High indicators of interest but no sex after 3 dates?

[Mazer]

Dont wanna be that guy but having a lot of sex doesn’t stretch a womans vagina. They are born tight or loose.

What if she has been fisting herself and destroying her vag with a baseball bat sized dildo every day for the last five years. Went out with some 32 year old, good looking, no kids, thin. It was like sticking my penis in a large bowl of extra watery pancake batter. I had to dump her.

 

[Urbanyst]

A woman's vagina is not that stretched when she has sex with one penis for a long time. The vagina muscles are made to expand when the penis is in and they reverse back to normal after that. But if you get rammed by different types of big penises on a regular basis, of course the muscles will lose it and you become looser, something that happens with prostitutes in general for example.

Am I supposed to care if the vagina is actually stretching or if the muscles are just getting loose?

All's I know is it's bigger than it should be lol.

 

[AriMamba]

What if she has been fisting herself and destroying her vag with a baseball bat sized dildo every day for the last five years. Went out with some 32 year old, good looking, no kids, thin. It was like sticking my penis in a large bowl of extra watery pancake batter. I had to dump her.

Well you’re saying teo different things. Are you saying she got fisted? Either way my point was that you shouldn’t assume a woman is a ***** because her thing is like “ a large bowl of extra” whatever. Lets be more mature guys lol we are not 12 anymore

 

[way2smart]

Update:

Had sex with her for the second time last night. Everything is great, she is the tightest p*ussu i ever had. And the best thing is that i am the biggest and the only d*ick she ever had in her life.

I love that feeling when i am her first in everything.

 

[Mazer]

Well you’re saying teo different things. Are you saying she got fisted? Either way my point was that you shouldn’t assume a woman is a ***** because her thing is like “ a large bowl of extra” whatever. Lets be more mature guys lol we are not 12 anymore

Okay Dad. It was a joke dude! Lighten up. I was just trying to have fun. I hope you don't react the same way to women because you wont get far. Lets not be so serious.

 

[AriMamba]

Okay Dad. It was a joke dude! Lighten up. I was just trying to have fun. I hope you don't react the same way to women because you wont get far. Lets not be so serious.

Lol yeah I can be a bit over the top with women as well. But never said I won’t go far. You don’t know me

 

[way2smart]

Update:

After popping her cherry, I have been having regular sex with her now, she is head over heels in love with me. BUT big BUT she still doesn't initiate.
But I kind of like the fact that she doesn't initiate, makes me feel free and in total control. That's a big contrast to my previous insecure jealous girlfriend who would blow up my phone 24/7

 

[devilkingx2]

for the first 15 or so posts I thought I was on loveshack or a really bluepill part of reddit

 

[devilkingx2]

Seriosuly i can’t wrap my head around the fact how such a hot girl didn’t loose her virginity sooner

since she doesn't appear to be totally nuts or a huge prude or something then perhaps either whatever problems she had are now fixed (being fat or ugly or nuts in the past) and you got lucky or she had strict parents or was like an honor student at a prestigious school and had no time for sex or boys to maintain her 4.0, she was a lesbian in college but realized she likes boys now, not interested in dating until recently, etc.

 

[marmel75]

Update:

Had sex with her for the second time last night. Everything is great, she is the tightest p*ussu i ever had. And the best thing is that i am the biggest and the only d*ick she ever had in her life.

I love that feeling when i am her first in everything.

I've never understood the virgin obsession

 

[marmel75]

Purity fantasy?

I suppose so...or not having to worry where he ranks on her list of best lays I guess if a guy isnt confident in their abilities

 

[devilkingx2]

I've never understood the virgin obsession

if you follow a certain train of thought that low N count = higher quality then a virgin is the pinnacle of quality right?

 

[marmel75]

if you follow a certain train of thought that low N count = higher quality then a virgin is the pinnacle of quality right?

I don't follow that train of thought.

 

[Dingo]

I've never understood the virgin obsession

I'm with you... I want someone who knows and likes to ****... I'm not interested in teaching anyone....

 

[devilkingx2]

I don't follow that train of thought.

Neither do I but it totally makes sense if you do.

Either way, her being a virgin is objective proof she isn't a slvt (unless she's 16), but says nothing about anything else, so if avoiding slvts is really important to you there ya go.