Been getting the run around from this chick I haven’t banged. When we do hangout it’s always on her time. I’ve invited her to hangout 3 consecutive times and she came up with bull**** excuses every time. So I stopped replying to her bread crumb texts. So far it’s 4 unanswered texts in 2 days. I have nothing to say to her at this point. However is there a sweet spot I should be looking for? I def still want to f*ck.
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How long should I ignore this chick?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
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Give us a little more info, how many times have you hung out with her?
I would only respond to her inviting you out, everything else is just noise. plus a woman will never directly ask you to hang out, you have to know the clues. Bishes crazy. One woman I was ignoring, always sent me a photo of a lounge she used to go to or a bar, it was her way of letting me know that she wanted to hang and bang.
I would only respond to her inviting you out, everything else is just noise. plus a woman will never directly ask you to hang out, you have to know the clues. Bishes crazy. One woman I was ignoring, always sent me a photo of a lounge she used to go to or a bar, it was her way of letting me know that she wanted to hang and bang.
logicallefty
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She likely has low interest and her breadcrumb texts are only for her benefit to satisfy her need for attention. To her you are most likely just an orbiter at this point and your chance of getting the lay is relatively low. I would block her and move on. I really would.
That’s the problem though. She does invite me out for drinks. We’ve gone out 3 times, all her invites. 2 of those times her friends were there. And that’s what i mean by it being on her time only. Every time I invite her somewhere, she never accepts.
At this point, I don’t disagree. I am however expecting her to come around. The last time we hung out she was already talking about coming over to spend the night sometime. I’m just pissed off that she keeps turning down my invites. 2 of them was because she was “tired”.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Low interest. Would a woman be "tired" if Brad Pitt called her to come over? She is just keeping you on the hook. Go ghost. Ignore her text messages for a week. If she texts you after a week, invite her over to your house one last time, if she says no, then never contact her again. Stop wasting your time.
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Friend zone pal.
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No you don't block her, you literally just stop replying to her and make her see you with girls. Don't be friendly, create tension, if that doesn't work, forget about her. chances RN are very low
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.