Should I reach out on facebook..?

[TheGambino]

It's about the marketing director at school, the 28 year old blonde high value educated hb8.

She gives me very strong IOI's like smiling and winking, turning around at the soda machine to glance at me and passes me saying hi. She always smiles to me for years but I had a school break for 2 years now im here to finish my last degree.

Last week she gave me a chance to talk but I had earphones in and just didnt went for the kill to talk since its school and all that.

Anyway today shes not working... what a shame since we have a schoolbreak the upcoming week.

Should I contact her on facebook (were not friends, we never talked only body language)

something like: hey I noticed your cute smile at school, wanna get together for a drink at x location? she lives nearby..

Or just wait a week until I approach her at school, I will see her randomly for a 100% ofc in a week or two..

 

[Von]

No

Dont its creepy especially if you never talked to her

It might work if you do and you had previous contact

Be a DJ. Talk to her

 

[sosousage]

approach in real if you never talked

 

[TheGambino]

I guess?

 

[The Duke]

Look at it like this....she did her part of indicating strong interest more than once. She got out of her comfort zone and exposed herself(as far as female standards go).

Now its your turn to do something with it. By not confronting her in person and thru facebook makes you come across as being less bold than she was and this is why it puts you in a weak frame and the facebook idea isn't a good one.

she was bold by female standards, she wants you to do even more and be more bold by talking to her. Take the lead! Stop thinking so much.

 

[marmel75]

Hell no.

 

[TheGambino]

Thanks ill Wait a week. To be continued with a number close report ofcourse. Judge nismo Will be proud lol. Case closed.

 

[TheGambino]

Sh1t, shes not at school again, missing her for weeks lmao.

Facebook still not a good idea bros?

 

[Glassguy]

Are you fb friends?

 

[TheGambino]

Are you fb friends?

No bro were not, we never talked only strong flirty body language for years and she raised iT up a notch a couple of weeks ago by glancing playing with her hair and saying Hey with a big smile When she passes me

 

[Glassguy]

I am a firm believer of doing what you want. No rules, only self respect. Respect yourself and your time. After that its open season.

Shoot her a message "Hey realized you werent in class today. Dont worry, I took notes. Get with me later and I will get you caught up "

I asked if you were fb friends because you can send the message, but she may not see it to accept it.

 

[TheGambino]

I am a firm believer of doing what you want. No rules, only self respect. Respect yourself and your time. After that its open season.

Shoot her a message "Hey realized you werent in class today. Dont worry, I took notes. Get with me later and I will get you caught up "

I asked if you were fb friends because you can send the message, but she may not see it to accept it.

I Will most likely see her monday bro, she always works at monday and I missed the last few mondays so What do You think? In real life is always better and less weak then the fb thing?

 

[Glassguy]

Have you ever talked to this chick?

 

[TheGambino]

Have you ever talked to this chick?

Nop

 

[marmel75]

If you want to look like stalker dude by all means...

 

[TheGambino]

If you want to look like stalker dude by all means...

Prolly right ill wait tilll I SEe her and approach then

 

[Glassguy]

Nop

Yeah dont message her. If there is no rapport or you're not already friends on fb it will be creepy.

I just dont understand.......

Why havent you talked to this chick yet? How are you getting so infatuated with chicks that you've never even talked to or hung out with?

Dont take it personally bro, but you are seeming very insecure and your mind is going in all different directions over these chicks. You have no idea if she is interested or not at this point. If you really have so many other options, why get hung up on one to the the point you're starting threads about them?

Why not just make the move on her and see how it goes from there?

 

[TheGambino]

Yeah dont message her. If there is no rapport or you're not already friends on fb it will be creepy.

I just dont understand.......

Why havent you talked to this chick yet? How are you getting so infatuated with chicks that you've never even talked to or hung out with?

Dont take it personally bro, but you are seeming very insecure and your mind is going in all different directions over these chicks. You have no idea if she is interested or not at this point. If you really have so many other options, why get hung up on one to the the point you're starting threads about them?

Why not just make the move on her and see how it goes from there?

I am going to make a move whenever I see her. I am not insecure lol, I just love women and I think a notch more then 99% on here