I had 3 dates nearly set and 3 flaked

[sosousage]

All from OLD. We were messaging via facebook but we werent added as friends.

1. Chatted with me couple days then asked why I dont add her on FB. I said that I dont want her to see everything about me and I dont know her yet. She said im weird and that im making her tired and cut off contact (i wasnt messaging too much)

2. Was chatting with me couple days. She asked me for date multiple times. Then she asked me for second photo multiple times. At first i was too lazy to send her second pic because im not snapchat/IG pokemon but in the end i sent it becasue she called me FAKE!!. She showed a lot of red flags but whatever. When she got photo she next day she lost interest. PS second photo quality was like the first one.

3. Was asking me couple weeks for a date. I knew shes typical sluut and would chat with as many decent looking guys as possible (assuming they arent mega ugly) so I just kept on getting her attention and flirted with her a lot. She liked it. Out of all the e-dating illiterate guys I was the one she chose to flirt with, and said im probably the only one smart person there. Asked me for second pic then said im handsome and gave me a wall of text how she was meeting someone since last 2 months and will end being single soon. I asked why she wanted to meet me 2 days ago and she said "cuz im still single".

Dammmnn what does it take in this world to get laid

 

[marmel75]

I used to tell them I don't have Facebook, end of discussion. You have to learn tact...that was a weird thing to say to be honest--it's exactly the same thing I was thinking when I tell them I don't have Facebook, but there are ways to communicate things and there are ways not to...

Talk to more women and learn what works and what doesn't. It's obviously none of those things worked, try something different next time.

 

[sosousage]

I used to tell them I don't have Facebook, end of discussion. You have to learn tact...that was a weird thing to say to be honest--it's exactly the same thing I was thinking when I tell them I don't have Facebook, but there are ways to communicate things and there are ways not to...

Talk to more women and learn what works and what doesn't. It's obviously none of those things worked, try something different next time.

come on dude how can I MAKE RULES if I do not say what I want? i chit chat with plenty of women the amount of wasted time is incredible but hey everyone does this nowadays


PS i told my ex i dont have facebook and blocked her there so she doesnt see me (XD). She found me because her friends probably found me (!!) So your strategy is no good she left me

 

[marmel75]

come on dude how can I MAKE RULES if I do not say what I want? i chit chat with plenty of women the amount of wasted time is incredible but hey everyone does this nowadays


PS i told my ex i dont have facebook and blocked her there so she doesnt see me (XD). She found me because her friends probably found me (!!) So your strategy is no good she left me

You can make the rules. Inside a framework of what will work and what won't. Unless you don't care about results, then do whatever

 

[skinnyguy]

Women are frustrating themselves with this behavior. It won't change because "Snapchat" and OLD ruined things for everyone. I don't have a Snapchat - when people ask me why I say it's for 13 year old girls. And no way I'll let some OLD slut see my FB.

You're rIght that it's hard to get laid online unless you're chad thundercock. Some guys on SS talk about online lays but they are either lying or going for HB 2.

 

[marmel75]

Women are frustrating themselves with this behavior. It won't change because "Snapchat" and OLD ruined things for everyone. I don't have a Snapchat - when people ask me why I say it's for 13 year old girls. And no way I'll let some OLD slut see my FB.

You're rIght that it's hard to get laid online unless you're chad thundercock. Some guys on SS talk about online lays but they are either lying or going for HB 2.

It absolutely is not. Guys just have no concept of working inside frameworks of what is going to work and what doesn't. They think they can do whatever and it should work becasue they are "Alpha" by doing that. Really it shows they don't understand tact, social interactions and how to say things without saying them. Again, ANY guy who works on it enough can go on OLD today and get laid by Friday at the latest. ANY Guy.

Just stop acting like this sh!t is life and death...its a woman and a date...big deal.

 

[skinnyguy]

It absolutely is not. Guys just have no concept of working inside frameworks of what is going to work and what doesn't. They think they can do whatever and it should work becasue they are "Alpha" by doing that. Really it shows they don't understand tact, social interactions and how to say things without saying them. Again, ANY guy who works on it enough can go on OLD today and get laid by Friday at the latest. ANY Guy.

