She's moving in with me

[randalljohnson]

I just wanted to drop in to post this update for everybody who is familiar with me and my previous posts about my girlfriend and the worries that I had due to her questionable (mostly online) behavior and her dysfunctional past:

It's now been just shy of a year that we've been together, and she has decided to take the plunge to move in with me. She's uprooting herself and her child, and is moving 40 miles across state lines to live with me and my child. I'm honestly surprised she took that plunge, considering all the friends she's made and her kid has made. All the connections she had where she lived.I'm also a bit surprise because I didn't know if this would be possible due to legal reasons with her kids father.

Of course, I'm always open for opinions and constructive criticism. If there's still naysayers that believe our relationship won't pan out. Or people who believe that "she'll marry me for my resources." Or she'll "monkey branch because it's in her DNA to be promiscuous." Anything that you guys want to throw at me, I always have an open ear and I don't mind being challenged by you guys.

 

[Thorninmyside]

And here I was thinking there wouldn't be a 3rd Dumb and Dumber movie.

"She has decided"? Who's running this show? [rhetorical question]

 

[Trump]

I just wanted to drop in to post this update for everybody who is familiar with me and my previous posts about my girlfriend and the worries that I had due to her questionable (mostly online) behavior and her dysfunctional past:

It's now been just shy of a year that we've been together, and she has decided to take the plunge to move in with me. She's uprooting herself and her child, and is moving 40 miles across state lines to live with me and my child. I'm honestly surprised she took that plunge, considering all the friends she's made and her kid has made. All the connections she had where she lived.I'm also a bit surprise because I didn't know if this would be possible due to legal reasons with her kids father.

Of course, I'm always open for opinions and constructive criticism. If there's still naysayers that believe our relationship won't pan out. Or people who believe that "she'll marry me for my resources." Or she'll "monkey branch because it's in her DNA to be promiscuous." Anything that you guys want to throw at me, I always have an open ear and I don't mind being challenged by you guys.

Who said we will challenge you? It may be good idea to have said woman and her child physically move in with you.

Frankly, a slut; or divorced; or even older woman is better. Heck, even a bit overweight beats a woman with a kid. Something about a woman having a kid really really turns me off.

 

[HoneyHitter]

Don't let her decide the course of YOUR life! Stay on the wheel!

How does SHE decide to move in with you? She's not doing you any favor! Stop and think for a minute: what would YOU gain from letting her move in? More, better intimacy? With TWO kids around the house? Not a chance.

 

[bigneil]

girlfriend that had questionable behavior and dysfunctional past decided uprooting herself and child is moving to live with me and my child.

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I hope it works out. You will need to find a way to give her space and get space and that won't be easy. You'll be on babysitter duty most of the time. You better put her to work earning her stay there, from the start.