The Real Story in OLD

[ubercat]

Yeah ithat was a bit of a throw away post. It's been a while. What I remember is about a 1 in 5 flake rate if I had to guess at an average. Sometimes a good run sometimes bad. My biggest sticking point was getting them out. My conversion rate could have been better. I r often leave days between messages which didn't work.

 

[guru1000]

Quadruple-header today. Rainchecked two for next Sunday.

Had two I couldn't raincheck, as they were previously rescheduled (one of them twice previously), so I'm doing a simultaneous double-header same place, both at 8pm.

Stay tuned ...

What a night.

Both girls appear before me. I walk in 10 minutes late.

I see Girl 1 first, so I approach, kiss her on the cheek and sit down. She’s an 8 in person. As we exchange pleasantries, I notice Girl 2 at the bar, approx. 30 feet away, looking at me. Apparently, Girl 2 recognizes me from the OLD photos. So I excuse myself from Girl 1 for a moment and walk over to Girl 2. She’s a 7 in person.

Guru: Hi, I’m Guru

Girl 2: Hi, nice to meet you finally!

She gives me a hug.

Guru: Yes, you too, you look great, very pretty, but I’m sorry I’m going to have to cut this date short.

Girl 2: Excuse me!?

Guru: I have to get going, I’m sorry.

Girl 2: Are you fvcking serious! I’m going to report you to Match!

Girl 2 is obviously not happy, yet she has this sexy thing about her. Could be her round butt or maybe her empty threat. Regardless, Guru now finds this girl interesting.

Guru: Actually, I find you very attractive.

I try to kiss her on the lips. She pushes me away.

Guru: There is just something about you. <Pause>

I try to kiss her again. She pushes me away harder.

Guru: Look to be honest with you, you remind me <pause> of my ex, and I don’t <pause> think <pause>

Silence ensues for 10 seconds. No words exchanged. I look her squarely in the eyes. I go in slowly for the kiss this time. And we start making out for about 30 seconds. I break the kiss and sit down with her. I look over, and notice Girl 1 left. Apparantly, she saw me with Girl 2.

Date lasted about 1.5 hours. I couldn't get her back to my place. But second date’s next Sunday. That is if I don’t rain-check her

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I actually don't have a counter to this double/triple header business.

As I was talking about with someone last week, the only way to make the female population realise that they don't run the show is for men to begin running the show again; and this is the perfect demonstration. Next level game; beyond game. The likes of which most guys will never have the value, nor the spine to pull off. I've double booked before, but never in the same venue. Good work. Great inspiration.

 

[sosousage]

I actually don't have a counter to this double/triple header business.

As I was talking about with someone last week, the only way to make the female population realise that they don't run the show is for men to begin running the show again; and this is the perfect demonstration. Next level game; beyond game. The likes of which most guys will never have the value, nor the spine to pull off. I've double booked before, but never in the same venue. Good work. Great inspiration.

Good I will try to set triple date in the same time and place. If they all will come it will be funny af. I mean they are internet girls anyway, and if there will be 3 of them it will be easy to talk about anything because they will try to make discussion

 

[Solomon]

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What a night.

Both girls appear before me. I walk in 10 minutes late.

I see Girl 1 first, so I approach, kiss her on the cheek and sit down. She’s an 8 in person. As we exchange pleasantries, I notice Girl 2 at the bar, approx. 30 feet away, looking at me. Apparently, Girl 2 recognizes me from the OLD photos. So I excuse myself from Girl 1 for a moment and walk over to Girl 2. She’s a 7 in person.



She gives me a hug.


Girl 2 is obviously not happy, yet she has this sexy thing about her. Could be her round butt or maybe her empty threat. Regardless, Guru now finds this girl interesting.



I try to kiss her on the lips. She pushes me away.



I try to kiss her again. She pushes me away harder.


Silence ensues for 10 seconds. No words exchanged. I look her squarely in the eyes. I go in slowly for the kiss this time. And we start making out for about 30 seconds. I break the kiss and sit down with her. I look over, and notice Girl 1 left. Apparantly, she saw me with Girl 2.

Date lasted about 1.5 hours. I couldn't get her back to my place. But second date’s next Sunday. That is if I don’t rain-check her

LMFAOOOOOO

if this story is true sir you are either one of the ballsy dudes on this site or one of the most stupidest guys here

 

[marmel75]

Good I will try to set triple date in the same time and place. If they all will come it will be funny af. I mean they are internet girls anyway, and if there will be 3 of them it will be easy to talk about anything because they will try to make discussion

You definitely are not ready for something like that based on your other posts. You'd end up sitting with all 3 drinking ice cream sodas and going shopping, lol...

 

[sosousage]

You definitely are not ready for something like that based on your other posts. You'd end up sitting with all 3 drinking ice cream sodas and going shopping, lol...

lol whats your problem

 

[EyeBRollin]

The key point missing on this thread:

OLD can't flake because they haven't met you yet. Take it in stride. If they flake I simply act like it never happened, wait 2-4 days and ask them out again.

Like guru, I've found no incentive to not double-triple stack online dates. I schedule them for 2-6 days out, leave them the number and tell them I will see them at the venue. I entertain the first one to confirm (highest interest level), then reschedule additional confirmations. Some days I go 0/3. Some days I go 3/3, rain checking on some pretty nice caliber chicks.

 

[guru1000]

How do you rain check them?

There's an inverse relationship with the amount of care you exhibit--to--how likely they are to agree with your rain check offer and show up the day of. Show little emotion and no apology when you raincheck. My go to is:

Looks like I'll be tied up with a client/investor longer than expected. Raincheck for next Sunday, same time?

If you're rain-checking a couple days out, ghost until the day of the date. The day of, confirm with, "On for 8pm?" Be a lazy texter.

