"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Watch this post will get closed even though it violates no rule.

You seem to think that I sit home and do nothing all day. I don't. This is what I do all day.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/c3r7s0fv1d1k6da/1122171105a.jpg?dl=0

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You seem to think that you are more experienced in life than I am, when the opposite is true. What is the worst medical problem you've ever had? Have you ever spent a single day of your life without a roof over your head?

Your advice to me is to bother strangers at the mall? Then you need to admit that you have no advice to give.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think I just proved that I have lots to do.
No, I could care less. The fact that you have to prove yourself to a random person online shows me that you don't have lots to do. If you did have lots to do, you wouldn't give a ****. I'm not trying to attack you or anything, I know you're a bit defensive, just trying to help.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No, I could care less. The fact that you have to prove yourself to a random person online shows me that you don't have lots to do. If you did have lots to do, you wouldn't give a ****. I'm not trying to attack you or anything, I know you're a bit defensive, just trying to help.
I don't care about the opinions of schoolboys.

And, btw, he took it upon himself to make himself my personal mentor with no request from me. Insulting me many times along the way. And if he is so confident that he can mentor people, he has GOT to have some better advice than go bother people at the mall.

I learn things very quickly. All this home repair stuff, which is just as hard if not harder than being a doctor or lawyer (maybe not a surgeon), I learned in a matter of days or weeks tops. I knew SOME going into it from my job as a property manager, but taught myself all the rest by watching the handyman I had hired, YouTube, Google, and this other forum I go on where people give definite and real answers to questions.

I should be able to figure out this "girl problem" in 2 seconds, but somehow I make very slow progress at this. How does it even make sense that I have to impress some girl who is OBVIOUSLY worth less than me. And that is not a delusion. I am strong. She is weaker. All my "theories" are not based on nothing.

@Desdinova , social anxiety isn't my problem. About 2-3 years ago, I used to go to bars down town and around the city dressed in goofy sh1t like this just to make people laugh, and I would get drunk off my a$$ and sometimes get kicked out. Everybody downtown knew me. That is one funny a$$ shirt.

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You really don't have anything to do but get bothered from random people online? Get a life.
He's mentally ill. he can't help it. He needs serious help.
 

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I am not gonna read or click any of that **** but I see what's going on here...
Richard lemme tell you this,
I am the kinda guy that gets along with pretty much everyone except people that hate me first obviously.
But in your case, somehow... I am just annoyed by most everything you do and type. I don't even wanna figure out cause I just know it's not worth it.
Cheers
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am not gonna read or click any of that **** but I see what's going on here...
Richard lemme tell you this,
I am the kinda guy that gets along with pretty much everyone except people that hate me first obviously.
But in your case, somehow... I am just annoyed by most everything you do and type. I don't even wanna figure out cause I just know it's not worth it.
Cheers
So don't respond to my posts. I have no idea who you are.
 

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Home repair is as difficult as being a lawyer or doctor lol, now I've heard everything. Seriously, that was a good laugh.

You may think it's weird talking to people in the mall, fast food joints etc but I've personally done it successfully many times. As long as you're relaxed and can actually carry a conversation and make the other person comfortable, it's easy. It's good for beginners.
 
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Home repair is as difficult as being a lawyer or doctor lol, now I've heard everything. Seriously, that was a good laugh.

You may think it's weird talking to people in the mall, fast food joints etc but I've personally done it successfully many times. As long as you're relaxed and can actually carry a conversation and make the other person comfortable, it's easy. It's good for beginners.
Yea most doctors and lawyers just do the same ROUTINE over and over. Law is easy as fvck.

I would bet you are clueless in home repair, so you're speaking about something you don't know about.

If you know how to read, you can be a lawyer. Most lawyers only know their one particular area of the law, anyway. Then they sit in the a/c all day like some pu$$y with an ego the size of Texas. It's really not hard. I read just about every statute and regulation there is while I was in prison.
 

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Yea most doctors and lawyers just do the same ROUTINE over and over. Law is easy as fvck.

I would bet you are clueless in home repair, so you're speaking about something you don't know about.
I'm not here to discuss useless things like your delusional comments about professions. Just try out the advice Desdinova gave you, actually try the DJ boot camp, if you can do it for a couple weeks you will see results.
 
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I'm not here to discuss useless things like your delusional comments about professions. Just try out the advice Desdinova gave you, actually try the DJ boot camp, if you can do it for a couple weeks you will see results.
But it's not delusional. Do you think a lawyer can rewire their house? They wouldn't know where to begin. What if they used 14 gauge wire on a 20 amp circuit and burned the house down?

To me, it's harder to build a straight, flat masonry wall than it is to do simple, repetitive law stuff. I've seen the legal system inside and out. Seen all the thousands of clueless dumba$$ lawyers with people's lives in their hands. Seen the female State Attorney's do nothing but add up points in a point system and read out of a book to recommend a sentence like they're some 3 year old drunk on power.

Could they fix their roof with no help if it was leaking?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm not here to discuss useless things like your delusional comments about professions. Just try out the advice Desdinova gave you, actually try the DJ boot camp, if you can do it for a couple weeks you will see results.
Forget boot camp for my cousin @RichardTheFrog. Send him to Banned Camp and give him a bottle of Draino to slam.
 

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But it's not delusional. Do you think a lawyer can rewire their house? They wouldn't know where to begin. What if they used 14 gauge wire on a 20 amp circuit and burned the house down?

To me, it's harder to build a straight, flat masonry wall than it is to do simple, repetitive law stuff. I've seen the legal system inside and out. Seen all the thousands of clueless dumba$$ lawyers with people's lives in their hands. Seen the female State Attorney's do nothing but add up points in a point system and read out of a book to recommend a sentence like they're some 3 year old drunk on power.

Could they fix their roof with no help if it was leaking?
Get a lobotomy and let that alleged "brain" of yours leak out the hole. Then replace with a bionic lump of grey matter.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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