"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Neighbor Assaulted by Woman

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My neighbor is 21 and lives with a girl his age. He's a really sharp, hard working young man who has a bright future.

So as you can imagine, I was telling him "Don't get married" but he bought a ring anyway. She's actually almost 1 year older than him.

I tried to set him up with an 18 year old cashier just yesterday.

Tonight he came over with a black eye and bruises and said his live-in girlfriend beat him up and pushed him down a flight of stairs, then left him.

I feel bad for him because I told him he can never go back to her, ever. This is an even worse instant breakup than when a girl says there is someone else.

I spoke to his brother who is jacked and a vet, and he and I both said we can't think of any girl we dated who was THIS bad.

Would you agree you can never go back to a girl who physically assaults you? That is a tough pill for him to swallow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My neighbor is 21 and lives with a girl his age. He's a really sharp, hard working young man who has a bright future.

So as you can imagine, I was telling him "Don't get married" but he bought a ring anyway. She's actually almost 1 year older than him.

I tried to set him up with an 18 year old cashier just yesterday.

Tonight he came over with a black eye and bruises and said his live-in girlfriend beat him up and pushed him down a flight of stairs, then left him.

I feel bad for him because I told him he can never go back to her, ever. This is an even worse instant breakup than when a girl says there is someone else.

I spoke to his brother who is jacked and a vet, and he and I both said we can't think of any girl we dated who was THIS bad.

Would you agree you can never go back to a girl who physically assaults you? That is a tough pill for him to swallow.
Why doesn't he send her to jail?
 

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What the guy should have done is put a picture of this woman on that site that you use bigneil and got her "trustworthiness" score.

Im willing to bet it'd have been a low score, then he'd have known not to get involved.

Clue him in neil, show him the way, lead him, guide him.
 

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he should have grabbed her on his way down and used her to brake his fall
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What the guy should have done is put a picture of this woman on that site that you use bigneil and got her "trustworthiness" score.

Im willing to bet it'd have been a low score, then he'd have known not to get involved.

Clue him in neil, show him the way, lead him, guide him.

Lmfao! That was great man hahahah.
 

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What the guy should have done is put a picture of this woman on that site that you use bigneil and got her "trustworthiness" score.

Im willing to bet it'd have been a low score, then he'd have known not to get involved.

Clue him in neil, show him the way, lead him, guide him.
The trustworthy score is for the photo, not the girl. Your issue is with Photofeeler, which you resent because it prevents you from unilaterally declaring that your women are hotter, based on your personal opinion, which for some reason you are arrogant enough to imagine represents reality. Still never saw any women from Infern0.

Here is your report card, InferNoWomen:
  • Reading comprehension F
  • Statistics F
  • Virginity A+
 

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The trustworthy score is for the photo, not the girl. Your issue is with Photofeeler, which you resent because it prevents you from unilaterally declaring that your women are hotter, based on your personal opinion, which for some reason you are arrogant enough to imagine represents reality. Still never saw any women from Infern0.

Here is your report card, InferNoWomen:
  • Reading comprehension F
  • Statistics F
  • Virginity A+
Never commented on your girls hotness bigneil, it's really not relevant to me, its what you think that counts. (I know you won't "get" that because you only care about validation from external sources (
 

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I don't seek validation, I provide proof of validation.

I've demonstrated that SS members grossly underestimate my women compared to random voters on Photofeeler (who are paid to be honest - they are tested for consistency so it's not random or biased).

If 20 SS members rate a girl with no bias, the scores should be the same as Photofeeler.
 

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I don't seek validation, I provide proof of validation.

I've demonstrated that SS members grossly underestimate my women compared to random voters on Photofeeler (who are paid to be honest - they are tested for consistency so it's not random or biased).

If 20 SS members rate a girl with no bias, the scores should be the same as Photofeeler.
Again, why does any of this matter?

If you like her, what's it matter?

I might like a girl and post her picture on here (i wouldn't because that shows severe respect defecit issues) and everyone on here could say she is an ugly pig. I could put her on photowhatever and she scores a 1 out of 10

What you think i'm going to say "oh, yeah ok i change my opinion" and dump her.

It's beyond redundant neil, i don't know why you waste your time with it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't seek validation, I provide proof of validation.

I've demonstrated that SS members grossly underestimate my women compared to random voters on Photofeeler (who are paid to be honest - they are tested for consistency so it's not random or biased).

If 20 SS members rate a girl with no bias, the scores should be the same as Photofeeler.
You don't seek validation but you prove validation? Doesn't that mean that you are seeking validation of your validation ? lol

What you said should be an epiphany.. it kind of proves that other people's validation will never be enough. You need to get validation from yourself.
 

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You don't seek validation but you prove validation? Doesn't that mean that you are seeking validation of your validation ? lol

What you said should be an epiphany.. it kind of proves that other people's validation will never be enough. You need to get validation from yourself.
It wont register, he doesn't want to hear it.
 

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bigneil is bat chit crazy but oh well its how he is boys, i for one am now a bigneil supporter. post some pics of the chicks an show these haters whos boss! #photofeelinit!
 
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