"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ghosting

Machine10033

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just curious under what circumstances do you guys think this is ok? My situation almost crossed the line with a chick who was married.. trying to branch swing to me. Nothing physical ever happened.. she went flaky used the word love. Her husband finds texts and things blew up on her end. Went two weeks without talking after this happened but she reached out and wanted to remain friends. Over the last month I grew tired of talking to her and still pissed I let myself get into that spot and pissed she let her texts wide open on iPad when I warned her. When I would email her back i would hear how stressful things have been and how her marriage is over. I honestly feel nothing for her and just simply stopped responding to her emails. I told her when this started i never wanted to hear about her marriage or her personal issues. she crossed that boundary non stop and I had enough. I feel somewhat guilty about ghosting.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wifehunter

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When women give me problems, I dissappear.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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just curious under what circumstances do you guys think this is ok? My situation almost crossed the line with a chick who was married.. trying to branch swing to me. Nothing physical ever happened.. she went flaky used the word love. Her husband finds texts and things blew up on her end. Went two weeks without talking after this happened but she reached out and wanted to remain friends. Over the last month I grew tired of talking to her and still pissed I let myself get into that spot and pissed she let her texts wide open on iPad when I warned her. When I would email her back i would hear how stressful things have been and how her marriage is over. I honestly feel nothing for her and just simply stopped responding to her emails. I told her when this started i never wanted to hear about her marriage or her personal issues. she crossed that boundary non stop and I had enough. I feel somewhat guilty about ghosting.
Reminds me of a girl I know. Call me superstitious but, I wont **** with marriage man. I use to feel bad if a girl had a bf. Now, I do not ask. The onus is on her to shut me down or disclose. Not likely of course. Female logic.

You feel guilty about ghosting. Said woman is cheating on her husband. If not with you, someone else. A woman who is separated blew up my phone about not initiating contact. LULz

Well, if she was 18-23, it be different. There is only X amount of women a man can juggle. There is nothing profound of stealing away a ***** TS. You did it right. Now, invest your time in TOP FORM SMV POON.
 
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