Personality > Looks?

[mrgoodstuff]

I've been doing pickup for the past 7yrs in between LTRs, flings, ONS, SNL, FWBs.

IMHO, there obv is a fair bit of truth to personality. I would choose a "free thinker," a woman who is 7.5+ yet, trad thot, independent, educated and not just in the formal sense, practices self-knowledge, explores consciousness, into tripping/dmt, reads books not smut like fifty shades diaries of a depraved fat slob, and sense of self value is not based upon sex appeal.

I caution you though. 99% of men have the same mindset of marry a 6 who has a "good personality" only to get cucked, divorced, and ruined in the kangaroo court system.

Initially, when I first started pickup, it was a screening and vetting process to find a woman to marry. After 5yrs of pickup, the thought of marriage esp in the west is laughable.

Western women can drink like their father. Cannot cook like their mother. High kill count. Prevalence of pedaling victimhood and a series of poor lifestyle choices. Heavy student loans in majors like liberal arts and women's studies. Children out of wedlock. Bastard kids. Diff men. Offers nothing of value. Attention ***** online. Entitled as ****. Doesn't lift or does so for her next tinder jump off the **** selfie.


I am curious if there is a spoiler tag function on this forum. I got banned on sherdog and several forums for lighting it up with my pulls. Its comical. Esp on other forums whereby some mod may run a pickup forum but, has never seen a vagina before.



RSDTyler is a bit of a piece of **** but, he cautions men not to get duped by a woman's looks. Furthermore, the conventional male opinion on 9s and 10s is highly off the mark. I am 30. I can swear by a handful of girls worthy of a returned phone call and date, potential LTR material after all the years. After 7 hard years of pickup in the ****ing trenches. After a solid 10yrs of body building. After banking a ton of money, buying a home, burying a series of family, and being a bad ass.

female hypergamy gives zero ****s. Women will cuck you. If you look at hollywood or any of the shows that are popular (shameless, black mirror, house of cards, Breaking bad, HIMYM, stranger things etc) cucking is being normalized. Women skiing down cawk mountain, trashing her best years, and being a slob is celebrated. WHY? Feminism cheers women off into the abyss of daddy government. Urinating from the seated position accurately portrays the majority of men.


Advice? Carl Jung. Step into your shadow. Its one thing to moralize, to virtue signal, and posture your goodness. Its another thing to be able to make it rain, to clobber, and end a life yet, choose otherwise. Its one thing to get married and follow the beaten path. Its another to get married after you've had your fun smashing hoes and slamming skanks yet choosing an alternative lifestyle. A woman wants to grow a **** these days and be the man. Most turn into the cratered SMV crazy cat lady.

No harm. No foul. New girls turning 18 everyday. Last throater I got, chick age 22.

COME @ ME BRO

Wtf can you do to prevent getting cvcked other than not to get married. You can be a attractive dude with alot going for yourself and still be cucked

 

[derby1]

all the seriously attractive women i meet are complete and utter insecure boilers that tick every spectrum of every disorder

yet the 5-6s are as laid bk as fk

 

[guru1000]

9s all the way with all the decorations.

Go Big or Go Home.

Pikers.

 

[ohrein]

It's interesting really because when you become a student of "game" really you are simply a student of human interactions. Human interaction is endlessly fascinating and there are ways to tilt the board to one's advantage, hence all the focus on self-improvement/being your best self independent of women. It's best not to take oneself too seriously either (kill the ego - the ego does not serve you well in the long run).

That's why self development is so critical to having solid inner game. If you are absolutely rock solid about who you are and what you have to offer, you are going to exude a sort of confidence that is self-evident to others and people will be both fascinated by and drawn to you. You won't care if somebody doesn't think you are 100% awesome (and not everybody will, no matter who you are)...yet if you have such a grounded sense of self people will sense your self assurance, and that allows other people to relax and exist in your presence, because you are relaxed in your own skin.

And people who share this quality recognize each other. Water seeks its own level.

I honestly don't have to "game" at all anymore. All I do is have fun and be myself. The woman I'm dating now is incredible and I didn't have to do a thing.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Offers nothing of value.

If they offer nothing of value, then how is it possible to come to an agreement with them? Such as my post about easily making an agreement with a worker on house flips today. It was EASY because we both knew what we were looking for and had to offer each other.

