7 Plates - New Dating Strategy

[Urbanyst]

I know have a record seven plates as of yesterday.

Didn't set out to make this happen but, it happened just due to meeting a lot of women in the past few weeks. The two most recent ones I met last week and slept with.

I think one key factor is I met two like-minded wing-men recently whom are great with cold approach. The group provides instant social proof. One guy is somewhat rich, which also helps a lot.

I know this is not sustainable because I just don't have the time for this many women. However, I really don't care. The way I see it.. women are flaky as hell anyway and most of them will lose interest or drop off on their own.

My current dating strategy is to just keep meeting new women and trying to sleep with them and getting more plates. The ones with the highest interest will fight to keep the relationship and those are the ones who I might consider for LTR. Until then, I will just keep adding to my rotation and see what happens lol.

What is the most plates any of you have had at once and how did things play out?

 

[Glassguy]

I had 7 or 8 at one time. Way too many.

I made them chase and several withdrew their name from the contest after a few weeks.

I think 2-3 is the right number as long as you're replacing when they act like sh!t and always upgrading.

 

[Urbanyst]

I'm trying to get even more plates. I know some of these girls will drop off. Women are flaky.

Invited one plate out tonight and she said she has other plans. I told her to just admit she forgot to shave her legs. Made that up just to sh*t test her. Don't care! So I'm going out with a wingman tonight as plan B. Got three new Tinder matches today as well.

I want to see how far I can push this. Pretty much given up on finding "quality". I decided I'm just going to have a blast and ride the vagina carousel until one of these girls fights hard to keep me lol.

 

[TheGambino]

Im doing 4 active ones right now, 2 lost interest because i only fvck them and They want ltr. Another 5 on the backburner and 2 new dates. I reject girls All the time that want to go out but dont meet my attractive level standard. Good job. I approach or talk to women whenever i see a dime in a good situation.

 

[Glassguy]

IMO abundance is great, but you dont want to burn too many bridges on potential plates due to lack of time.

I try to keep as many in my back pocket as possible because you just never know what will happen.

 

[Desdinova]

I found 4 was too many. 2 or 3 is a good, manageable number.

 

[QuadDeuces]

I found 4 was too many. 2 or 3 is a good, manageable number.

4 actively banging plates is too much, especially if things don't go as planned, or go out of your control.
Plates running into eachother, or when you have to lie to much.
It would be perfect if you could be honest and say look, on monday I'm seeing Lisa, tuesday Carol, thursday Sharon and in the weekends I'm banging you.
But unfortunately with women it doesn't work that way.

 

[Urbanyst]

4 actively banging plates is too much, especially if things don't go as planned, or go out of your control.
Plates running into eachother, or when you have to lie to much.
It would be perfect if you could be honest and say look, on monday I'm seeing Lisa, tuesday Carol, thursday Sharon and in the weekends I'm banging you.
But unfortunately with women it doesn't work that way.

I don't even care if the plates run into each other lol.

This dating market is such a joke I no longer take women seriously.

 

[marmel75]

I had 6 for a few weeks which turned into 5 for several months, which turned into 4 for a few months then 3 for almost 6 months and then 2 for another 6 months...

It got to the point when I had over 3 that my d1ck was literally sore almost all week from having sex so much. Not a good feeling. Guys think it would be awesome...trust me it's not...when it hurts every time you pee from banging so much it really puts a damper on things.

3 was good, personally I liked 2 the best tho...much more manageable for me...

 

[youngprodigy]

3-4 is what I can manage the most. It's helps with the abundance mentality but any more than that will work against you and you'll end you losing a couple tilll you're at the level you have time for

 

[Urbanyst]

3-4 is what I can manage the most. It's helps with the abundance mentality but any more than that will work against you and you'll end you losing a couple tilll you're at the level you have time for

That's fine. I can deal with 3 de facto plates and several "spares".

 

[guru1000]

I don't even care if the plates run into each other lol.

This dating market is such a joke I no longer take women seriously.

This is the mindset.