would you date a 6 who ticked all the boxes

[derby1]

i seem to be incontact with a few 6's at present and the annoying thing is they tick all the boxes of what all i call a traditional woman

there courteous theyre good company, confident, 2 have cooked me tea in the last week

i dont get the slightest sniff of any games from any of them and they come across as mature in the mind

but every 7+ ive met in the last few months has brought nothing but hassle to the table , immature as they come, insecure yet there the pretty ones? ...total nut jut job BPD's as you lot like to call them,

if you dont text any of the 7+ back ive met recently in 5 seconds flat it does not make them want you more!!! they go NC CAUSE YOUR HAVING AN AFFAIR as it took you an hour to txt back


Lord give me strength

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

i seem to be incontact with a few 6's at present and the annoying thing is they tick all the boxes of what all i call a traditional woman

there courteous theyre good company, confident, 2 have cooked me tea in the last week

i dont get the slightest sniff of any games from any of them and they come across as mature in the mind

but every 7+ ive met in the last few months has brought nothing but hassle to the table , immature as they come, insecure yet there the pretty ones? ...total nut jut job BPD's as you lot like to call them,

if you dont text any of the 7+ back ive met recently in 5 seconds flat it does not make them want you more!!! they go NC CAUSE YOUR HAVING AN AFFAIR as it took you an hour to txt back


Lord give me strength

Simple answer on the 6's: If they past the boner test, yes.

-Augustus-

 

[derby1]

hmmmmmm good one they do

 

[Desdinova]

Depends. If I'm just looking for a lay, then no. If I'm tired of all the BS and want a fun LTR, then yes.

 

[lizardking82]

Here is another thread with universal beauty scales LOL dude, if she makes your **** hard and is fun to be around, keep her around and see what happens. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. Stop asking people on a forum if the girl you are seeing qualifies for this or for that. It is silly at best

 

[derby1]

its sometimes good to get other peoples opinions i may be reminded of something i did not consider.... theres been plenty of times where ive had to take a step bk and soak up some info..... thats the point of the forum

 

[lizardking82]

its sometimes good to get other peoples opinions i may be reminded of something i did not consider.... theres been plenty of times where ive had to take a step bk and soak up some info..... thats the point of the forum

The point of the forum is to get opinions for SITUATIONS. There is no forum that can or should judge your TASTE in women.

 

[derby1]

well agree to disagree this was opinions on my situation i have not so stunning women who seem salt of the earth and stunners who are selfish
its a very annoying predicament to be in as this isnt a rehersal

 

[Dingo]

It is better to be with a six that is loving and caring than with a ten with a cold hard heart.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Here is another thread with universal beauty scales LOL dude, if she makes your **** hard and is fun to be around, keep her around and see what happens. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. Stop asking people on a forum if the girl you are seeing qualifies for this or for that. It is silly at best

Phvck her good and tell her how beautiful she is. You'll see it grow in her eyes and spirit.

 

[soulforge]

I have the exact situation as op.. Current chick I am seeing is a 6 looks wise, but has the slim shapely figure of a 8.. She doesn't make much money either.

3 months in.. No games, no bad attitude, polite, follows my lead.. Sexually does everything I want.

My ex was an 8 looks wise for me.. Sucsessful, financially good.. Sex was average.

But she was fiery, sometimes very rude, not very caring..

Sometimes I feel like I downgraded, but at least I don't have the stress and drama anymore

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have the exact situation as op.. Current chick I am seeing is a 6 looks wise, but has the slim shapely figure of a 8.. She doesn't make much money either.

3 months in.. No games, no bad attitude, polite, follows my lead.. Sexually does everything I want.

My ex was an 8 looks wise for me.. Sucsessful, financially good.. Sex was average.

But she was fiery, sometimes very rude, not very caring..

Sometimes I feel like I downgraded, but at least I don't have the stress and drama anymore

Better sex and not wasting your time anymore.

 

[exhausted]

I say yes depending on the face. She has to be a bit cute, but remember a girl can always workout and tone up.

I had a date with a 6 , very nice and genuine, but she was a bit over weight, not fat or chubby but needed to lose 15. She was short and i saw her mother who was big and dumpy. Suffice to say i never saw her again.

