"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stomach issues

StrayCat

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So I've been working on my health for the last year or two. Arms, bigger. Shoulders broader. Chest defined. Legs like tree trunks. Top and middle abs have definition and you can see the pack. Lower abs right above the pubic area is round and fat. Not hanging over, but not defined. A little fat on the sides, but a lot better than 1.5 years ago. I do 200+ sit-ups and leg raises ever other day. While it's helped the bottom part of the stomach is not defined. I eat a lot of protein and fruit. I've added in salads (I hate salad) and eat pretty clean and healthy. I also jog around 2 miles 4 - 5 times a week.

What am I missing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So I've been working on my health for the last year or two. Arms, bigger. Shoulders broader. Chest defined. Legs like tree trunks. Top and middle abs have definition and you can see the pack. Lower abs right above the pubic area is round and fat. Not hanging over, but not defined. A little fat on the sides, but a lot better than 1.5 years ago. I do 200+ sit-ups and leg raises ever other day. While it's helped the bottom part of the stomach is not defined. I eat a lot of protein and fruit. I've added in salads (I hate salad) and eat pretty clean and healthy. I also jog around 2 miles 4 - 5 times a week.

What am I missing?
Calories, how many per day? I have the best results when watching those calories. Too many, and they will go to your gut.
 

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Calories, how many per day? I have the best results when watching those calories. Too many, and they will go to your gut.
I track with MyFitPal, and I am shaving between 200 - 400 cals off a day.
 

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I track with MyFitPal, and I am shaving between 200 - 400 cals off a day.
Give it more time. As long as you are burning more than you are taking in (caloric deficit), you will see a shrinkage.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I've been working on my health for the last year or two. Arms, bigger. Shoulders broader. Chest defined. Legs like tree trunks. Top and middle abs have definition and you can see the pack. Lower abs right above the pubic area is round and fat. Not hanging over, but not defined. A little fat on the sides, but a lot better than 1.5 years ago. I do 200+ sit-ups and leg raises ever other day. While it's helped the bottom part of the stomach is not defined. I eat a lot of protein and fruit. I've added in salads (I hate salad) and eat pretty clean and healthy. I also jog around 2 miles 4 - 5 times a week.

What am I missing?
I'd like to suggest you to maintain a regular routine of life style like eating, sleeping and training timings.
 

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So I've been working on my health for the last year or two. Arms, bigger. Shoulders broader. Chest defined. Legs like tree trunks. Top and middle abs have definition and you can see the pack. Lower abs right above the pubic area is round and fat. Not hanging over, but not defined. A little fat on the sides, but a lot better than 1.5 years ago. I do 200+ sit-ups and leg raises ever other day. While it's helped the bottom part of the stomach is not defined. I eat a lot of protein and fruit. I've added in salads (I hate salad) and eat pretty clean and healthy. I also jog around 2 miles 4 - 5 times a week.

What am I missing?
You got to get to a crazy amount of low body fat and acquired muscle. The guys you see on posters or in movies are on what you call PEDs or GEAR. Its powerful drugs and combined with winning the genetic lottery. Keep at it man.
 

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I've been doing HIIT and only eating from 8 - 7 five days a week. No change on lower stomach. The abs are there, but there is fat on top of it. You can see the abs from the sides, but the center is fat. WTF.
 
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