"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dated woman but she started acting jealous weird after minimal drink

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as above really went out all was going well but she was questioning me about mates and told me one she knew id already been with a while back(women talk) and one id kissed

i handled it calmly and answered it dj she was laughing and smiling all night however i could tell this was niggling her as she kept bringing up she feels like 2nds

got her back and the sex was fantastic

so to sum up

*better company than most women HB8, great sex
*Extreme Drink Alter ego after small amounts
*came across as jealous on first date, plus is phoning and messaging the day after a lot said i had to go as was busy and she had a mardy tone imho (after 1 date hmm)

where to go ? really annoys me when there good company and they act like this
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stop assigning her all these positive traits just because she is hot and fvcked you. You dont know her. You wont really know her for at least a few months. Anything right now should be taken with a grain of salt...she will bebon her best behaviour for a while.

What do you mean where to go? You date her and bang her along with other women. Do not make her exclusive. Do not stop tring to date other women.
 
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I mean is there a bit of fatal attraction going on here thats what i mean i am dating other women this is one of them, much like apparently yourself i know how to fck the women and it seems to cause a few bunny boiler issues, i only have limited time to date and fck aint like some of you 5 nights a week
 

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this was another woman last night so i dont know what positive traits you mean? they all seem to know each other we live in towns in the UK there is no way you can successfully spin plates people talk
 

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this was another woman last night so i dont know what positive traits you mean? they all seem to know each other we live in towns in the UK there is no way you can successfully spin plates people talk
Ask @Mr Wright I think he lives in the UK too and he's spinning plate like a fockin hollywood star
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ask @Mr Wright I think he lives in the UK too and he's spinning plate like a fockin hollywood star
Haha I wish I was, there's always a dude banging more chicks than you.

this was another woman last night so i dont know what positive traits you mean? they all seem to know each other we live in towns in the UK there is no way you can successfully spin plates people talk
Well the idea is that you don't really care what they think. Yeah, you're banging multiple girls, either shes okay with it or shes not. Not your problem. Girls share guys all the time and they don't really care about it if you don't act like her boyfriend. I have a few lays attributed to girls talking about how good I was in bed and their friends wanting to try it.
 

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as above really went out all was going well but she was questioning me about mates and told me one she knew id already been with a while back(women talk) and one id kissed

i handled it calmly and answered it dj she was laughing and smiling all night however i could tell this was niggling her as she kept bringing up she feels like 2nds

got her back and the sex was fantastic

so to sum up

*better company than most women HB8, great sex
*Extreme Drink Alter ego after small amounts
*came across as jealous on first date, plus is phoning and messaging the day after a lot said i had to go as was busy and she had a mardy tone imho (after 1 date hmm)

where to go ? really annoys me when there good company and they act like this
Welcome to the world of high IL women with little dating experience.

You are in control of the pace. Just pace it slow; and you will get a good 3-6 months out of her before LTR ultimatums.
 

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As is often said, if you want to qualify someone, the genuine article, give them liquor. Often said about potential flat mates, it's especially true of women and potential social connections; take them for a drink to find out who they really are.

Some people see jealousy and neediness as a good thing, a sign of high interest. For me, at such an early stage, it means insecure princess syndrome and alarm bells start the ringing.
 

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For me, at such an early stage, it means insecure princess syndrome and alarm bells start the ringing.
lmao she ghosted me the day after the evening i went out with me mates so yeah youve summed her up, and wed made plans that were her idea ..unreal
 

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lmao she ghosted me the day after the evening i went out with me mates so yeah youve summed her up, and wed made plans that were her idea ..unreal
Sounds mad as a box of frogs mate. Don't get too attached to this one, and watch your back.:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Who put gasoline in her drink?
 
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