Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Not getting the attention I deserve? From women I am. I had two dates this week. Then I saw a woman my age who met both and she actually gave me useful feedback. Anyone who sees me on my dates knows they love me.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm about to become the #1 most liked SoSuave member. Read it and weep, guys and girls. Given all the crap I take here, that means a lot. I'm deplorable, after all. SS members have spoken.
And then he's admitting he's staying on ss to become the "most likes member".
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Huh? No, that part is simply the reality because I publish actual proof of what I say. If anyone knows me, they know I don't try to be liked.
Well since you are into statistics neil I thought I would highlight something for you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do you **** hot girls for free? Show us.
Frog, I told you come out to Cali. I'll give you what you want... as long as your money don't run out.
Oh yea you're a wannabe pimp, that's right.
Nah your right I never claimed hotter that's redundant. What I said was girls you wouldn't find on backpage redbook craigslist and the likes
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Madison chews her fingernails, doesn't she?You joined this week to say that? Oh and you don't have four other accounts? And I didn't already embarrass you into closing three of them?
Huh? No, that part is simply the reality because I publish actual proof of what I say. If anyone knows me, they know I don't try to be liked.
Let's see you guys post photos of yourselves and your dates. This is my new girl. She works at a furniture store. Her photos rated 99. Her and my last girl (I met them both a year ago now) both told me they know the other girl loves me.
Lol the way it's going one will need a dated photo of himself in mid coitus to be "believed" by some of these guys. The insecurity and lack of confidence is rampant. SMH i thought this was a TRP forum
Even if you don't call a girl a prostitute, is there a way to have a relationship without involving money? Perhaps when you are young, but as you get older?
Well like i told you countless times. You are what you are and kudos and finally coming to terms with it. Prostitutes need to make a living too as long as it's a fair exchange from your point of view go for it
I've ****ed over 100 prostitutes over the past 3 years. It's gotten old.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
