"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've just read a few sentences as of writing this post. An opening "study" is evidence of how easy it is to make a study that masks rather than shows reality.

"A study released earlier this year in the Journal of Women's Health which involved 80,000 women showed overall they became healthier when divorcing or separating from their husbands. Signs of improved health included a decrease in BMI, waist size and diastolic blood pressure, as well as better eating and greater physical activity."

So in other words, when women divorce, they start putting in effort to be more attractive since they are now single. What a tremendous insight...
 

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I've just read a few sentences as of writing this post. An opening "study" is evidence of how easy it is to make a study that masks rather than shows reality.

"A study released earlier this year in the Journal of Women's Health which involved 80,000 women showed overall they became healthier when divorcing or separating from their husbands. Signs of improved health included a decrease in BMI, waist size and diastolic blood pressure, as well as better eating and greater physical activity."

So in other words, when women divorce, they start putting in effort to be more attractive since they are now single. What a tremendous insight...
Noticed the same thing. All bitches do this lol. Then they get a man and after several weeks to several months, they turn into fat filth pigs again. They can only hold up the charade for so long. If they don’t want it for themselves, then they’ll eventually break.
 

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They think that what they have and can get in their 20s and 30s its not because of age and SMV but because of some random feature that personally belongs to them.

They should be forced to see pictures of old spinsters not any different from smokers forced to watch sick people on the cigarettes box.

I fully support freedom of choice as long as its an educated one.
 
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So in other words, when women divorce, they start putting in effort to be more attractive since they are now single. What a tremendous insight...
Yep, and the odds are if she actively and unexpectedly starts losing weight without a solid explanation while still being with you, she is probably planning on being single again soon.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So 76% of women are happy being single and alone

So 67% of men are happy being single and alone.

Guys.... We are in need of love...

The article portrays pretty much dating and the women of 21st mentality (the girl hitting the gym after love is too easy to justify)

"I wish to be treated like I desire" = girl quote from the article....

Alot of stuff can be said about the quote
 

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So 76% of women are happy being single and alone

So 67% of men are happy being single and alone.

Guys.... We are in need of love...

The article portrays pretty much dating and the women of 21st mentality (the girl hitting the gym after love is too easy to justify)

"I wish to be treated like I desire" = girl quote from the article....

Alot of stuff can be said about the quote
What they want a man to suck up to her and tolerate her getting bored and banging other dudes?
 

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MGTOW is arguably bigger than this phenomenon. Women still want to get married because they want to show wedding photos to their girlfriends.
 

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Nice article on why women are ditching men.

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-10-...hing-men-and-choosing-the-single-life/8993692

My favorite part is when dating coach Karina Pamamull says "women were increasingly saving love for later".

Fair enough, but the asking price is going plummet!
This is what True Forced Loneliness legend "Roller" Steve Hoca has always espoused, that women intentionally put themselves into "dating limbo". It seems to me that they only come out of it long enough so that when they do decide to get serious (i.e., about finding a husband, not sexing up "exciting" men), there is still a very small supply for men. In a lot of ways, this is simply denying their peak Sexual Market Value to the beta men that they consider unworthy, only allowing such men the privilege when their Sexual Market Value is reduced :mad:; of course, the alpha men get this privilege :rolleyes:.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yep, and the odds are if she actively and unexpectedly starts losing weight without a solid explanation while still being with you, she is probably planning on being single again soon.
This goes two ways. A friend of mine - who was always in fairly decent shape - started exercising a lot and getting a cool haircut & clothes, even though his wife (with his kids) was an obese frump. But when the opportunity presented itself and he had to work away from where his family lived, he went sarging like no tomorrow, eventually getting a replacement wife. (She's slender but with a pretty rough face, so I'm not sure why he did it with her.)
 

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Alrighty then. The first chick they quote in the article is a whopping 22 years old. The second chick is 39 and has been riding the carousal her whole life who is simply rationalizing away that decision.

Don't let this article or women fool you, most of them are miserable and unhappy not being in a relationship. As others have said the single women eat better and decrease their BMI because they know their only value comes from male desire. I'd like to add that most women overestimate their own SMV due to social media, so your basic HB6 thinks she's an HB8, and an HB8 thinks she's and HB10. A couple years ago I dated one of those IG gym girls with 50k+ followers. On IG she was easily an HB10, but without makeup and the camera filters she was your basic HB7 with a nice body.

Fake news.
 

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Saving love for later = beta bucks

And hitting the gym is the first thing women do after breakups. After the 3- 4 weeks of crying I mean
With all the attention they get showered with online and real life and their iphones, try 3-4 days. It's only 3-4 weeks of it was Chad, Tyrone, Hiroshi, or Punji. Even more if he was rich.

If your girl starts dropping pounds and dressing sexier, you better do likewise to get back in first place! She's looking better for Keith who checked her out in Kroger, and Kevin who plays football and designs levels for Candy Crush.

She's still pining away for the alpha, and shunning off the betas. There's still not enough alphas to go around.
 

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Alrighty then. The first chick they quote in the article is a whopping 22 years old. The second chick is 39 and has been riding the carousal her whole life who is simply rationalizing away that decision.

Don't let this article or women fool you, most of them are miserable and unhappy not being in a relationship. As others have said the single women eat better and decrease their BMI because they know their only value comes from male desire. I'd like to add that most women overestimate their own SMV due to social media, so your basic HB6 thinks she's an HB8, and an HB8 thinks she's and HB10. A couple years ago I dated one of those IG gym girls with 50k+ followers. On IG she was easily an HB10, but without makeup and the camera filters she was your basic HB7 with a nice body.

Fake news.
They all are. I'm glad you can see through the matrix.
 

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I've just read a few sentences as of writing this post. An opening "study" is evidence of how easy it is to make a study that masks rather than shows reality.

"A study released earlier this year in the Journal of Women's Health which involved 80,000 women showed overall they became healthier when divorcing or separating from their husbands. Signs of improved health included a decrease in BMI, waist size and diastolic blood pressure, as well as better eating and greater physical activity."

So in other words, when women divorce, they start putting in effort to be more attractive since they are now single. What a tremendous insight...
They want to be able to attract dudes who will tear their pvssies apart and give themmind numbingly amazing sex
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah it's pretty bad over here you even have government paid for TV ads telling women to be strong and single WTF how could that be good for the country.
 

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Is the sex robots get that smart it will be the humans that supplicate
 
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