Money for work.

People on here think I have no social skills, but this is not true. I work with people all the time.

So if females don't offer anything of value, then how is it possible to form any relationships with them? Not to mention the fact that they are confused into thinking that their mere existence is enough to earn them everything in the world.

 

[tlb1980]

It's important we find our partner extremely attractive across the board too. I know I 'settled' for my ex wife despite having doubts about how physically attractive found her, but told myself there's more to love than physical attraction - I was an afc and she landed in my lap, I didn't have to work for it,. on a physical level friends have commented previously on how I was the more attractive partner.


As the years went by this still played on my mind and culminated in my lack of physical/general interest in her - which no doubt played a part in her deciding to leave as she hit her late twenties and started receiving attention from other men, despite us getting on like 'soulmstes' on a friendship level.

Hppergamy may cause it regardless of what yiu do/are but it's important to be honest with yourself on why your settling with a girl as once the honeymoon phase wears off maintaining interest/game is several times tougher if you don't find your partner attractive across the board and they will pick up on it.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Can you explain what you mean by this?

Go read Carl Jung. Learn about the shadow. Face your shadow. If you've ever had a bad trip. Yeah, that is your shadow.

Everyone sees these cucks virtue signaling, male feminists, white knights etc. The entire premise on their existence is promoting their virtue but, everyone knows they are cowardice posturing in morality.

I can go get married and then get cucked and destroyed in the divorce/fam court system.

Its another thing to be able to smash everything thin and hot with a pulse but choose marriage and monogamy.

Its another thing to be able to be a good citizen once one has the capacity to end lives. This is not one and the same thing and it is a reason as to why women chase bad boys and seek out the man who can face his shadow versus the cuck who will raise her babies once her best days are over.

Its why you can take something away from TM after Blanc went full retard, pulled tons of women, and then got kicked off planet earth. Its one thing to find enlightenment after having diverged into chaos.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Wtf can you do to prevent getting cvcked other than not to get married. You can be a attractive dude with alot going for yourself and still be cucked

Well, marriage in western society is off the table by default. Its a fools game. The only way you win that game is you don't play that game. Much can be said of monogamy as a whole.

Women get it twisted. The fact men want to smash, women mistake for presumed value, and a sense of being a special snowflake. Little does she know, most women age like bread or milk, and forget the reality that, NEW GIRLS ARE TURNING 18 EVERYDAY!

Listen to women 30 + talk about going to the bar or club? They rage because all the women are like 21. Why is she pissed? Because she knows, she is dated if not today, tomorrow, and for every one girl that holds onto it a day or two longer, you have a graveyard of expired SMV.


Pick your poison. Aesthetic, top form SMV or dumb as bricks. Intelligent but cratered SMV and usually, bitter as **** because her best days are over. Obv, find some in between.


IMHO, if you are to follow the beaten path of monogamy, marriage, white picket fence, and a dog, DO IT RIGHT. Rampage absurd amounts of women NOW! Wife up top form SMV. As in, girl 18-23 allocates her 20s to you. In the event she leaves or divorces, her best days are over anyway. GOOD RIDDANCE!

 

[wifehunter]

how old is this thread?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Go read Carl Jung. Learn about the shadow. Face your shadow. If you've ever had a bad trip. Yeah, that is your shadow.

Everyone sees these cucks virtue signaling, male feminists, white knights etc. The entire premise on their existence is promoting their virtue but, everyone knows they are cowardice posturing in morality.

I can go get married and then get cucked and destroyed in the divorce/fam court system.

Its another thing to be able to smash everything thin and hot with a pulse but choose marriage and monogamy.

Its another thing to be able to be a good citizen once one has the capacity to end lives. This is not one and the same thing and it is a reason as to why women chase bad boys and seek out the man who can face his shadow versus the cuck who will raise her babies once her best days are over.

Its why you can take something away from TM after Blanc went full retard, pulled tons of women, and then got kicked off planet earth. Its one thing to find enlightenment after having diverged into chaos.

So face your fears and address your insecurities, right?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

It's interesting really because when you become a student of "game" really you are simply a student of human interactions. Human interaction is endlessly fascinating and there are ways to tilt the board to one's advantage, hence all the focus on self-improvement/being your best self independent of women. It's best not to take oneself too seriously either (kill the ego - the ego does not serve you well in the long run).

