“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Control your emotions. Women win through emotion

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I think one of the most important things men have to remember is to keep your emotions in check at ALL TIMES.

Remember, women win and make you look like a fool though EMOTION
. If you LOSE your emotions, if you care MORE than her, you will lose the game with her. Women can't overpower men physically, so what do they do? They attack you EMOTIONALLY. This shuts you up, this makes you nervous, this attacks your self esteem, this makes pensive, this makes you behave "proper", this makes you quiet as a mouse, just the way she wants. Whatever she thinks is your power, your source of happiness, she will destroy it and threaten you if she doesn't get her way. "If you don't do things my way, you will be alone forever! If you don't do things on my terms, no one will have sex with you! If you don't give in to me, you won't find any other woman!"

The same women will who will threaten to leave you and abandon you sexually for life, is the same women that would love you if you gave her a job with a 6-figure salary. They can behave proper, just only if they get their "way." If they don't get their way, the insults and attacks fly off the shelf. So learn not to take women seriously and control your emotions at all times.

Come on men!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Outstanding post. Well put.
 

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I think one of the most important things men have to remember is to keep your emotions in check at ALL TIMES.

Remember, women win and make you look like a fool though EMOTION
. If you LOSE your emotions, if you care MORE than her, you will lose the game with her. Women can't overpower men physically, so what do they do? They attack you EMOTIONALLY. This shuts you up, this makes you nervous, this attacks your self esteem, this makes pensive, this makes you behave "proper", this makes you quiet as a mouse, just the way she wants. Whatever she thinks is your power, your source of happiness, she will destroy it and threaten you if she doesn't get her way. "If you don't do things my way, you will be alone forever! If you don't do things on my terms, no one will have sex with you! If you don't give in to me, you won't find any other woman!"

The same women will who will threaten to leave you and abandon you sexually for life, is the same women that would love you if you gave her a job with a 6-figure salary. They can behave proper, just only if they get their "way." If they don't get their way, the insults and attacks fly off the shelf. So learn not to take women seriously and control your emotions at all times.

Come on men!
Others have replied how the ancient philosophy of Stoicism [when philosophy was moral philosophy] helps in keeping a rational check on emotions. No doubt there is truth in this, but then there is also the other side of moral philosophy where the Epicureans advocated their cause.

I think the essence of Epicureanism [too often seen as the philosophy of pleasure] is that though we should live with desire and pleasure in mind, we should sublimate the lower pleasures to the higher ones. I think out of this culture, came a powerful tradition of art.

A perfect moral philosophy would no doubt incorporate both of these in a higher synthesis.:rolleyes:
 
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