Made a fake POF profile with gym rat photos

[Tenacity]

Say whatever you want, 10 women, literally... 10 since I created the profile less than a week ago want to meet up for sex. I'm talking to 20 right now, and alone today 4 new ones messaged me out of the blue.

Dude your pic would get a lot of OLD attention. ALL you need for OLD is nice looks and a somewhat decent personality....you have both (no Homo)

 

[machoMax]

Unreal. I'm not kidding. I knew it was get more attention, I just couldn't believe how much. I messaged probably 30 women the first night, 20 responded. I took the conversation sexual, they went with it. Half of them wanted to meet the same night. While I refreshed the page more messages came in. Then other women started messaging me first. I couldn't keep up.

Today I signed up at my local gym. I'm getting jacked.

/thread

It makes sense, I for me that is perfectly normal, mean on girls reaction on your profile

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Then why do I triple the amount of women offline than online if looks were so important?

 

[TheGambino]

Then why do I triple the amount of women offline than online if looks were so important?

I never get swipes on tinder with my best photos online. (showing a big muscled body with a tshirt on with my face)
I swiped a lot, not even a single match.

Then I get eye contact, flirting, lots of IoI's in clubs, wifes that flirt with me at work (wifes of man clients) and lots of kissing and encounters?

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Probably because you spend triple the amount of your time and attention to women offline.

In my opinion a DJ is a DJ. Doesn't matter if it's a bar, a grocery store, or an online dating site. A confident, exceptionally fit man will turn heads, regardless of where or how he chooses to meet women.

I don't my less attractive friends get lots of chicks on tinder and they are not ripped or jacked

 

[PeasantPlayer]

this thread is a bunch of nonsense. The OP is having great success because he is using pics of men who are extraordinarily good looking in the face (like 9-10/10), tall and white

Use pics of ethnic guys who are just decent looking (say 7/10) with a great body and he won't have a tiny fraction of the same success

The important thing with online dating is to be tall, white and very good looking in the face. Nothing else really matters.

This is such bull****

 

[skinnyguy]

Well I'm not ugly and I don't get matches. Here's a hot girl telling me she finds me attractive. It's from Seeking Arrangement, but you can tell from the context that she genuinely finds me attractive. Yet I still get barely anything on Tinder, POF, etc.

Lolll she finds you attractive enough to take money from you. What does that prove? You're relatively good looking compared to the 50 year old men who are offering her $1000 for the weekend I guess

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Lolll she finds you attractive enough to take money from you. What does that prove? You're relatively good looking compared to the 50 year old men who are offering her $1000 for the weekend I guess

You forgot about the part where her and her friend are fvcking and sucking me every day.

 

[Sal]

You forgot about the part where her and her friend are fvcking and sucking me every day.

Don't let these jealous haters try to bring you down Richie.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Don't let these jealous haters try to bring you down Richie.

Trust me, if there were any other way to win besides with money, I'd be all over it. A few days ago, I was seriously considering flying to Istanbul for 4 months to have my shins broken and stretched apart.

What sucks is that I remember when I was younger when it took absolutely nothing. I would just get high on acid and people would come to me. But I guess that's just being young and in a college town.

 

[byers90]

I never get swipes on tinder with my best photos online. (showing a big muscled body with a tshirt on with my face)
I swiped a lot, not even a single match.

Then I get eye contact, flirting, lots of IoI's in clubs, wifes that flirt with me at work (wifes of man clients) and lots of kissing and encounters?

I'm also in the camp that finds/found Tinder useless - I deleted the app. I know, you are probably thinking maybe your photo/s were bad or you are just ****ing ugly. I don't think I'm ugly because I've had some girls, and even some really good looking girls like me...so I thought maybe the photo just sucks. I put it on that site photofeeler or something and waited until I got like about 30 votes...It was rated better than like 72% of the users and I had selected the 21-32 age group or something like that. So it didn't make sense to me. My bio was just something general I wrote and I admit I could've enhanced it up but I don't think it should really matter THAT much.

