called 2 Women Teach Sex. Far better than any book could possibly be. Its like 12 hours long and talks about pretty much everything and anything created by 2 porn stars nymphos.

I like your posts, bud. Just giving you sh1t.

 

[user43770]

I agree, but if you care about this it isn't "not giving a fvck", is it?

Like Red Legg said, women favor bold action. But this is why I've never really liked the IDGAF concept. Obviously, you'd be better off "giving a fvck" than ending up in cuffs. And if you really didn't give a fvck about the girl at all, you wouldn't even bother talking to her. She wouldn't be worth the effort.
I think "Women favor bold action" (since it's masculine) is a much better lesson to take from this than "not giving a fvck".

I'm getting sick and tired of you seeing all points of view. Wisdom is for pvssies

Bold action gets panties wet. Not necessarily bold mouth. Know the difference between the two and you're a G.

Most guys need to do something bold to shock themselves out of their slumber. Myself included.

Life gets boring when you have a 9-5. Same sh1t, day after day. Do this, do that, reply to this...fvck off already.

Making questionable comments to cute women might not end up well, but you're life will certainly be more interesting in the long run lol

 

[Macaframalama]

I think being slapped into cuffs for a verbal comment like the one op made is an extreme example anyways. Especially, in the states. I'm not even going to interject my opinion of "bowing out" to such nonsense. I will be criminalized, before emasculated, period! I also, think the op missed a perfect opportunity to instruct others of the social cues an point them out independently or maybe go a little more in depth with dissecting the ins and outs of the interaction for those just starting out, but this is what the forum is for and here we are. Also, this chit isn't rocket science and ppl need to change their perception that it is. Noob or not. All it takes is a willingness to do and doing it on a frequent basis. The forum is a great whiteboard for sharing ideas, however you can draw X's and O's all fvcking day long, but executing your game plan on the field is a whole different ball game. Experience... Success with women... It's out here to be taken and it's simple to the very few men in this world that understand, when to take what is given to you and what is yours. OP was given the greenlight and seized the opportunity.

 

[user43770]

I think being slapped into cuffs for a verbal comment like the one op made is an extreme example anyways. Especially, in the states. I'm not even going to interject my opinion of "bowing out" to such nonsense. I will be criminalized, before emasculated, period! I also, think the op missed a perfect opportunity to instruct others of the social cues an point them out independently or maybe go a little more in depth with dissecting the ins and outs of the interaction for those just starting out, but this is what the forum is for and here we are. Also, this chit isn't rocket science and ppl need to change their perception that it is. Noob or not. All it takes is a willingness to do and doing it on a frequent basis. The forum is a great whiteboard for sharing ideas, however you can draw X's and O's all fvcking day long, but executing your game plan on the field is a whole different ball game. Experience... Success with women... It's out here to be taken and it's simple to the very few men in this world that understand, when to take what is given to you and what is yours. OP was given the greenlight and seized the opportunity.

Right. Easy for me to say that marmel is full of sh1t, but the reactions from the female in the story justified everything he did. Social intelligence.

Still think it's good to show temperance. For the young bucks that might be reading this.

Guys need to spend a lot of time around women before they could pull off what marmel did, and even then it might end up bad.

Just being a realist.