"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Epicurus

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Modem day women are delusional and consumed by Disney fantasies. Met this girl at a school library we text a little bit. Subject of sex comes up and this grown ass woman literally told me.
I’m still a virgin. I want my first time to be special
A grown ass woman. Safe to say. I blocked her number right there, that type of negativity isn’t needed in my life
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Murk

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You're weak if you folded that early, a real man would have deflowered those sweet sugar walls. Maybe give her number to someone here so they can do the right thing.
 

The Duke

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Ok, here is what I see a lot of on this forum these days: Many of you are willing to do just about whatever it takes to get laid. I see it in many of your responses in many threads. You will disregard your belief system and tolerate bad behavior in order to get laid. If that is who you are then fine, have at it but don't put someone down because you lack self control to conduct yourself differently.

Epicurus made a decision based on past experience and this woman's belief system. A woman that thinks this way is not something he wants to be around. I don't blame him one bit. She'll likely make him jump thru all sorts of hoops.

Murkserious calls Epicurus "WEAK" because he stood by what he believes in and walked away. That is STRONG. Many of you have no self control over your sexual desires. You remind me of a bunch of women with no emotional control. That is the definition of WEAK.

No wonder women have so much power these days! You guys have given it away.

The one who cares the least has the most power. Some of you need to reflect on that for a while.
 

zekko

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Modem day women are delusional and consumed by Disney fantasies. Met this girl at a school library we text a little bit. Subject of sex comes up and this grown ass woman literally told me.
I’m still a virgin. I want my first time to be special
A grown ass woman. Safe to say. I blocked her number right there, that type of negativity isn’t needed in my life
I understand your position, but I think you're wrong to characterize it as "negativity".
If more women took this attitude instead of getting banged by every Chad Thunderc0ck that came along, the world would be a better place.
Besides, no one is saying that you couldn't have made her first time special.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko

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...for you maybe.

Perspective.
For most people, I would imagine. I know you and a few others have been honest enough to embrace the current culture, because it makes pickup, one night stands, FWBs, casual sex, etc. easier. I can understand that point of view.

But most posters here rail against feminism and women riding the c0ck carousel in their 20s. Desdinova often talks about how females who run up high counts of sex partners are unable to properly bond. Most guys here look down on this behavior. You can't have your cake and eat it to.
 
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For most people, I would imagine. I know you and a few others have been honest enough to embrace the current culture, because it makes pickup, one night stands, FWBs, casual sex, etc. easier. I can understand that point of view.

But most posters here rail against feminism and women riding the c0ck carousel in their 20s. Desdinova often talks about how females who run up high counts of sex partners are unable to properly bond. Most guys here look down on this behavior. You can't have your cake and eat it to.
So why do some of those guys who rally against feminism and loose women advise guys to next a girl who isn't putting out after three dates? It's hypocritical.
 

TheGambino

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Ok, here is what I see a lot of on this forum these days: Many of you are willing to do just about whatever it takes to get laid. I see it in many of your responses in many threads. You will disregard your belief system and tolerate bad behavior in order to get laid. If that is who you are then fine, have at it but don't put someone down because you lack self control to conduct yourself differently.

Epicurus made a decision based on past experience and this woman's belief system. A woman that thinks this way is not something he wants to be around. I don't blame him one bit. She'll likely make him jump thru all sorts of hoops.

Murkserious calls Epicurus "WEAK" because he stood by what he believes in and walked away. That is STRONG. Many of you have no self control over your sexual desires. You remind me of a bunch of women with no emotional control. That is the definition of WEAK.

No wonder women have so much power these days! You guys have given it away.

The one who cares the least has the most power. Some of you need to reflect on that for a while.
Very, very True replie.
 

zekko

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Women remaining virgins until trading nookie for nuptials is one interpretation i have of hell. It's a possible dimension i'll be sent to when i'm dead.

I'm not sure why you'd wish that on your fellow dj, Zekko mate. I always suspected you were a bpd ;)
But the girl in the OP never said she was saving herself for marriage. She just said she wanted her first time to be special. That may be a bit naive on her part, but I certainly don't see it as unreasonable.

As for "wishing that on my fellow DJ", I'm not worried about Epicurus, I'm sure he's not hurting for girls to have sex with. I didn't even care that he blocked the girl. My only objection was describing her going against the grain as negativity, when it should probably be applauded. No reason to be upset over the virgin, Deesade, there are still 99.9999% of the other girls out there who can be slvts.

By the way, no way am I BPD. I keep my life about as drama-free as it can be.

So why do some of those guys who rally against feminism and loose women advise guys to next a girl who isn't putting out after three dates? It's hypocritical.
Completely agree.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ubercat

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OP as usual was a bit over blown in his Post. If modern woman were doing that on mass we d have the nineteen fifties back which some of you guys are so keen on.

I don't see any fault on either side she had her values he had his and they stuck to them. AFC behaviour would be to spend time trailing around behind this chick hoping to get a slice while she makes up the rules.

So he made the right choice I'm just not quite sure about the strong blaming afterwards.
 

zekko

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OP as usual was a bit over blown in his Post. If modern woman were doing that on mass we d have the nineteen fifties back which some of you guys are so keen on.
There's a place in the world for prostitutes, and also for good wives and mothers.
I've always thought that if the world was maybe half slvtty girls and half nice girls, there would be enough to go around for everybody according to their wants. There would be girls for the guys who just want to bang plates throughout their lives, and there would be nice girls for the guys who want families or relationships. Or you can change 50/50 to 60/40, 70/30, or 80/20, either way, depending on what you think the demands are.
 
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