You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I personally take it as an covert compliment when I get that kind of attention from a woman. You’re right though it is counterproductive if you’re too available with your reply’s. If she’s stage 5 over the top with it, she nexting herself.
YES.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Marriage material there!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Poor girls may interpret this as a breakup!
Say it diplomatically then. Plan a date after that or something. Most of the time they don't get so hurt.Poor girls may interpret this as a breakup!
Remember... with chickies, the feeling thing, trumps logic and reason.
over ice cream may work!!!
You cannot meet a girl like that, but you can train a girl to be like that easily. You both will talk more and more up to the point of sex and then a natural cool off happens. If she wants to override that cool off period, you try and rewire her brain if you like her.
My current girlfriend told me the magic words she was OK with me going out with my buddies shes not one to have to know were I'm at 24/7 or if I don't text back as soon as she texts me she is going to freak out.. yes she knows sometimes I'm working so I can't respond right away.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
, she even said.. She needs 24h to cooldown lolI don't know about that. I know lots and lots guys who, when they meet nice good looking educated young single girls with little baggage and no kids, throw the kitchen sink at them to try and get them to commit because they want a wife and start a family.
Familiarity only breeds contempt, when given a reason to lose respect.
You're assuming those girls would be attracted to you.
Please expand on this.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
