"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is 6' now considered "short"?

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The thing is, making millions does not do anything to turn her on. It does not have ANY affect on her state of arousal at all. Being tall generally means higher testosterone and HGh production which means that you are a stronger male than others.

That basically means good genes....
Actually, I think making millions would turn a lot of girls on.

How would you know that it doesn't?

There is no way you are going to convince me that being born tall is worth more than earning millions through hard work and intelligence.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Actually, I think making millions would turn a lot of girls on.

How would you know that it doesn't?

There is no way you are going to convince me that being born tall is worth more than earning millions through hard work and intelligence.
Women are strange creatures, they are in 2017 when it comes of their "rights" but are still in the stone age when it comes of their behaviour, preferences and reasoning.

In their hamster powered brain the taller bigger cavemen can still take away everything from the smaller clever one that worked for it and that's it.
 
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Women are strange creatures, they are in 2017 when it comes of their "rights" but are still in the stone age when it comes of their behaviour, preferences and reasoning.

In their hamster powered brain the taller bigger cavemen can still take away everything from the smaller clever one that worked for it and that's it.
I'm not sure if that's always true, though. Hugh Hefner was only 5'9". I'm sure there's lots of taller guys not doing well or with ugly girls. In fact, I see it all the time.
 

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Actually, I think making millions would turn a lot of girls on.

How would you know that it doesn't?

There is no way you are going to convince me that being born tall is worth more than earning millions through hard work and intelligence.
Ambition is another trait. Getting rich BECAUSE of said ambition is prized more. But if you’re just some bloke who won the lottery, you aren’t gonna be turning women on as much as the other guy who is taller than you and actually is a cool dude.

Ambition is different from everything else. Having a passion shows that you are going somewhere. Women like a guy who is moving up, not one who is stagnant; this still remains true even if the guy who is stagnant is currently doing better than the ambitious guy who is still moving up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The majority of my plates/gfs have all been taller than me.

What's a short guy like me supposed to do? ;)

I think I've only had one short period of my life where I felt inferior and angry, but it didn't last very long.

For the past decade, I've been working towards mastering myself, setting goals to raise my SMV, increasing my IDGAF vibe, perfecting a dominant, yet relaxed type of body language, and increasing the intensity of my eye-contact.

Asian? Check. Short? Check.

It just makes the shock value even greater when women realize that they've got wet panties.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm 6'1" and handsome. I compensate for my insecurities by professing I'm a Guru, followed by 1000
 

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Money can be bestowed by chance. There are millions of men inheriting money they didn't work for or just benefitting from good birth circumstances e.g. parents sent you to a good school.

What makes you strong is how you will get on if the shyt hit the fan. This doesn't mean the physically strongest. It's who can innovate and who has strength of character.

Height is a part of that. You can't fake genetics. You can take steroids, hit the gym every day, and that will help, but being tall is unquestionably from a superior set of breeding material.

I thank the lord every day for being 6'2'. It's more useful in the dating game than a massive c0ck.
I'm blessed I'm 6'2"! But I wouldn't mind being even taller.

Yes, I can hold my own in combat, but if there was a way to be taller, a lot of guys would ise that way.

I tend to date much shorter women. Love every bit of it, but some I still come in second place with.

I only give women one chance. The women I work with aren't that attractive, but most are taken anyway. Most women I meet are those who say hi first. Also, I never will compliment a woman, as it's pedestalizing or ass kissing.

Height helps, but there's more to it.
 

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So "tallness" = good genes, but making millions flipping houses = not important?

How does tall = good genes in the first place? Of what use is being tall?
No one ever made the mistake of thinking women's logic makes sense.
 

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I'm 5'10 & I've never had a problem with height.

It isn't in my consciousness as something to worry about, as I can't change it!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm 5'10 & I've never had a problem with height.

It isn't in my consciousness as something to worry about, as I can't change it!
That's above average. I'm 5'7.5". I've never worried about it until a few days ago when I read this post. Maybe it's true.
 

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That's above average. I'm 5'7.5". I've never worried about it until a few days ago when I read this post. Maybe it's true.
I heard that 5'7.5 is the worst possible height when it comes of women, those who like tall dudes will see you small while those who like them short or a short themselves wil consider you out of range.

Thats probably the reason why you are single trust me or better yet go open one of your threads and ask for suggestion from other 5'7.5 guys about enhanced shoes to look taller or wide trousers to look shorter.
 

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So "tallness" = good genes, but making millions flipping houses = not important?

How does tall = good genes in the first place? Of what use is being tall?
Being tall is about status not genes. Same as race.

Men are considered short to most women once they are under 5'8 or 5'9. Men are considered to be tall once they pass 6'1.
 
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I heard that 5'7.5 is the worst possible height when it comes of women, those who like tall dudes will see you small while those who like them short or a short themselves wil consider you out of range.

Thats probably the reason why you are single trust me or better yet go open one of your threads and ask for suggestion from other 5'7.5 guys about enhanced shoes to look taller or wide trousers to look shorter.
Now I think you're just making things up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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