would you date a 6 who ticked all the boxes

[CMNILS87]

I have the exact situation as op.. Current chick I am seeing is a 6 looks wise, but has the slim shapely figure of a 8.. She doesn't make much money either.

3 months in.. No games, no bad attitude, polite, follows my lead.. Sexually does everything I want.

My ex was an 8 looks wise for me.. Sucsessful, financially good.. Sex was average.

But she was fiery, sometimes very rude, not very caring..

Sometimes I feel like I downgraded, but at least I don't have the stress and drama anymore

I think you’re comparing new to old and that’s ok in generalizations about what you want in a girl. But if you’re with her and she ticks your boxes and gets you hard then that’s pretty good. Body of an 8 and face of a 6 = 7. Don’t fall into the conundrum of being like yea she’s ok, but I can still do better. Then you’re off chasing a unicorn

 

[soulforge]

I think you’re comparing new to old and that’s ok in generalizations about what you want in a girl. But if you’re with her and she ticks your boxes and gets you hard then that’s pretty good. Body of an 8 and face of a 6 = 7. Don’t fall into the conundrum of being like yea she’s ok, but I can still do better. Then you’re off chasing a unicorn

Well i often asked myself this question.. If i found a better looking woman, who had a good career, would I continue to keep this current chick around.

It's a tough one.. But some of the hotter, successful woman outhere, can make your life fuking miserable, especially when they instinctively know they, have lots of other options..

Sometimes it's just best to play it safe.

 

[Von]

Well i often asked myself this question.. If i found a better looking woman, who had a good career, would I continue to keep this current chick around.

It's a tough one.. But some of the hotter, successful woman outhere, can make your life fuking miserable, especially when they instinctively know they, have lots of other options..

Sometimes it's just best to play it safe.

If you are in a LTR, you want someone who makes you happy when you getting back home.

It's not a HB matter.... its a ''do I look forward to get home''.... or I should just go to this 5 - 7, than my class, than this and this... than its midnight and you get home... you hope she's asleep and you fall asleep type of LTR.

I've dated and LTR all the spectrum and lived both.... I want a bangable and beautiful body to my need and a personnality first.... If she's a HB7 with all that turns me on and bring me peace... I will take her over any 10HB.

Can you find a 10HB will all the peace of mind... I am sure you can. Than you have to make a decision... do I keep looking or chasing... or I settle down with what I have

 

[Pandora]

i seem to be incontact with a few 6's at present and the annoying thing is they tick all the boxes of what all i call a traditional woman

there courteous theyre good company, confident, 2 have cooked me tea in the last week

i dont get the slightest sniff of any games from any of them and they come across as mature in the mind

but every 7+ ive met in the last few months has brought nothing but hassle to the table , immature as they come, insecure yet there the pretty ones? ...total nut jut job BPD's as you lot like to call them,

if you dont text any of the 7+ back ive met recently in 5 seconds flat it does not make them want you more!!! they go NC CAUSE YOUR HAVING AN AFFAIR as it took you an hour to txt back


Lord give me strength

This is an interesting question OP. It is one that most of my guy friends struggle with. You are basically asking if you should settle with the less hot chick who has an amazing personality. We men are hypocrites ( including myself). We criticize women for not having realistic expectations but yet we have the same unrealistic expectations. Deep down inside every man wants the 7+ who can cook, clean and has a great personality. These chicks are very rare in America. But the truth is that guys like you and me will never truly be happy until we get that. We just like the women we pursue, have been infected with the virus that American media has given us.

All the protagonist in movies are with hot chicks. In commercials we see the guy with a hot chick. All the celebrities have hot chicks and pornography is full of hot women. So we think we deserve a hot chick. Maybe we do and maybe we don't. But I caution you to not be like these girls who never settle because nothing is ever good enough. Perfect is the enemy of good.

You can take the approach that one of my friends does. His serious girl friend is a 6/10's but he cheats on her with 7+s. His philosophy is that "you can always bang a hot chick, but girls with good personalities are rarely found in the 7+ arena". He also states that if you treat your average chick well then the other hot chicks will get jealous.

Or in the lyrics of Joe Budden.

It's mental, it's all in your thoughts
If you a janitor, mop the floor like a boss
Push the ford like a porsche
Sell a ounce like a bundle
Treat your plain looking girlfriend like a model and the models gon' want you​

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I might be the minority here but i think this questions is putting natural attraction in some kinda wierd area.

Could settling just be another buffer against rejection?

It depends how you define natural attraction. Is it the natural desire to find a life-long mate, or is it the border-line addictive obsession for the 'hottie'? The essence of red-pill to me is not to eradicate the natural desire, but to educate it... lest fools rush in. To my mind, desire is often found to be over-inflated and out of control in the red-pill camp, for the hottie, just as much as it is in the blue-pill camp, for the housewife.

 

[guru1000]

Nope.

Go Big or Go Home.

 

[derby1]

well ive spent all weekend with the woman in the OP, weve had a good time shes been on me like im william the conqueror, and magically ive had inboxes off "hotter women" who have caught wind ive been with said girl all weekend........there amazing species