If rain-checking a week out, drop her a quick text mid-week to let her know you didn't ghost her permanently.

 

[Victimothy]

There's an inverse relationship with the amount of care you exhibit--to--how likely they are to agree with your rain check offer and show up the day of. Show little emotion and no apology when you raincheck. My go to is:



If you're rain-checking a couple days out, ghost until the day of the date. The day of, confirm with, "On for 8pm?" Be a lazy texter.

If rain-checking a week out, drop her a quick text mid-week to let her know you didn't ghost her permanently.

Do you inform your rain checked dates you're part of the board meetings on so suave managing it's clients and investors while filing lawsuits against usernames that hurt your feelings?

 

[marmel75]

lol whats your problem

I don't have a problem, but you can't go from crawling to running a 100 meter dash. You gotta walk a few steps at a time first...

 

[guru1000]

Incited by @BeExcellent's post, I want to write a little about inner game. Even as a high-value guy (defined as looks, status and wealth), when you are dealing with top-notch women (9s+) in the beginning stages, IF they sense a chink in your inner game, they are out instantly.

Let me repeat:

You could be a 8 or 9 in looks;

You could have a 7-figure net worth; and

You could have a prominent job;

BUT, if a 9+ senses insecurity in your inner game (in the beginning states), she will NEXT you.

However, you could be a 7 in looks, with average income and job--but with strong inner game--and still have a shot with this same 9.

Let me share a little secret about real inner game. It does not come from abundance of 9s or 10s, as such an inner frame is outwardly validated, so within the same capacity, you can be outwardly de-validated.

Are you ready for the secret for real inner game? Rejection. Mind-blowing, suicidal-pushing outrageous rejection. A funny thing happens when you push way out of the “comfort zone” to the edge of the “other side” and get rejected harshly. At first, you will crash hard. Then you become more desensitized. Eventually ... you relinquish all outside validation as the source of your inner value, become insouciant, and truly DGAF.

In many of my dates, I push the envelope as far as I can to prompt a sharp rejection. Some times, the envelope is pushed so far and the dynamic just appears so insane and absurd, that the girl doesn't even know how to react, so she just goes along with it. LOL.

Push the envelope way out of the norm of social interactions, welcome and embrace rejection. This is the key to true desensitization and strong inner game.

 

[E.T.]

Incited by @BeExcellent's post, I want to write a little about inner game. Even as a high-value guy (defined as looks, status and wealth), when you are dealing with top-notch women (9s+) in the beginning stages, IF they sense a chink in your inner game, they are out instantly.

Let me repeat:

You could be a 8 or 9 in looks;

You could have a 7-figure net worth; and

You could have a prominent job;

BUT, if a 9+ senses insecurity in your inner game (in the beginning states), she will NEXT you.

However, you could be a 7 in looks, with average income and job--but with strong inner game--and still have a shot with this same 9.

Let me share a little secret about real inner game. It does not come from abundance of 9s or 10s, as such an inner frame is outwardly validated, so within the same capacity, you can be outwardly de-validated.

Are you ready for the secret for real inner game? Rejection. Mind-blowing, suicidal-pushing outrageous rejection. A funny thing happens when you push way out of the “comfort zone” to the edge of the “other side” and get rejected harshly. At first, you will crash hard. Then you become more desensitized. Eventually ... you relinquish all outside validation as the source of your inner value, become insouciant, and truly DGAF.

In many of my dates, I push the envelope as far as I can to prompt a sharp rejection. Some times, the envelope is pushed so far and the dynamic just appears so insane and absurd, that the girl doesn't even know how to react, so she just goes along with it. LOL.

Push the envelope way out of the norm of social interactions, welcome and embrace rejection. This is the key to true desensitization and strong inner game.

So you identify as a reject. Were you able to inner game the judge and jury when they convicted you?

You rejected the law and succeeded in becoming an ex-con that posts bedtime stories on SS for a decade.

Your anniversary is in two days. Congratulations.

 

[marmel75]

So you identify as a reject. Were you able to inner game the judge and jury when they convicted you?

You rejected the law and succeeded in becoming an ex-con that posts bedtime stories on SS for a decade.

Your anniversary is in two days. Congratulations.

Welcome back BigGumby. How's that Dad Bod treating you?

 

[guru1000]

This weekend so far: Four second dates, four new first dates, and four rain-checks. 4-4-4. All other girls dropped. I'm going to hire a date manager soon. Too time-consuming. Could probably find one for minimum wage.

 

[sosousage]

This weekend so far: Four second dates, four new first dates, and four rain-checks. 4-4-4. All other girls dropped. I'm going to hire a date manager soon. Too time-consuming. Could probably find one for minimum wage.

wtf dude. where you gett them from

 

[guru1000]

80% OLD/ 20% warm-approach, that is, they eyeball, I approach.

My social circle is dead for dimes. I'm working on that.

Put it this way: I operate exactly as a hot woman would. That's why I never fault hot women or the market. Hot women simply have too many options to take things seriously and are doing exactly what anyone would do under the same circumstance. We're all human; no one is above this.

Don't hate the "game." Get better.

 

[EyeBRollin]

wtf dude. where you gett them from

It's volume my friend. Get professional photos. Get on every dating app possible. Go out and meet women. Give no ****s about meeting multiple women at the same time.

If this guy can do it, you can too.

 

[guru1000]

If this guy can do it, you can too.

This guy had a horrible closing ratio. Some men are better off focusing on self-improvement and inner game before exploiting OLD.

 

[EyeBRollin]

This guy had a horrible closing ratio. Some men are better off focusing on self-improvement and inner game before exploiting OLD.

He was horrible. The broader point is that anyone can get dates. Get as many as possible, while improving the closing the closing ratio.