Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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I would personally like to slap this motherfvcker across the face.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'll help you.I would personally like to slap this motherfvcker across the face.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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women with beards... is nasty!Didnt really listen it all but it looks strange to see a man that moves his eyes and eyebrows so much while talking.
Ehhh, maybe in modern civilized societies somewhat, but territories are conquered and nations are built by amoral men. What is right and moral is subjective. I'm sure the Brits thought it was wrong, when a bunch of radicals dumped their tea in the Boston harbor. It's the same reason I don't sympathize with the native or slave arguments. Raiding, raping, pillaging and enslaving has been going on since the dawn of man. Do you honestly think a few decades of technology changes what is in every man? It's easy to forget where we come from with all these creature comforts afforded to us by who? Amoral men.The issue is that the media portrays masculinity as violence, abuse, power, greed, and so many other horrible things. Those are not tied to masculinity at all, those are weak minded individuals seeking to control others.
A little too simplistic. People have a dual nature. We are where we're at as a result of both moral and immoral acts. It's not right to say the only good things we have are strictly the result of evil. If men were pure evil, they'd never have stopped the raping and pillaging to work on things like medicine, building civilization, etc.It's easy to forget where we come from with all these creature comforts afforded to us by who? Amoral men.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Yea, I agree for the most part. Amoral actions pave the way and like I said, right and wrong, evil and good are subjective. Survival is the only right, imo. Thinking things couldn't get that "simple" again is naive. For some ppl, it still is really that simple. I like to think that I have morals and values for the most part, but you put a man in a position, where he has to do what he has to do to make it, you see how much your theoretical and metaphorical morals and values hold weight.A little too simplistic. People have a dual nature. We are where we're at as a result of both moral and immoral acts. It's not right to say the only good things we have are strictly the result of evil. If men were pure evil, they'd never have stopped the raping and pillaging to work on things like medicine, building civilization, etc.
I agree with everything except the bold. I think good/evil is pretty iron-clad. Society shames certain things given the social climate, but what's right and wrong is always still there, just twisted.Yea, I agree for the most part. Amoral actions pave the way and like I said, right and wrong, evil and good are subjective. Survival is the only right, imo. Thinking things couldn't get that "simple" again is naive. For some ppl, it still is really that simple. I like to think that I have morals and values for the most part, but you put a man in a position, where he has to do what he has to do to make it, you see how much your theoretical and metaphorical morals and values hold weight.
Do you think the terrorists aboard Flight 93 represented masculinity any less than the passengers? I don't think good/evil are so ironclad. Ideology and the struggle over ideals has been there since day 1. I don't believe in good vs evil as much as I believe in us vs them.I agree with everything except the bold. I think good/evil is pretty iron-clad. Society shames certain things given the social climate, but what's right and wrong is always still there, just twisted.
As far as survival, I don't think that's a right at all. You can control 80% of what happens to you, not 100%. The only freedom we really have is how we mentally respond to what happens to us. No one can take that away from you.
Again, we live in a very comfortable bubble, in which a huge portion of the world doesn't know. This isn't the reality for many. Do you care to take a guess as to how and why we are "blessed"/able to live this way?As far as survival, I don't think that's a right at all. You can control 80% of what happens to you, not 100%. The only freedom we really have is how we mentally respond to what happens to us. No one can take that away from you.