"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KingofPuss

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So I've been meeting a ton of people her in South California, men and women. All sorts of both, weak and strong and in between.

I've really wanted to get insight into the average dude's mind out here. Here's the thing I noticed - they're weak minded. They let their women talk down to them, chase the woman, and get screwed over in the end. I've heard some absolutely absurd sh!t. I spoke to a couple and I asked the dude a question along the lines of who wears the pants in the relationship, before any words were spoken he shriveled up and looked to his girl who spoke for him. It took all I could not to laugh in their faces. This man was so whipped.

My little piece of advice in this post is to leave as soon as you get a whiff of disrespect from the female. Show her she must be on good behavior for your attention. I've read a lot of posts about guys trying this and that to get girls, here's a suggestion, do nothing for others, all for yourself. Forget the women, make yourself feel good first and exude those positive vibrations. When you smile, don't fake it. If something isn't funny, don't laugh. If you don't like someone, say so. If you don't wanna do something, don't do it.

Be your own boss.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My little piece of advice in this post is to leave as soon as you get a whiff of disrespect from the female. Show her she must be on good behavior for your attention. I've read a lot of posts about guys trying this and that to get girls, here's a suggestion, do nothing for others, all for yourself. Forget the women, make yourself feel good first and exude those positive vibrations. When you smile, don't fake it. If something isn't funny, don't laugh. If you don't like someone, say so. If you don't wanna do something, don't do it.

Be your own boss.
You're on to it dude. I think there are stages to "enlightenment". The blue pill guy takes a girl to a concert because she wants to go. The purple pill guy takes a girl to a concert because she will think he's fun and cool for it. The red pill guy goes to a concert because he wants to go there, and invites a girl to go with him. You could be having one, two or three of these reasons simultaneously for going there. But a red pill guy will always have a "red pill reason" for going there, and then add the other ones if it suits him. Sometimes it's necessary - when you want to attract girls, you have to think about what will make you attractive to them - but a red pill guy doesn't make that more important than his own thoughts and motivations. He takes into consideration and fulfills his wants first, in both big and small actions.
 

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A buddy of mine moved to Orange County from the midwest, and he told me he got laid like a rock star from the moment he arrived. He said that so many of the men there are gay, so it throws off the balance and skews the numbers. There are a lot more straight women than straight men.
 

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A buddy of mine moved to Orange County from the midwest, and he told me he got laid like a rock star from the moment he arrived. He said that so many of the men there are gay, so it throws off the balance and skews the numbers. There are a lot more straight women than straight men.
@KingofPuss doesnt need help in that department lol he’s a ripped white guy from TX

Bro take it from me- get out of that rehab center or wherever you’re at and become a club promoter in LA or vegas. You seem like a good kid and you could make TONS of money cause you have everything you need to become successful.

Get really involved in Hollywood and make connections.
 

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thats funny. we shlt on midwest guys here all the time for being a little too effeminate. unless of course nyc is getting mostly the midwest hipsters. they def dont come off as conservative billy bad asses if thats what they are where theyre from. the midwestern girls on the other hand.....

its all relative i guess
Midwesterners used to be tough like 10 years ago. They used to naturally be bigger and stronger than people from other places, and I noticed that the closer you got to Chicago, the more that held true.

Now? Not anymore. Maybe because I’m older, but I swear it isn’t. I’ve talked to some way older folks who’ve even noticed the same thing. People are becoming wimpier or crazier. Much less ‘tougher’ people between the two. It’s either one or the other. I had a high school carpenter teacher say to me through some random ramblings that if I don’t stop goofing around, he was going to kill me. Why the indirect way? Why not just say to fix your act like a normal person? It’s because people are becoming crazier and wimpier at the same time. No one caught on to what he said too. It’s only because I wasn’t originally from that school that I knew what he meant. Scary stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know one guy who moved to NYC from my small town, and yes he is fairly effeminate. He is straight, has a beautiful wife, but he's a personal trainer who seems to specialize in gay male clients. He posts gay rights stuff on facebook all the time.
 

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I know one guy who moved to NYC from my small town, and yes he is fairly effeminate. He is straight, has a beautiful wife, but he's a personal trainer who seems to specialize in gay male clients. He posts gay rights stuff on facebook all the time.
Yup, guys from NYC are gay as sh*t. Always talking about feminist bullsht.

SF is pretty much as bad but luckily the suburbs don’t have as many faggots.

In NYC it’s cool to have a male partner people automatically assume you’re hip and you go to the top of the social circle food chain.
 

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lol what in the actual fvck are you even talking about?

the guys youre referring to arent even local Nys (born and raised) the guys youre talking about are what we call "transplants" theyre from other places. come to an area that has real locals that hasnt been gentrified and you arent gonna be finding any queers. trust me
I guess the problem is that most areas in NY don’t have real locals. It’s hard to find dudes who are like characters in The Godfather cause it’s mostly investment banker transplants
 

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@KingofPuss doesnt need help in that department lol he’s a ripped white guy from TX

Bro take it from me- get out of that rehab center or wherever you’re at and become a club promoter in LA or vegas. You seem like a good kid and you could make TONS of money cause you have everything you need to become successful.

Get really involved in Hollywood and make connections.
I'm going to stay for 90 days, I paid good money for this and it's not a bad set up to hold me accountable to my sobriety. But I'll look into that. Being ripped and white is cool I guess, but I don't see myself having as much more advantages than any other guy that works out and practices red pill teachings.


A buddy of mine moved to Orange County from the midwest, and he told me he got laid like a rock star from the moment he arrived. He said that so many of the men there are gay, so it throws off the balance and skews the numbers. There are a lot more straight women than straight men.
Lot's of gays for sure. Unfortunately I've been hit on a lot by them at the gym and walking around town. But everyone's nice so I don't mind, they realize I'm not of that persuasion and back off. I've met a lot of friendly gays and it's cool because they introduce you to a lot of fine women and social proof is great with them.
 

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A buddy of mine moved to Orange County from the midwest, and he told me he got laid like a rock star from the moment he arrived. He said that so many of the men there are gay, so it throws off the balance and skews the numbers. There are a lot more straight women than straight men.
No region bangs like the Midwest!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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