I would even swipe right indiscriminately at times, for long periods on every single girl and nothing would happen.

 

[marmel75]

Trust me, if there were any other way to win besides with money, I'd be all over it. A few days ago, I was seriously considering flying to Istanbul for 4 months to have my shins broken and stretched apart.

What sucks is that I remember when I was younger when it took absolutely nothing. I would just get high on acid and people would come to me. But I guess that's just being young and in a college town.

Youve got problems...real fvcking problems bro...making yourself 20x taller isnt going to fix your mentality. You've got all these bullsh!t excuses as to why you cant get women to go out with you/get laid without paying for it. I'm 5'8" and thats never caused any issues for me. All these dumb ass excuses and idiotic things you are wanting to do are going to have Zero effect until your mindset becomes vastly improved.

And stay out of Istanbul...my peeps dont need your kind there...

Siktir git eshol eseklar bey...

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Youve got problems...real fvcking problems bro...making yourself 20x taller isnt going to fix your mentality. You've got all these bullsh!t excuses as to why you cant get women to go out with you/get laid without paying for it. I'm 5'8" and thats never caused any issues for me. All these dumb ass excuses and idiotic things you are wanting to do are going to have Zero effect until your mindset becomes vastly improved.

And stay out of Istanbul...my peeps dont need your kind there...

Siktir git eshol eseklar bey...

What should my mindset be?

 

[Glassguy]

Trust me, if there were any other way to win besides with money, I'd be all over it. A few days ago, I was seriously considering flying to Istanbul for 4 months to have my shins broken and stretched apart.

What sucks is that I remember when I was younger when it took absolutely nothing. I would just get high on acid and people would come to me. But I guess that's just being young and in a college town.

In bold.....that explains a lot.

 

[Glassguy]

What should my mindset be?

To not come across as a prostitute fvcking sociopath would be one helluva start.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

To not come across as a prostitute fvcking sociopath would be one helluva start.

Haha. Okay.

But what SHOULD I come across as? Any suggestions? I tried the "businessman" look a couple years ago wearing a suit but that didn't last.

 

[Asasione]

Haha. Okay.

But what SHOULD I come across as? Any suggestions? I tried the "businessman" look a couple years ago wearing a suit but that didn't last.

Why don't you follow the advise that's been given to you and stop making excuses, start small by getting into the habit of talking to people and learn to empathize and have some banter, it's a small step but you need to get out of your toxic mindset. I'm sure you'll make some excuse about your personality but that's irrelevant, change takes willpower and you just have to go out and do something different from what you've always done.

 

[switch7]

Haha. Okay.

But what SHOULD I come across as? Any suggestions? I tried the "businessman" look a couple years ago wearing a suit but that didn't last.

It's not about a look it's about your vibe.

I feel like part of the problem is you may crave women more than most men, and women will pick up in that.

Not so long ago I was pretty unhappy in life. Furthermore I felt like the only way to make myself happier was to get laid more. Now when you are unhappy with your life it's pretty tough to attract women in my opinion. So this just made me more unhappy and even more thirsty for women. Women are disgusted by depressed, sex thirsty males and they can smell you a mile off.

So basically I had to forget about women for a while. I got therapy and started working on myself, doing stuff I enjoy and setting life goals that were more aligned with what I wanted and not what other people (including hot women) wanted. After a while I began to be fulfilled with my goals outside of women and it made me more happy with myself. I also picked up on an old hobby which I am now progressing with so much that it could potentially lead to a new career. So I found a passion for something and grew my self esteem and since then I am no where near as concerned with getting women as I used to be.

The flip side to this is that now my vibe is attractive to women. I am more happy, I joke around more and I'm more fun to be around. I can chat to a really hot girl and not care as much what she thinks about me or whether I get her to like me. I'm already fulfilled by being me and doing the stuff I like to do, so getting her in bed would be just a bonus. My confidence is way higher.

 

[Masculinity]

What should my mindset be?

Richard, the word in the street was that you got banned?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Richard, the word in the street was that you got banned?

Nope.