"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do hot girls and high SMV dudes do with their lives after 30?

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That world exists. It happens in places like LA. Imagine if you’re a celeb in your 30’s. You probably have a table at Drai’s every weekend.

Major cities and small towns are polar opposites.in small towns all the high SMV people are married with 3 kids by the age of 25. In big cities they just fvck around and live large because they have more options of things to do with their time.

Paris Hilton is older than me but she only just got engaged. She partied hard in her 30’s.
Umm, she's a fitness nut and is also worth 300 million dollars. Far far from the rule.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I just get numbers and ask them out, during the date i try to be light and funny, no heavy stuff, and the result is 8 times out of 10 they wanna go out again.
And i'm not super hot, not shred, nor tall (5'8).

I mostly follow Doc Love's System, i wouldn't have half the success i have if i was "myself", i tend to get heavy, and talk too much negative stuff especially about my past.
It comes with being introverted.
Im very extroverted/positive/upbeat in addition to being very strong in all the superficial areas (rich, good looking, athletic)

I should naturally have women interested in me everywhere I go. Its so unbelievably baffling
 

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hot girls after 30: reality and real life comes crashing down on them. Options begin to decline at a dramatic pace.. by 33 only horny, desperate, loser riff raff available. Generally, even the few men they are still willing to go out on dates with will still only be using them for sex.

guys w high smv value after 30: the fun begins.. freed from the shackles of feminist style brainwashing, older men - if u do things right like stay in shape and earn some money - will only increase in value and will be able to fvck all the hot young visa slvts in their early 20s.

30s has been by far the best time of my life: not the craziest stories, but definitely the hottest women.

Agreed. Even I have changed my ways. I used to look for an LTR, but no more. I know they are only good for a few months, then either they or me move on. It's a fvcked up situation, but that is how the way the world is in NY nowadays. I get pinged by hot 38 - 42 Y.O.s all the time, but I know what they are looking for. A meal ticket to the easy life. Fvck that. Use them and abuse their orifices. Then move on.
 

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Bro, I don't ever get any dates. If a woman actually spends some time with me and gets to know me - whether it's in the woods or at a nice restaurant, they will all like me

People who spend time with me can see that I'm a great person, smart, very easy to get along with, ambitious, successful and driven. They all pretty much like me

Keep dream bro. All women are hypergamous in nature. Like and fvck are two different things. They'd like you as a beta orbiter. They'd fvck you if there was potential in whatever she's looking for in life. Never talk too much. Listen and dig deeper. Be mysterious and aloof. You will have more luck with that than being nice and assertive. Skip the nice restaurants. Pubs only. Most are looking for kids, marriage and easy street.
 

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I bet you vibe is one of locking down and qualifying for an LTR. This is 2018 most ladies will think that's wierd and it will put you at lowest consideration for sex.
This. You need to act like you do not give a fvck whether she stays, lays or prays. Read 3% man by Corey Wayne. You're too nice and too revealing. KISS. That means Keep It Simple Stupid. Less talk, more listening = more action. Why? Because she will start to wonder more about you. Stop being so available. She texts you, wait an hour or two to reply. She calls or texts you after 9pm, reply in the morning. Basic sh!t. The prob. is your game, not the women. All women are fvcked up nowadays. If a women says thanks, but no thanks. Say no problem and good luck to you. No why or chasing after. Those are beta traits.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im very extroverted/positive/upbeat in addition to being very strong in all the superficial areas (rich, good looking, athletic)

I should naturally have women interested in me everywhere I go. Its so unbelievably baffling
I'm also unemployed hahaha
 

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Keep dream bro. All women are hypergamous in nature. Like and fvck are two different things. They'd like you as a beta orbiter. They'd fvck you if there was potential in whatever she's looking for in life. Never talk too much. Listen and dig deeper. Be mysterious and aloof. You will have more luck with that than being nice and assertive. Skip the nice restaurants. Pubs only. Most are looking for kids, marriage and easy street.
im looking for kids and marriage also

You guys are so unbelievably cynical towards women. One of my female coworkers is a beautiful 35 year old woman in a marriage with a broke, unemployed, bald, lame, lazy husband. She is smart, sweet, hard working, low maintenance, not materialistic at all, etc...

there are *******s in both gender
 

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meanwhile im on track to be a millionaire by 36 and I can't get a date with anybody decent
Moral of the story, it's all about the energy you give off, sounds kind of hippie, but it's all about giving a fun, cool, laid back, got plenty of women, really care about what you have to say, don't want just sex vibe. Trully.

I've got rich friends who are still virgins in their mid 20's and penniless college student friends who get laid frequently.

Money helps, don't get me wrong, but from what i've seen, game is way more important.
 

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Moral of the story, it's all about the energy you give off, sounds kind of hippie, but it's all about giving a fun, cool, laid back, got plenty of women, really care about what you have to say, don't want just sex vibe. Trully.
...so common sense social skills that any normal person should have developed at 13

you don't think I have that being that I make friends everywhere I go and work in sales for a living?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Moral of the story, it's all about the energy you give off, sounds kind of hippie, but it's all about giving a fun, cool, laid back, got plenty of women, really care about what you have to say, don't want just sex vibe. Trully.

