Escalate to kisses and sex on first meeting

[sosousage]

My first dates are usually okay but I never escalate and sometimes theres no second date (we keep contact but we fail to meet second time and thats it, contact cuts)

Today im meeting potential plate from OLD. I think shes horny af. She TODAY scheduled meeting for today so.

Ps I do kino and I noticed some even smile when I hug them or they react positively.

But how do I proceed to kiss then sex from being in middle of funny conversation?

 

[TheGambino]

This is my scheme to be honest, i've become a pro at it. This is money right here.

TheGambino guide to escalation

(I like to text her 30 mins before that im running late about 5-10 mins, just to confirm the date)

Okay, when she walks upon you at the bar you are meeting her have a warm and charming smile on your face. Make sure you either hugg her or kiss her three times on the cheek. Put your hand on her waist when you do so.

You could now compliment her on what she wears or her hair while you remain eye contact. The eye contact is a important thing, it shows dominance, this is essential. Try to not break eye contact in the conversations and keep it short and simple, don't talk about negative, depressing subjects at the first dates.

Ask her loads of questions. What do you do? What do you like? What are your passions? What is your favourit drink? What did you want to be when you was a little girl? What is the most funny thing that ever happened to you? When did you feel the most happy in your life?

Try to get her in a positive and fun mindset and be calm, cool and laidback. It will help to have a little smirk, smile on your face the whole time. This shows that your cool and easy going.

When she asks you stuff, be short and simple, show that you have passions for your things and refer the convo to her. Let her do 70-80% of the talking and show her that you are listening.

Now we come to what you want: Flirting, escalation.

Grabb her hand on some point and either comment her about her nice, soft hands. Or where she got her rings (there will be some sort of story) or on her nice looking nails (if she got that, it has to be something that's sincere)

After a while you should ask her this: What is the craziest place you ever had cex? Now you got it: You are talking about cex and getting her in that mood. Try to be flirty and tease her with being overcexed. If she asks you answer: I never even made out, I was hoping we could do that tonight and wink.

You could also grab her hand and go for a kiss right now, do it gently, softly with passion and short.

When you did all this and the convo sort of dies, don't try to keep it up. Look around you, observe people, other women and make her feel akward a bit that your losing attention to her.

The whole time while doing all of this you touch her legs, her shoulder, her hand and point towards her.

You could also ask her to show you vacation pictures. If you see any in bikinis, try to grab her phone to zoom in at it and tell her she has a nice bvtt or beautiful waist or whatever.

Like an hour should've passed now.

You end the date, period. Ask for the check, PAY IT and tell her. "I feel like another drink at my place, wanna join?''

At your place, your going to sit next to her, touch her arm or shoulder and lean in for kisses, the rest is history.

You can do it, ask me away if you need to know more, goodluck DJ, you got this.

This above is natural for me now, I did it so many times and it always leaded to STEAMING cex.

I usually take my dates to a bar with reagaetton and salsa music and dance with them, grind a bit and lean in for kisses and huggs, but that's my thing, I would stick to the above if your new to this.

 

[sosousage]

This is my scheme to be honest, i've become a pro at it. This is money right here.

TheGambino guide to escalation

(I like to text her 30 mins before that im running late about 5-10 mins, just to confirm the date)

Okay, when she walks upon you at the bar you are meeting her have a warm and charming smile on your face. Make sure you either hugg her or kiss her three times on the cheek. Put your hand on her waist when you do so.

You could now compliment her on what she wears or her hair while you remain eye contact. The eye contact is a important thing, it shows dominance, this is essential. Try to not break eye contact in the conversations and keep it short and simple, don't talk about negative, depressing subjects at the first dates.

Ask her loads of questions. What do you do? What do you like? What are your passions? What is your favourit drink? What did you want to be when you was a little girl? What is the most funny thing that ever happened to you? When did you feel the most happy in your life?

Try to get her in a positive and fun mindset and be calm, cool and laidback. It will help to have a little smirk, smile on your face the whole time. This shows that your cool and easy going.

When she asks you stuff, be short and simple, show that you have passions for your things and refer the convo to her. Let her do 70-80% of the talking and show her that you are listening.

Now we come to what you want: Flirting, escalation.

Grabb her hand on some point and either comment her about her nice, soft hands. Or where she got her rings (there will be some sort of story) or on her nice looking nails (if she got that, it has to be something that's sincere)

After a while you should ask her this: What is the craziest place you ever had cex? Now you got it: You are talking about cex and getting her in that mood. Try to be flirty and tease her with being overcexed. If she asks you answer: I never even made out, I was hoping we could do that tonight and wink.

You could also grab her hand and go for a kiss right now, do it gently, softly with passion and short.

When you did all this and the convo sort of dies, don't try to keep it up. Look around you, observe people, other women and make her feel akward a bit that your losing attention to her.

