EmotionalGeek
Senior Don Juan
I heard push-pull is very effective technique. Unfortunately I only managed to come up with something on my own once. Do you have any effective push-pull routines/lines that I can test out on next date?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Macaframalama
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I prefer to push and pull with banter and my time/attention. If she says something stupid, I will clown the chit out of her just like i would one of my friends. I might pull by telling her that at least she's cuter, than them when she's trying to hang with the big dogs. It can also be on the lighter and sexual side of things. I naturally gravitate towards witty ppl and love to laugh, even if it's at my expense. When, we're hanging out, most of the time it's alot of clowning and joking about the funny side of situations. Sure, there are situations, when life isn't all fun and games, but for the most part, try to laugh and have as much fun with life and the company you keep as possible. Especially, your women. If you guys don't see eye to eye, expressing that you don't, is another genuine form of push. You can pull with rewarding her, when she does something to deserve it. All situations aren't as black and white or "fraudulent" as urbanmyth up there would have you believe.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
This is it... also telling her shes beautiful, a short time later your not sure about her anymore and you tell her shes too young for you or whatever bs. Use it once a while so that it doesnt become obvious.
You are talking about something totally different from what I'm talking about.
If you're confused let me know. I can explain what I mean better.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.