Guilty of having options...

[lizardking82]

I know this is probably a situation a lot of guys have gone in or are going in and I just want to state what I think about this.

I have had multiple women try to guilt me into dropping any other girls I am seeing since they are such princesses and cannot allow me to treat them as one of the options. Let me tell you guys, these are the type of women that you should absolutely treat as options because the moment you have no options, they will drop you like a fly.

There is this plate I am seeing now, lately less and less and she will soon be gone, that has made a big deal out of this thing for quite some time now. She is convinced that she is so amazing that she wants me to drop any other person I might be seeing and has influenced the situation quite often up to the point of fighting. She is behaving absolutely bad, yet wants to be given girlfriend privileges LOL

And on top of all, maybe give the benefit of the doubt, but do eventually drop any person in your life that is causing drama and does not appreciate the energy you put into the communication. Don't complain about it. Drop it and never look back.

 

[wifehunter]

I know this is probably a situation a lot of guys have gone in or are going in and I just want to state what I think about this.



I have had multiple women try to guilt me into dropping any other girls I am seeing since they are such princesses and cannot allow me to treat them as one of the options. Let me tell you guys, these are the type of women that you should absolutely treat as options because the moment you have no options, they will drop you like a fly.

There is this plate I am seeing now, lately less and less and she will soon be gone, that has made a big deal out of this thing for quite some time now. She is convinced that she is so amazing that she wants me to drop any other person I might be seeing and has influenced the situation quite often up to the point of fighting. She is behaving absolutely bad, yet wants to be given girlfriend privileges LOL

And on top of all, maybe give the benefit of the doubt, but do eventually drop any person in your life that is causing drama and does not appreciate the energy you put into the communication. Don't complain about it. Drop it and never look back.

Yes, it's screening...

Always keep in mind, most beautiful women are 'ugly' on the inside.

 

[lizardking82]

Learn a few things from the women you encounter through your life.

You don't have "options", you have "friends". And avoid being drawn into any discussion on it. Because defending yourself with sincerity actually validates her position as being "right" (in her head) and clues her in that she has leverage to give you sh1t.

Likewise, have no interest in any guys that she has about - not even when she raises them for a reaction.

It's difficult to articulate why this works well, but it's essentially flipping the social pressure onto her. And pushing very hard against such a solid boundary is a social violation that most feminine (passive) women don't go to.

It comes out in some other ways though. They sh1t-test a bit to challenge that frame. But it's my preference in dealing with women non-exclusive thus far, anyway.

I get where you're coming from.

I got no interest in any guys going after her, I was never worried about any guys the girl I am dealing with might be doing things. Usually, they stop doing anything the moment they start dating me and I never had a bad feeling about this.

The problem I have with some of them and a current one is worrying so much about other chicks that you're not even focusing on us anymore, you're focusing on other chicks LOL reeks of insecurity and possessivity.