I approached girl from my gym who I have major crush on

[bigdave17]

I kinda hung out with her once in a group setting at a bar 5 years ago. I said hi to her and she was very nice to me...we maybe talked for 5 minutes. I didn't have any sort of window to keep conversation going long enough to ask her out. She had her friends there and she left soon

I really really really need to stop being scared. I am a handsome dude and women are very rarely not receptive to me. When they get to know me for a bit in a situation where I can be myself, they almost always like me

Let's all stop being scared, start being more positive and trust ourselves. We are good enough

 

[antr]

I kinda hung out with her once in a group setting at a bar 5 years ago. I said hi to her and she was very nice to me...we maybe talked for 5 minutes. I didn't have any sort of window to keep conversation going long enough to ask her out. She had her friends there and she left soon

I really really really need to stop being scared. I am a handsome dude and women are very rarely not receptive to me. When they get to know me for a bit in a situation where I can be myself, they almost always like me

Let's all stop being scared, start being more positive and trust ourselves. We are good enough

In situations like this I just say to myself **** it, you only live once anyway and then I do whatever I want.

 

[Serenity]

In situations like this I just say to myself **** it, you only live once anyway and then I do whatever I want.

In situations like this I rationally consider the odds of my options. Do nothing which has an extremely low chance of going anywhere, or approach which drastically increases my odds. Framed like that it's not really a choice at all.

 

[The Diver]

I really really really need to stop being scared.

Read the article posted by SS member 17 years ago. it's still relevant for today.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/a-simple-and-practical-guide-to-an-approach.16353/

And the quote I love most is :

""Don't be intimidated by beautiful women. They eat, crap, and sleep just like you and me. They have feelings, desires, and problems just like normal people do. So take them off that pedestal and put them on your level.""

 

[RangerMIke]

Let's all stop being scared, start being more positive and trust ourselves. We are good enough

Men are better then women, period. They are lucky if we want to spend any time with them. They are nothing until they have earned our attention. Men do not need make-up, we don't need push-up bras and high heals to be attractive to chicks. All we have to do is exercise and eat right, which you should do because you care about your health, and wear clothes that fit and act like a man... we don;t need anything else. You are the prize, act like it and you will be.

The worst thing that can happen to you when you approach a chick is she says no... if that happens, so what... she is the one that missed out. You keep doing this and eventually it becomes like shopping in a store.

"Hmmm that looks good, Oh no! the price is too high... how about this one... Eh... don't like the color... let's try this on... yea.. if fits... nice!"

Think of chicks like you try on clothes.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Men are better then women, period.

But society thinks the opposite and it probably always will. At least until a nuclear holocaust or something.

That is what sucks. I do more impressive things on a daily basis than most females do in their whole lives. Yet I'm still stuck in the position of having to "impress" them because they're "pretty." It's bull$h1t.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

If you had a gun to the head, would you approach?