 

[djthiago1]

Remember looks fade.

 

[derby1]

theres some fair points, ill carry on as i am for now, but as stated the less prettier ones literally act like old fashioned wife material no stress whatsoever to me just dont always turn me on as much

 

[Wilko]

Was wrestling with this recently as well.

Recent date from OkCupid was much less attractive in person (surprise, surprise, surprise). I was disappointed but brought my A-game anyway and managed to have a pretty good time - spent most of our time mocking PC culture. Ended up back at mine and almost scored a first night lay.

Followed up with her through the week and ran into a few dealbreakers - awful self-esteem (by her own admission), limited sexual repertoire. I noped on out of there.

 

[soulforge]

Was wrestling with this recently as well.

Recent date from OkCupid was much less attractive in person (surprise, surprise, surprise). I was disappointed but brought my A-game anyway and managed to have a pretty good time - spent most of our time mocking PC culture. Ended up back at mine and almost scored a first night lay.

Followed up with her through the week and ran into a few dealbreakers - awful self-esteem (by her own admission), limited sexual repertoire. I noped on out of there.

Yes one to many negatives there bro, I would have ejected too.. Low self esteem breeds major insecurities in girls, which can surface in a very TOXIC way.

Plus low sexual drive on her part, I can see you getting easily bored and probably frustrated with her insecurities, and jacking this in at some point.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

i seem to be incontact with a few 6's at present and the annoying thing is they tick all the boxes of what all i call a traditional woman

there courteous theyre good company, confident, 2 have cooked me tea in the last week

i dont get the slightest sniff of any games from any of them and they come across as mature in the mind

but every 7+ ive met in the last few months has brought nothing but hassle to the table , immature as they come, insecure yet there the pretty ones? ...total nut jut job BPD's as you lot like to call them,

if you dont text any of the 7+ back ive met recently in 5 seconds flat it does not make them want you more!!! they go NC CAUSE YOUR HAVING AN AFFAIR as it took you an hour to txt back


Lord give me strength

I think someone needs to devise a new metric for the measurement of women's attractibility. The simple reality is that when the 'hot' factor is absent, more often than not the women is more attractive because she is less self-absorbed and narcissistic. Seriously, I don't understand how anyone can be attracted to this kind of women... perhaps it is due to a certain kind of wiring, I wonder if it is from growing up with a steady diet of pornography... a topic for another thread no doubt...

Anyway, I only look at the '6' and '7', and often assume the '9', the hottie, has a personality disorder, and hence write her off, rightly or wrongly. Plus, heavy make-up is a turn off. And then those that are less traditionally hot, you often find some quirky thing about them that really does make them attractive... and in a unique personal way, as opposed to them matching some generic look you have in mind... or in your perverted imagination.

But there are exceptions. The other day, I plonked myself down in a crowded coffee shop, to check my emails, in the only available chair, and lo and behold! a beauty right across from me. And such a beauty to usually be well out of my humble league. But she locked eyes, smiled, and we soon engaged in polite conversation. And boy was I hooked! I was thinking who is the DJ here. Anyway, here was a hottie who had a real personality. And so not wanting to outstay my welcome, I soon packed up my books to leave, but not before getting her number, with which she was most pleasantly forthcoming with, though hastening to mention to me that she was a Catholic. Kapow! The mystery was solved! I gushed I was a Catholic also... and we have been texting. Men, if only we could rewind history, or re-write it with only the most pragmatic and most important considerations in mind such as the relations between the sexes .

 

[Wilko]

Yes one to many negatives there bro, I would have ejected too.. Low self esteem breeds major insecurities in girls, which can surface in a very TOXIC way.

Plus low sexual drive on her part, I can see you getting easily bored and probably frustrated with her insecurities, and jacking this in at some point.

Right? And I didn't even feel a pang of "Be a nice guy, give her a shot, maybe it will work out". Just a detached "Nope, this isn't in my long-term self-interest, I'm out".

 

[El Payaso]

As long as she's not dead ass ugly. If she's just average but a nice girl overall then it's better than a "10" who is high maintenance.