"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have consultations with 3 plastic surgeons and 3 hair restoration specialists over the next 8 days.

I'll call for nutritionists and style consultants tomorrow.
I'm fairly certain at this point you are trolling for entertainment. In the remote chance you are not, I owe this to you, and this will the last of my input regarding improvements to work toward:

1) IF you did schedule three appointments with board-certified PSs, dermatologists, hair specialists you are strictly seeking their opinion:

a) Do not spend monies or leave deposits no matter what they they tell you. Report back here with their opinions. You are doing this strictly to become aware of what you can work toward in the future;

b) Do not request input on surgeries such as nose, chin, or cheek augmentation. Surgeries can be permanent. You are requesting opinions on temporary fillers, specifically Radiesse, Sculptra, or Restalyne. This fillers will last less than a year, and will disappear entirely, leaving your face exactly as it is today.

2) Do spend monies on a gym membership and personal trainer;

3) Do spend monies on a nutritionist and do due diligence on dieting properly;

4) Do spend monies on a stylist and clothing;

5) Do go out, socialize, and learn to communicate and socialize better.

Remember, you could be a millionaire or have perfect aesthetics, but if you don't know how to communicate/socialize well, you will fail with women. Focalize on No. 5, as that is your biggest hurdle.

Two facets in this "game":
1) The product; (1-4)
2) Marketing the product effectively. (5)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm fairly certain at this point you are trolling for entertainment. In the remote chance you are not, I owe this to you, and this will the last of my input regarding improvements to work toward:

1) IF you did schedule three appointments with board-certified PSs, dermatologists, hair specialists you are strictly seeking their opinion:

a) Do not spend monies or leave deposits no matter what they they tell you. Report back here with their opinions. You are doing this strictly to become aware of what you can work toward in the future;

b) Do not request input on surgeries such as nose, chin, or cheek augmentation. Surgeries can be permanent. You are requesting opinions on temporary fillers, specifically Radiesse, Sculptra, or Restalyne. This fillers will last less than a year, and will disappear entirely, leaving your face exactly as it is today.

2) Do spend monies on a gym membership and personal trainer;

3) Do spend monies on a nutritionist and do due diligence on dieting properly;

4) Do spend monies on a stylist and clothing;

5) Do go out, socialize, and learn to communicate and socialize better.

Remember, you could be a millionaire or have perfect aesthetics, but if you don't know how to communicate/socialize well, you will fail with women. Focalize on No. 5, as that is your biggest hurdle.
I don't even know where to start on #5. Currently, I just get drunk until I'm bold enough to possibly say a few words. But by then, I'm usually too angry to even say anything productive or sensible.

Other option is stay sober and try to force conversation with people that don't want to talk to me.
 

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I'm the first person in the history of the Florida State (mental) Hospital to ever have done so much acid they felt like a reptile. That's where they send the criminally insane. I also had a schizophrenia diagnosis for years, but it's been reversed as my symptoms have gone away since I've been off drugs.

Can you beat that?
I can. I was like you in a lot of ways, and even worse off than you in others. I actually did have personality disorders that I fixed without the help of any person or drug. I forced myself to change, permanently. No psychiatrist or doctor to see me, none of that. And I did it before I even finished puberty. My short 18 years was harder than your 30. Quit complaining all the time.
 

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Surgery is probably a waste of money.

But I can't change my personality to be extroverted and happy. When I go out, seems like everyone else is laughing and having a great time and enjoying the company of other people. While I am not. Especially not after 10 beers. But not even before. I really just don't enjoy socializing. Especially not with other males.
I feel you bro, I'm just like you, I don't have fun with friends, I prefer to go out by myself.. But this I think its due to my mental problem from the past. Anxiety is one hell of a bytch.. Anyway, you dont need to socialize with male AT ALL, you're there for woman, you could work on your OLD game for now until you get good results. At the beginning on OLD it was a complete disaster until I learned how to use it properly.. Stay positive ! Oh and by the way, woman that are actually interested are pretty fun to talk to, you can say pratically whatever the fvck you want and they'll still enjoy your company and who knows maybe you're gonna have a good time too
 
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I can. I was like you in a lot of ways, and even worse off than you in others. I actually did have personality disorders that I fixed without the help of any person or drug. I forced myself to change, permanently. No psychiatrist or doctor to see me, none of that. And I did it before I even finished puberty. My short 18 years was harder than your 30. Quit complaining all the time.
Haha. You THINK so. Personality disorder is not schizophrenia.

You've never seen the inside of a jail, prison, mental Hospital, ICU, ER, trauma center, etc.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Haha. You THINK so. Personality disorder is not schizophrenia.

You've never seen the inside of a jail, prison, mental Hospital, ICU, ER, trauma center, etc.
Never seen the inside of a jail? Yes I have.
Never seen the inside of a prison? Yes I have.
Mental hospital? Yes I have.
ICU, ER? Yes I have.
Trauma center, I will admit I have not.

Of those I have seen, it was for different reasons than yours. I’ll make sure that if I do a crime, I won’t get caught. Or rather, I won’t get in trouble for it whether I get caught or not. That’s the difference between you and me. Plus, I have actually fixed myself and gained the strength to admit that there’s is something wrong with me while you cannot and never will.
 
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Never seen the inside of a jail? Yes I have.
Never seen the inside of a prison? Yes I have.
Mental hospital? Yes I have.
ICU, ER? Yes I have.
Trauma center, I will admit I have not.

Of those I have seen, it was for different reasons than yours. I’ll make sure that if I do a crime, I won’t get caught. Or rather, I won’t get in trouble for it whether I get caught or not. That’s the difference between you and me. Plus, I have actually fixed myself and gained the strength to admit that there’s is something wrong with me while you cannot and never will.
How can you have gone to prison if you are 18? You couldn't have done very long.

What were your injuries?
 
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