“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MrJack

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To make a long story short, one of my plates was over this past Saturday and she found a tiny corner piece of condom wrapper on the table and she got all mad but I ended up fvcking her 20 minutes later and we had a good night.

Tonight a few minutes ago she hits me with this:

Her: soo I have an idea

Me: ooo I love ideas

Her: let's only have sex with eachother for a month

Me: what do you mean?

Her: like let's only have sex with eachother

Idk wtf to say to this is it a shyt test? My gut is telling me she wants a relationship.

Thing is, out of my 3 plates this one would be LTR material.

It's pretty transparent she is trying to steer it in that direction.

If I agree I lose frame.

How would you guys respond if you'd be down to be in an LTR with her but not down at this exact moment in time?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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What's their to talk about be "ok just one on one" your losing frame already.. is this a serious question lol, dude just had two girls wackin this d..k off on saturday @ the same time savage life
 

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How long have you known her/been banging? Give it another month or so and you'll probably realize she isn't LTR material so ether way it won't matter.

It's not exactly a complete lose of frame. That typically happens when you move in together.

I've managed many RL's before I ever even knew or heard of "frame". As a man it actually comes to you naturally.
 
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What's their to talk about be "ok just one on one" your losing frame already.. is this a serious question lol, dude just had two girls wackin this d..k off on saturday @ the same time savage life
Lmao thanks bruh
 

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How long have you known her/been banging? Give it another month or so and you'll probably realize she isn't LTR material so ether way it won't matter.

It's not exactly a complete lose of frame. That typically happens when you move in together.
Banging for about 3 months now about 1-2 times a week and we are not moving in together lol
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Update.

Told her I didn't see the point of doing that and that it doesn't make sense to me.

She then proceeds to claim it's for "sanitary reasons" and that I can do anything I want with anyone but just not sex.

I've literally never had a women propose this type of thing before and I'm not just gonna fool around with other plates without having sex with them.. lol.

Should I just accept and do my own thing anyways? Or soft next?
 

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Update.

Told her I didn't see the point of doing that and that it doesn't make sense to me.

She then proceeds to claim it's for "sanitary reasons" and that I can do anything I want with anyone but just not sex.

I've literally never had a women propose this type of thing before and I'm not just gonna fool around with other plates without having sex with them.. lol.

Should I just accept and do my own thing anyways? Or soft next?
Tell her you need a "month of space away from her" to bang your other plates and think about her proposal.
 

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I'd tell her you would consider it at some point. Tell her its too early. Withdraw a little attention. Ignore her whining.
 

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"Sure hon"

Learn how to create a bigger disconnect between words and intent.
I actually like this a lot. It kind of avoids directly answering while giving her a "positive" answer and still holding frame.

Applause to you sir.
 
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