The whole time while doing all of this you touch her legs, her shoulder, her hand and point towards her.

You could also ask her to show you vacation pictures. If you see any in bikinis, try to grab her phone to zoom in at it and tell her she has a nice bvtt or beautiful waist or whatever.

Like an hour should've passed now.

You end the date, period. Ask for the check, PAY IT and tell her. "I feel like another drink at my place, wanna join?''

At your place, your going to sit next to her, touch her arm or shoulder and lean in for kisses, the rest is history.

You can do it, ask me away if you need to know more, goodluck DJ, you got this.

This above is natural for me now, I did it so many times and it always leaded to STEAMING cex.

I usually take my dates to a bar with reagaetton and salsa music and dance with them, grind a bit and lean in for kisses and huggs, but that's my thing, I would stick to the above if your new to this.

I bookmarked this in case i forgot. Thanks a lot friend. This is hardcore i missed always the sexual talk etc

 

[TheGambino]

I bookmarked this in case i forgot. Thanks a lot friend. This is hardcore i missed always the sexual talk etc

Yeah, I got you bro.

Another thing. When she somehow (which happened to me in only two cases ever, dealing with top notch HB9s) rejects your kiss. Be cool about it. Laugh it off, talk about something else, this is where persistance will get you what you want. Brush it off, don't make a big deal about it, don't go akward, just change the subject to something funny or normal and just try again 15 mins later. If she rejects it again, you briefly and calmly end the date and don't contact her again.

Unless you are dealing with a church girl, a rejection of a kiss is never a good sign, period. Even muslim and church girls are naughty af, I know it from experience.

ASD: Very important.

When you try to escalate at home and she goes ''I can't do this'' ''Im not that girl'' ''I never f8ck on first dates'' ''I want to f8ck you but I just can't do it right now'' ''Im almost hitting my period, we can better not do it''

This is where you make her feel special with

''I would never taken you home if I didn't think your so amazing''
''You have the most beautiful eyes, I have to know what your about and you continue to escalate''
''Your so beautiful and you smell so nice, *smell her neck and continue to escalate''

If she tells you to stop, you stop, you know when it's serious.

Then laugh it off, be cool about it and continue talking and end the date afterwards.

 

[marmel75]

My first dates are usually okay but I never escalate and sometimes theres no second date (we keep contact but we fail to meet second time and thats it, contact cuts)

Today im meeting potential plate from OLD. I think shes horny af. She TODAY scheduled meeting for today so.

Ps I do kino and I noticed some even smile when I hug them or they react positively.

But how do I proceed to kiss then sex from being in middle of funny conversation?

Well...to be honest, you just have to do it. Qe can tell you all the ways how but in the end you just do it. Personally what worked for me was to startong getting her comfortable to my touch early on. There are two schools of thought...one says dont touch her until she touches you and the other says you start it. I prescribe to the latter because it fits my personality..honestly they both work so you have to figure out where you fit in with that. Grab her hand, check oit her jewelry she has on and ask what the story is behind it. If she has an earring or necklace on touch them and remark about them...sit beside her not across from her if possible...sit back, spread out and relax...it will make both you and her more comfortable. Your goal is to have zero nerves and dont act nervously at all..it Will help hwr relax and they will take note of it and you will earn major bonus points for that. Not because you have done anything special but because what she thinks it means in her mind(you date a lot of women and know what you are doing). Some people say to always be engaged and leaning forward but I find it very powerful to lean back and relax. I even ask if they are nervous and a lot say they are. Then they will usually also say I dont look nervous at all and I seem very confident in myself. If you hear any version of that it means they are attracted to you.

Always, always, always escalate in date...preferably within 20 minutes of meeting her. It should be a natural progression from touching her to mayne rubbing her shoulders to stroking her hair, etc...kissing her is just an extension of that amd you will almost never get denied pnce you do that.

Above all else, analyze what you did right and wrong post date. Work on changing what you did wrong next time whether its with her or another date. Don't put a lot of stock in what happens on any one date but when the same thing keeps happening or women keep having the same reaction to something you are doing recognize the trend and either continue doing it if they are reacting positively or change it if they are reactong negatively. It took me about 60 dates to become really good but I got so good I already knew what was going to happen on the date within the first 3 minutes because you will begin to see common patterns of behaviour that go with certain end results.

 

[sosousage]

I talked about sex then touched her hair then kissed. She was down to f i think but i live with mum

 

[TheGambino]

I talked about sex then touched her hair then kissed. She was down to f i think but i live with mum

Lets go bro, that’s the spirit. Now repeat with another chick.

 

[Murk]

**** man I should have read this earlier as I've been on a date where I did none of this and was secretly pining for my ex the whole time!

I thought a few times to talk sexually or broach sexual topics but my head was like no, treat her nicer, you cheated on your ex its time to be a good guy.

But good guys also turn girls on and talk about sex.

Lesson learned.