What type of girls do you bang? I'm not gonna bang a girl less than HB 8 and I don't bang single moms. You probably have really low standards and just want to get your **** wet which is totally your choice. But most guys don't want to dumpster dive.

 

[sosousage]

Women are frustrating themselves with this behavior. It won't change because "Snapchat" and OLD ruined things for everyone. I don't have a Snapchat - when people ask me why I say it's for 13 year old girls. And no way I'll let some OLD slut see my FB.

You're rIght that it's hard to get laid online unless you're chad thundercock. Some guys on SS talk about online lays but they are either lying or going for HB 2.

i agree.

It absolutely is not. Guys just have no concept of working inside frameworks of what is going to work and what doesn't. They think they can do whatever and it should work becasue they are "Alpha" by doing that. Really it shows they don't understand tact, social interactions and how to say things without saying them. Again, ANY guy who works on it enough can go on OLD today and get laid by Friday at the latest. ANY Guy.

I dont think its possible in my country. Even fat woman with weird faces are neglecting me (1,9m tall, sixpack) while i cast joked that i laugh myself at. Any guy? 90% of women isnt there to meet or something. im getting a lot of matches daily but eventually only really fat chick will bother replying.



theres one decent looking chick 10 years older than me shes much smarter than all these tinder *****s that are getting me a headache. i think i will bang her cause she really likes texting me and aske dme a lot of times but i refused traveling 1h

 

[marmel75]

What type of girls do you bang? I'm not gonna bang a girl less than HB 8 and I don't bang single moms. You probably have really low standards and just want to get your **** wet which is totally your choice. But most guys don't want to dumpster dive.

Nope. Why is it guys who are successful at OLD are always thought to be "dumpster diving"? I've already posted exactly what to do. Why don't you learn how to be more attractive initially to potential dates?

If you can't get an HB8 then either you are going to lower your standards or you are going to be jacking off for a long time. And if you think you are just going to go from no dates to HB8's and be on point after a year of not going on dates then you are kidding yourself.

 

[skinnyguy]

Nope. Why is it guys who are successful at OLD are always thought to be "dumpster diving"? I've already posted exactly what to do. Why don't you learn how to be more attractive initially to potential dates?

If you can't get an HB8 then either you are going to lower your standards or you are going to be jacking off for a long time. And if you think you are just going to go from no dates to HB8's and be on point after a year of not going on dates then you are kidding yourself.

Jacking off is better than dating fatties. Are you saying it's better to date fatties?

 

[marmel75]

Jacking off is better than dating fatties. Are you saying it's better to date fatties?

If all you can get on OLD is fatties then that's on you. That isn't a normal experience from people who know what they are doing on there.

 

[dustmuffin]

It absolutely is not. Guys just have no concept of working inside frameworks of what is going to work and what doesn't. They think they can do whatever and it should work becasue they are "Alpha" by doing that. Really it shows they don't understand tact, social interactions and how to say things without saying them. Again, ANY guy who works on it enough can go on OLD today and get laid by Friday at the latest. ANY Guy.

Just stop acting like this sh!t is life and death...its a woman and a date...big deal.

You are correct sir. I get laid on old all of the time.

 

[sosousage]

WTF are you doing?

Seems to me you're going over the top mysterious to attract these women then backing way the fvck off when they want some actual evidence of your value.

Every one of these women should have been a slam dunk close for you.

I dont have anything on FB so i prefer not adding them so they dont see

 

[ubercat]

So consensus is that my humble self DM, Marmel all run similar online game and do fine ie. Multiple 7+ and ltr worthy girls. And guru but he s probably unique. And we all agree you should go multi channel. So quit with this low quality man crap guys. And this stupid straw man that all people who use online dating r bloody Hermits who don't go out.

Point is if you apply the same process of analyse and adapt to any area of your game of course you will improve. If you can't be bothered doing the work it's a simple case of a poor workman blames his tools.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I found the more eager I was for the dates, the more often they would flake.

It's when you are cool and nonchalant about the whole business that you secure the dates.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Stop caring so much. Not all of it is you.

Online dating works based on one formula:

Better pictures + more volume = more lays

That's it. Take some professional photos and ask as many chicks out as you can.