ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Say with your girlfriend/wife. Is it possible or no? If it’s not, what’s the longest you can make it last for?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is it possible to stay in the honeymoon phase forever?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
With my ex the sex got better every time for seven years. Then she decided to follow her single friends cause she thought she was missing out.
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A wise old man in his 80s who was happily married for 60+ years once said to me:
"Marriage is easy. Keep repeating the first 90 days over and over."
He and his wife were super cute over each other even as great grandparents. Rather profound if you think about it.
"Marriage is easy. Keep repeating the first 90 days over and over."
He and his wife were super cute over each other even as great grandparents. Rather profound if you think about it.
The honeymoon period of course will not last forever - that is when the true nature of the relationship will reveal itself and whether it can stand the test of time. Each person shows who they "truly" are...this is where it pays for your "inner game" to be up to snuff. Your personality is far more important than looks in the long run.
Although I will add there is no reason to lose the fire as time goes on. We talk about how the honeymoon period ends but many people get into routines and change. If you maintain some of the traits that initially attracted the woman to you in the first place it will only help you.
Although I will add there is no reason to lose the fire as time goes on. We talk about how the honeymoon period ends but many people get into routines and change. If you maintain some of the traits that initially attracted the woman to you in the first place it will only help you.
mrgoodstuff
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If your in a LTR you must keep your attraction up. You must remain somewhat social. You must date your spouse. And you must stay intimate. You can keep it going for a long time.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Agreed. Although the sexual Union is extremely important. It is sacred and creates deep physical, emotional and spiritual intimacy. It is shared with only the spouse. And the infatuation morphs into real love over time. Real love is sacrificial in nature and places "other" above self. When you have two people placing one another above themselves amazing things happen.
mrgoodstuff
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Often feelings follow actions.
i believe in true forever love absolutely. i also believe peoples primal instincts are very hard to fight and in the right situation people will do bad things like cheat on their lifelong love. u want the honeymoon to last forever? that wont happen because women want progression in the relationship, i swear some of these bitches cant wait to flip the script an turn into a royal kunt once she has you.
Dash Riprock
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Well said and agreed. Too bad only a fraction (<5% of all "couples" maybe?) actually practice this. Now, it's QUANTITY over quality due to "choices" for both sexes.
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I know everybody here thinks I'm a total Pollyanna at times but I actually see this a high percentage of the time 80% or higher among married couples I know well personally. Most are traditional, conservative and actively religious, but not all. I see very few shjtty marriages in my social circles. Not none, but very very few. And over a wide age range from the early 20s to the 80s. Of course I'm not in NYC or LA or Miami either, but I know joyfully married couples in big metros as well as in rural small towns.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
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Alot of the stuff on this site dealing wit
Yes it is. And you can keep those "drugs" flowing if you take care of the relationship.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I always thought the moon was made of cheese, not honey.
Anyway...When I'm in buku bucks, I plan to have a perpetual 'honey moon'.
So, I'll let you know.
Anyway...When I'm in buku bucks, I plan to have a perpetual 'honey moon'.
So, I'll let you know.