Victimothy
Banned
- Joined
- Sep 18, 2017
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We as DJ's are advised to spin plates at all times, but is it simply running away from ever truly connecting with anyone?
Does spinning plates really ever cure oneitis or is it just a Band-Aid of denying the pain and longing to have connected to that one chick?
IMO spinning plates is great if you have nothing else going on in life but to juggle women (if that's even remotely possible as people can barely maintain contact with family, friends, acquaintances, co-workers, etc.) Besides what actually counts as "spinning plates"? Is it just approaching random chicks? Is it just knowing them? Or is it maintain a harem? And if it's the latter how does one manage to get anything else done? There's talking, texting, remembering names, remembering what you talked about etc.
No people just come in and out of your life on a weekly rotating basis that you could even count as "plates" like most do women. Even if they constantly did what's the point?
Plate spinning seems like the snake oil advice that not only isn't realistic but is sold to others because the dude who gives that sort of advice doesn't really have anything else going on in life but "spinning plates" depending on what "spinning plates" actually is for them. Seems more like a social outcasts advice who cannot connect with anyone on a deeper level than simply meeting other people and both disappearing into thin air. IF they are even doing THAT.
Does spinning plates really ever cure oneitis or is it just a Band-Aid of denying the pain and longing to have connected to that one chick?
IMO spinning plates is great if you have nothing else going on in life but to juggle women (if that's even remotely possible as people can barely maintain contact with family, friends, acquaintances, co-workers, etc.) Besides what actually counts as "spinning plates"? Is it just approaching random chicks? Is it just knowing them? Or is it maintain a harem? And if it's the latter how does one manage to get anything else done? There's talking, texting, remembering names, remembering what you talked about etc.
No people just come in and out of your life on a weekly rotating basis that you could even count as "plates" like most do women. Even if they constantly did what's the point?
Plate spinning seems like the snake oil advice that not only isn't realistic but is sold to others because the dude who gives that sort of advice doesn't really have anything else going on in life but "spinning plates" depending on what "spinning plates" actually is for them. Seems more like a social outcasts advice who cannot connect with anyone on a deeper level than simply meeting other people and both disappearing into thin air. IF they are even doing THAT.