You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What makes them want to fvck you 1-2 times?
Well I'd assume they're attracted to me. But after we've fvcked a few times they start talking about relationships and ****. But idk if I'm really trying to date anyone just yet. Still gotta think about that
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Definitely not lol. I just meant for something more casual
What is it about you that they are attracted to?
look n personality
Well one girl told me that she likes my muscles, the way I dress, and my personality. And I’ve been working on all 3. So pretty much whatever the DJ Bible says women like about a guy is true
Genghis Khan didn't see it this way. And he had more children than anyone ever. He just took what he wanted. It is only when females are protected by the law (the law created and enforced by men) that they are allowed to pretend they're in control. This is why rapes always happen in warzones as soon as the law is turned off.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Spot on
So what do I do about this if I’m not trying to be in a relationship just yet? Lol
Then that's what you tell her. Tell her that you want to go out again but you aren't looking for a wife right now lol. Or tell her that your life is super busy and you want to see her but right now you're limited on the time a relationship would consume. That always works.
What's your personality like?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Being in a relationship and consistent sex have nothing to do with each other.
I disagree with everything you said.
Why do you keep seeing the same girl if you get bored or annoyed? stop seeing her. Otherwise you keep seeing her for a reason.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.