Post Date with a nice girl - how'd I do?

[Jifto]

I feel a flake coming.

Yeah. I'm thinking I'm going to actually flake before her. Seems like this ship has sailed, and frankly I'm just not feeling it that much.

 

[John Constantine]

She is your usual party girl. You immediately put her on a pedestal. The goal of meeting up isn't to talk. The only thing that should be on your mind is sex - logistics, if she's clean, and the best way to get her out of there.

Personally, I try to get every girl naked on the fist hang out. Mostly I get a kiss and never hear from them again because I was too forward. Sometimes I get more and get sex later. Occasionally I get sex with tons of resistance but that's easy to overcome.

A lot went wrong here, bud

I just went too forward with a girl friday, didnt taught a girl could ghost because of that..

 

[Fireballs]

Kiss her mid date if you can .. waiting till the end creates too much pressure

 

[Building_and_Loan]

Kiss her mid date if you can .. waiting till the end creates too much pressure

Too much pressure and it's too predictable. Every guy kisses her before she gets back into her car at the end of the date.

Stand out from the crowd by grabbing her face and pulling it towards you after creating some sexual tension mid date.

 

[beforeimgone]

I just went too forward with a girl friday, didnt taught a girl could ghost because of that..

Congrats, it takes huge bvlls to blow a set out by being too forward

 

[John Constantine]

Congrats, it takes huge bvlls to blow a set out by being too forward

Actually, I would have prefered to see her again

 

[marmel75]

Hey gents. Looking for some feedback from an OLD meeting I just had. Unlike my other OLD experiences this girl was WAY hotter in person, no red flags (that I picked up on), and conversation was actually great...not forced like an interview.

Here's how it went down:
- met her at a bar I suggested, almost didn't recognize her because she was so much better looking in person.
- gave her a hug, got seats at the bar
- talked for about 80 minutes, conversation was easy and fun
- she touched my arm a few times, played with her hair and laughed a bunch
- weirdly she was tearing up her napkin...kind of odd
- around minute 90 I could tell we were hitting a spot when conversation was going to lull a bit, and the bartender asked if we wanted another drink, I said I actually had to get going
- she didn't seem like she wanted to go but we talked for a few minutes after I paid the tab and were waiting for Ubers
- we hugged, she thanked me for the drink and we parted. I should have gone for the kiss. Dammit. I didn't.

I can tell she's a *nice* girl, good family and all that. Not my usual party girl.

How'd I do? Any tips based on that? I'm interested in seeing her again...wait a few days and text?

Honestly not great. These are the type of dates that women shake their head at guys for. If you like a woman you are on a date with then kiss her mid date. Within 20 minutes if possible. Then the whole end of date kiss thing doesn't need to happen...

You might get another date you might not. You had a chance to do something and you failed to. Learn your lesson and don't be afraid to escalate more.