That's why self development is so critical to having solid inner game. If you are absolutely rock solid about who you are and what you have to offer, you are going to exude a sort of confidence that is self-evident to others and people will be both fascinated by and drawn to you. You won't care if somebody doesn't think you are 100% awesome (and not everybody will, no matter who you are)...yet if you have such a grounded sense of self people will sense your self assurance, and that allows other people to relax and exist in your presence, because you are relaxed in your own skin.

And people who share this quality recognize each other. Water seeks its own level.

No one ****ing gets this. It’s because they still DO have egos. It was painful enough for them to admit that they sucked with women, but OTHER things outside of that? Gasp! No way! Not possible.

The only reason most of these guys were ever able to ADMIT that they were not behaving correctly with women is because they still had someone to blame (society) and not themselves. That’s why there are still so many guys that can’t do anything else or don’t have any friends or acquaintances even. Self-improvement is a way to improve yourself but many people forget their internal hauntings that eventually manifest externally without them knowing. That’s why there are some guys who only focus on money and solely money. They don’t want to face those other fears and just bury themselves in their careers under the guise of ‘I need to make money’, but in their heart of hearts, they know them at they are mentally inadequate and weak, because admitting wrong to one thing already damaged them too much. All of it comes down to strength. The vast majority of people nowadays lack that, ESPECIALLY in the younger generations (it’s almost impossible to find it in younger people at all now).

And yes, we do recognize each other when we come across one another. Unfortunately, there are very few people left like this in existence so those of us are very far and few in between. The cultural shift post 2012 was too much and destroyed a lot of the inner strength that people used to have. I suppose that’s why they say the world was supposed to end then, because it really was the end of a cultural era, and no one even recognized that it had happened until it was too late. RIP

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

So face your fears and address your insecurities, right?

No. Explore consciousness, self-knowledge, and grow teeth. I am not saying be the sort of man that goes out and crushes skulls but, there is definitely value in being able to crush a skull if someone steps up. Being harmless has no value the same way, not pulling babes has no values. If you are unable to get babes, learn but, if you are ****ing everything raw dawg and catching HIV, clearly you are not doing it right.

What are your values? Beliefs? Dreams? Purpose in life? I heard a JBP video. He asked a question with respect to, what could one call into being to make this life journey all the worth while in order to transcend the inevitable suffering we will all endure at one point or another?

Dating is challenging because there is a lack of self-knowledge in both men and women. At 30, I can count on one hand the amount of free thinkers I have met and dated. Exploring one's consciousness is not something I come across in the opposite sex esp in western society (not to say it doesn't exist though, a rarity). Checkout Carl Jung. Acquire self knowledge. Read some Peter Drucker - Managing Oneself. Know your strengths. Get in that lane and never look back.

Mate, women come and go. Obv, get ****ing DEEZED. Lift heavy. Pull babes. Live the dream playboy. Tomorrow ain't promised to nobody.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

No. Explore consciousness, self-knowledge, and grow teeth. I am not saying be the sort of man that goes out and crushes skulls but, there is definitely value in being able to crush a skull if someone steps up. Being harmless has no value the same way, not pulling babes has no values. If you are unable to get babes, learn but, if you are ****ing everything raw dawg and catching HIV, clearly you are not doing it right.

What are your values? Beliefs? Dreams? Purpose in life? I heard a JBP video. He asked a question with respect to, what could one call into being to make this life journey all the worth while in order to transcend the inevitable suffering we will all endure at one point or another?

Dating is challenging because there is a lack of self-knowledge in both men and women. At 30, I can count on one hand the amount of free thinkers I have met and dated. Exploring one's consciousness is not something I come across in the opposite sex esp in western society (not to say it doesn't exist though, a rarity). Checkout Carl Jung. Acquire self knowledge. Read some Peter Drucker - Managing Oneself. Know your strengths. Get in that lane and never look back.

Mate, women come and go. Obv, get ****ing DEEZED. Lift heavy. Pull babes. Live the dream playboy. Tomorrow ain't promised to nobody.

Psychoanalysis?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Psychoanalysis?

Get some babes son. Step your game up. Thanks for coming.