Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
These gold diggers are much worse than prostitutesIn other words, they are prostitutes. But now we call them "sugar babies". Right....
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
A horny man sees what he wants to see.The thing about this is the women are NOT THAT HOT.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Posting in a thread just to complain about it?Probably one of the more pointless threads I've seen for a while. I love it when people quote statistics on the internet.
"Nearly 50% of gold diggers are college students". [Where the other 50% are women of any age].
I mean, next you'll be trying to tell us that grass is green and the sky is blue.
Lol.. learn to read.These videos are like all the other videos on youtube. You can search through the tens of thousands of college students and find the ten or twenty you need to make your point.
All you really need to do is sort these girls out and stop complaining about how horrible women are.
I didn't say either. What are you reading?Says almost 50% of gold diggers are college students.. NOT almost 50% of college students are gold diggers.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fair point.That's a good question. But no, i wouldn't.
And the difference, from what i can gather, is that these types enjoy the feeling of being looked after.
The girl who i knew, couldn't be alone. Moved to the UK with boyfriend, broke up, then moved in with this guy that spoiled her. No one allowed round there when he was at home, but he was always out on business, and that's when i could go around.
I'm the complete opposite in personality type, and would never go for such a thing.
No different than why i'm not desperate to date someone for a valentines day, or whatever. It's a completely different biology.
Men are both motivated and demotivated by sex more, i reckon.
What were you babbling about then?I didn't say either. What are you reading?
No thanks, I'm good.Posting in a thread just to complain about it? Go find another one. There are hundreds lol.
Complaining about gold diggers and money again, when your go to strategy is to hand out 'business cards'.Posting in a thread just to complain about it?
There are hundreds of other threads here for you to read if you don't like this one lol.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.