Market Trend Analysis - Dating in 2017

[marmel75]

You really think the average guy doesn't know enough to play it cool? Even back when I was a green, ignorant, young snot, I at least knew I was supposed to appear confident, so I faked it.

I've never been convinced that most guys out there are just a bunch of losers. I mean, maybe they are, but I've never been convinced of it.

they might..they also display desperate needy behavior either in person or via text...women were shocked I wasn't up their ass all day long or texting them every five minutes til they respond.

They are typically afraid to escalate in date and either wait for the last minute to make it an all or nothing proposition and then sometimes get too afraid to do anything instead of just letting your sexual energy flow in date...the average guy let's lay opportunities pass them by because they aren't confident enough to make a move and the woman goes home and was like "this guy wasn't a man, he was a scared little boy"

The average guy doesn't know how to give a woman an orgasm and has spent no time learning how to be phenomenal in bed.

That's the average guy I know...your mileage may vary but I doubt by too much...

 

[bigneil]

You really think the average guy doesn't know enough to play it cool? Even back when I was a green, ignorant, young snot, I at least knew I was supposed to appear confident, so I faked it.

I've never been convinced that most guys out there are just a bunch of losers. I mean, maybe they are, but I've never been convinced of it.

I watched the episode of Star Trek with my then trekkie gf "Who Mourns for Adonis?" the one where (IMO no homo) the handsomest guy in TV history cries at the end. That was 50 years ago, when real men apparently weren't shamed for showing emotion. And tell me she doesn't look like my then gf in that dress.

 

[zekko]

That's the average guy I know...your mileage may vary but I doubt by too much...

I agree that guys will reveal their real selves as time goes on. But I thought we were talking more about first impression, cold approach types of situations.

 

[Urbanyst]

They might pretend to discard us like trash, but women don't go back to trash they threw away 2 months ago and pick it back up.

A woman being motivated by men with money is as normal as a man seeking young women - both are seeking the resources required to have a family, which includes fresh, young eggs and $750,000 per child.

True.

But once the kids are born a lot of men get discarded and just become a monthly source of passive income for the woman via child support.

Once the woman gets whatever she is after, she doesn't need the man anymore. If she stays with him, its because he continues to offer VALUE in a practical sense.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

If she stays with him, its because he continues to offer VALUE in a practical sense.

And what type of value could this be?

Isn't money "value in a practical sense."

 

[Urbanyst]

And what type of value could this be?

Isn't money "value in a practical sense."

Yes.

But money is only practical to a woman if the man spends it the way SHE wants him to. Not every man will do that.

A man that tolerates a woman's horse sh*t is also practical. A loyal man who will stay with her no matter how old and fat she gets is also practical. If a woman has you emotionally under control, you essentially become her personal assistant in life. And for FREE. Actually.. YOU pay HER to work for her. Very practical lol.