"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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But that's what I mean: What use is it having 1000 orbiters if you're not attracted to any of them?
According to PUA Bro Theory, women end up with one of these guys anyway, so maybe you should ask the woman what use they are? PUAs will tell you that there is no attraction, because they want to believe that women are only attracted to the players (like them). They want to tell you they are not attracted to orbiters to feed their fantasy that other males are no threat to them. In this PUA fantasy world, the women will never get their "alpha male" anyway, because the alpha will never commit. But the PUA wants to think that all the girls they've moved on from will spend the rest of their days pining for them, so it's an ego thing IMO.
 

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NO hoe is loyal come on dude...
You know how the free market works right? COMPETITION. When American auto makers were producing sh*t quality cars.. the Japanese came in and forced them to step up their game.

When you just accept sh*t there is no incentive for people to improve. Have standards!
 

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You know how the free market works right? COMPETITION. When American auto makers were producing sh*t quality cars.. the Japanese came in and forced them to step up their game.

When you just accept sh*t there is no incentive for people to improve. Have standards!
I don't accept sh!t from a woman EVER...but when you have been with 250 women like I have in my life many of them HB8- HB10'S (I have been with doctors and lawyers who were HB8's and Above) you realize that ALL women cheat and they ALL have no morals and are sleazy.(your young at 32..and may not have realized this yet..so I will cut you some slack):) EVERY woman is a 1995 Yugo...the only difference is how you drive it...
 

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I don't accept sh!t from a woman EVER...but when you have been with 250 women like I have in my life many of them HB8- HB10'S (I have been with doctors and lawyers who were HB8's and Above) you realize that ALL women cheat and they ALL have no morals and are sleazy.(your young at 32..and may not have realized this yet..so I will cut you some slack):) EVERY woman is a 1995 Yugo...the only difference is how you drive it...
The only unequivocal evidence that not ALL women cheat is I don't cheat.

If I can do it--despite a ridiculous sex drive with myriad options--there are women, too, who hold to higher ideals. Once we start succumbing to ALL or NONE arguments, we are subscribing to an irrational thought process. This is not to be confused with blindly investing into a woman's faithfulness but rather understanding a woman's proclivity to cheat is based upon her upbringing, surroundings, belief system, and need--and not unequivocal based on her gender.

I was the one to coin in any relationship, keep one foot in the door and the other out. However, we cannot invest into vast generalizations to develop fallacious thinking and the ensuing wanton prescription (in the context of exclusivity).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't accept sh!t from a woman EVER...but when you have been with 250 women like I have in my life many of them HB8- HB10'S (I have been with doctors and lawyers who were HB8's and Above) you realize that ALL women cheat and they ALL have no morals and are sleazy.(your young at 32..and may not have realized this yet..so I will cut you some slack):) EVERY woman is a 1995 Yugo...the only difference is how you drive it...
Every time I think I've swallowed every red pill in the bottle someone hands me another one...
 

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The only unequivocal evidence that not ALL women cheat is I don't cheat.

If I can do it--despite a ridiculous sex drive with myriad options--there are women, too, who hold to higher ideals. Once we start succumbing to ALL or NONE arguments, we are subscribing to an irrational thought process. This is not to be confused with blindly investing into a woman's faithfulness but rather understanding a woman's proclivity to cheat is based upon her upbringing, surroundings, belief system, and need--and not unequivocal based on her gender.

I was the one to coin in any relationship, keep one foot in the door and the other out. However, we cannot invest into vast generalizations to develop fallacious thinking and the ensuing wanton prescription (in the context of exclusivity).
How is Disneyland this time of year ?;)
 

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Nice regurgitated ad nauseam pathos. No logic.
I used to be like you...holding on to any hope of a unicorn,but as you gain real world experience with women and look at the situation honestly you quickly realize it's a pipe dream,the "viel" is only lifted through being with hundreds of women to realize the unicorn is just that a unicorn..
 

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I used to be like you...holding on to any hope of a unicorn,but as you gain real world experience with women and look at the situation honestly you quickly realize it's a pipe dream,the "viel" is only lifted through being with hundreds of women to realize the unicorn is just that a unicorn..
Hundreds? Did that in my 30s. Once you get closer to 1000, come talk to me.

As for unicorns: I assume you mean loyal women. The majority of my ex's were loyal. Extrapolation my friend. Your majority experience and poor choices of women does not equate to "ALL." Red pill is about recognizing the truth. Within this context, you are about as blue pill as it gets. Though, I will qualify and agree to the following:

Most women who are 8s and above have more opportunities to cheat and accordingly under the right circumstance will.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hundreds? Did that in my 30s. Once you get closer to 1000, come talk to me.

As for unicorns: I assume you mean loyal women. The majority of my ex's were loyal. Extrapolation my friend. Your majority experience and poor choices of women does not equate to "ALL." Red pill is about recognizing the truth. Within this context, you are about as blue pill as it gets. Though, I will qualify and agree to the following:

Most women who are 8s and above have more opportunities to cheat and accordingly under the right circumstance will.
My poor choices of women?..... lool... why do you have 1000 ex's ?? seems to me like you can't keep a woman interested in you for very long...;)
 

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My poor choices of women?..... lool... why do you have 1000 ex's ?? seems to me like you can't keep a woman interested in you for very long...;)
If this is your logic, I can understand how you came up with your first "ALL" fallacy.
 

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If this is your logic, I can understand how you came up with your first "ALL" fallacy.
OK Guru...agree to disagree...let me know when you find your unicorn dancing on a rainbow...(vomit)
 

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Here's another one - perhaps there is no red-pill reality... perhaps we make our own.
There is definitely a "reality" as in hard cold facts that can be proven.

Red pill is supposed to strip away the emotions and just focus on the facts. I can't say everyone who claims to be red pill does this. But its definitely a FACT that I have yet to date a woman who is marriage material. At least by my standards. And I'm a very eligible bachelor according to pop culture standards.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There is definitely a "reality" as in hard cold facts that can be proven.

Red pill is supposed to strip away the emotions and just focus on the facts. I can't say everyone who claims to be red pill does this. But its definitely a FACT that I have yet to date a woman who is marriage material. At least by my standards. And I'm a very eligible bachelor according to pop culture standards.
Yes, I think bourgeois blue pill 'culture' [ideology] reads its own mediocre values into reality, and then, hello, it turns out to be something a little more sinister by those standards.

I guess we are habituated today to think of reality in terms of Nature/ Biology, but there are plenty of other cultures who have seen reality, in those terms, as irrelevant - they sought to overcome reality by some ideal they had in mind. I love the Greeks for this, and it is something that Nietzsche picked up again in his half mad way. Instead of a biological lowering to the common denominator [horizontal equality].... there is conceived a vertical intelligible hierarchy. Free self-determined men instinctively know this, no matter the reigning ideology.
 
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