Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SPIN PLATES!! COLD APPROACH!! SIGN UP ON MULTIPLE DATING APPS!!
You: "Come back to me when it goes to hell and you come crashing down from that superficial infatuation, then I'll teach you how the world really works"
This is pathetic. He should be looking for a few more numbers, and also be texting them in order to not 'over-invest' in the single number he has. There is a synergy involved here; he cares a little less, and the women starts to care a little more.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I agree with letting him fail. I thought that about a girl a long time ago and nothing, and I mean nothing, good resulted from it. I learned and realized how the real world works.