I've got rich friends who are still virgins in their mid 20's and penniless college student friends who get laid frequently.

Money helps, don't get me wrong, but from what i've seen, game is way more important.
Using money as a way to get girls attracts the wrong type of girls.

The guys I know who are actually good with women don’t have money
 

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...so common sense social skills that any normal person should have developed at 13

you don't think I have that being that I make friends everywhere I go and work in sales for a living?
Maybe that's the problem? Too friendly, nice and available? You HAVE to know exactly what's wrong, you have to get to a point where you are aware of every single word that comes out of your mouth and how a woman might react to it.
 

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meanwhile im on track to be a millionaire by 36 and I can't get a date with anybody decent
I'd say work on your self esteem first. The *** dumpsters will sure follow. You need to walk into a place like you own the joint. Right now, it seems you are very negative on yourself. Fix yourself and the rest will fall in line.
 

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im looking for kids and marriage also

You guys are so unbelievably cynical towards women. One of my female coworkers is a beautiful 35 year old woman in a marriage with a broke, unemployed, bald, lame, lazy husband. She is smart, sweet, hard working, low maintenance, not materialistic at all, etc...

there are *******s in both gender
You are very naive my friend. Very naive. You are going to be divorce rapped eventually because a b!tch used you for kids and a check. Wake up and open your eyes or you will be paying a very high price my friend.
 

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Maybe that's the problem? Too friendly, nice and available? You HAVE to know exactly what's wrong, you have to get to a point where you are aware of every single word that comes out of your mouth and how a woman might react to it.
Or, what I like to say, less is more. Smile, be happy go lucky. Listen and ask questions, then expand. Focus on her, not you. B!tches love to talk about themselves. Just nod your head and smile like you give a sh!t.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Or, what I like to say, less is more. Smile, be happy go lucky. Listen and ask questions, then expand. Focus on her, not you. B!tches love to talk about themselves. Just nod your head and smile like you give a sh!t.
Or, my suggestion; only go out with people you actually LIKE, then you won't have to pretend, you'll actually give a sht.

That's what i do, i don't categorize women in a binary way like most men do: would F / would not F.
I actually decide based on whether i'd be proud to take her to meet the parents and walk around in public with her or not.
The result is more caring and less pretending.
 

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Or, my suggestion; only go out with people you actually LIKE, then you won't have to pretend, you'll actually give a sht.

That's what i do, i don't categorize women in a binary way like most men do: would F / would not F.
I actually decide based on whether i'd be proud to take her to meet the parents and walk around in public with her or not.
The result is more caring and less pretending.
Perhaps, and I used to be like that too. However, if I am with a woman, there is only one reason, sex. While in a perfect world, like displayed in TV, where man meets woman, and they form an inseparable bond that cannot be broken... Yea, that doesn't exist in the real world. Perhaps due to past experiences for the woman. Their exceptions are sky high, etc. Women always have a hidden agenda. Most women with half a brain know what the man wants. It's usually no secret. If you are after something else or she thinks you are not after her slots, then you'd be friendzoned. Best to aim for the closest hole and proceed from there. That is the point. As Tom Leykis says, dating = porking. It's just the way of the world. Thank feminism. I didn't make the rules, I am just forced to play by them whether I agree with them or not.
 

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This isn't healthy and women can probably sense this.
Doubtful. This is NYC. The women here are so full of themselves, it doesn't matter. I am a gentlemen with them, and pretend to care, but that's the end game. If you are looking for a friend, OLD is not it. Check out meetup. Dating is for fvcking plan and simple. The game changed about 15 years ago when women were still women, not these feminist Nazis. You fight fire with fire. They have their agenda, and red pill men have theirs. I urge you to look up hypergamy and the modern women. Brother, your eyes are not wide open.

I am told women are different in South America. You've not experienced the crap that the men from W. Europe, Australia, New Zealand, Canada and the US experienced. Women down there are still traditional.. That no longer exists around here. Besides, your women are much better anyways.
 

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Doubtful. This is NYC. The women here are so full of themselves, it doesn't matter. I am a gentlemen with them, and pretend to care, but that's the end game. If you are looking for a friend, OLD is not it. Check out meetup. Dating is for fvcking plan and simple. The game changed about 15 years ago when women were still women, not these feminist Nazis. You fight fire with fire. They have their agenda, and red pill men have theirs. I urge you to look up hypergamy and the modern women. Brother, your eyes are not wide open.

I am told women are different in South America. You've not experienced the crap that the men from W. Europe, Australia, New Zealand, Canada and the US experienced. Women down there are still traditional.. That no longer exists around here. Besides, your women are much better anyways.
Makes sense. I also live in a small town, so it isn't hard to find good girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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