Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I live in a multicultural community so I never really faced racism from women. I'm a light skinned Punjabi (Indian) guy with an athletic phisique, strong facial features, natural game, wealthy family (so nice clothes and car) and I'm a pretty confident and social guy. Spinning plates is pretty effortless as long as I maintain myself.

Since I'm pursuing a career in medicine, I'm gonna have to relocate geographically quite a bit over the next 10 years. After I finish my last 2 years of university I'll be going to Aruba for medical school. I've heard that it's pretty open for ethnic guys there since it's a mix of different races.

After medical school I'm gonna have to do residency in the United States for about 4 years before I can start working in Toronto. I'm thinking about going to a place like Miami or Los Angeles for my residency. If I'm successful in a location like Toronto, would it be much different any place else?

Any additional advice would also be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any large city in the South, accept Florida is your best bet. Women are more open and friendly and in my experience tend to go out of their way to show you they are not racist, going against the regional stereotype. The Southern US is pretty freaking racist, but the larger cities are more cosmopolitan.
 

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Pick wherever you want because white men will be at the top of the food chain regardless of the location.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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California has much more racially open minded women than the vast majority of the US, they are just tough women in general.
Disagree.

White women in California are heavily against going for anything other than white or black guys, arguably some of the most xenophobic women in the country, nothing more xenophobic and anti-ethnic than your stereotypical California blonde.
 

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Any large city in the South, accept Florida is your best bet. Women are more open and friendly and in my experience tend to go out of their way to show you they are not racist, going against the regional stereotype. The Southern US is pretty freaking racist, but the larger cities are more cosmopolitan.
Accept or except? Because Florida hate on this forum has been very crazy lately.

I've said it in the thread I linked, cannot think of a better city in the US for a well put together ethnic guy than Miami. A well put together Asian or Indian dude could absolutely kill it in Florida in general!

I do admit that an Asian or Indian dude who is well put together can do well in Charleston and New Orleans (Atlanta is very doubtful because it has become infested with rust belt yankees who bring their racism with them).
 

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I've lived in California and in several other places and it's worse elsewhere
Once again, you're wrong. In most other places in the US, the bias against ethnic guys from local white girls isn't nearly as bad as it is in California.
 

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Dead wrong, every minority I know who's lived both places prefers California
By "minority" you must mean black guys because Californians will go out of their way to kiss up to blacks but that isn't true for other minority men. If you're Asian and especially Indian, stay out of California unless you only want to limit yourself to women of your own race (many of whom will be white washed sellouts).

If you want to date white women as an Indian man (which OP is), stay the hell away from California.
 

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By "minority" you must mean black guys because Californians will go out of their way to kiss up to blacks but that isn't true for other minority men. If you're Asian and especially Indian, stay out of California unless you only want to limit yourself to women of your own race (many of whom will be white washed sellouts).

If you want to date white women as an Indian man (which OP is), stay the hell away from California.
damn, sounds pretty convincing. Is there any area in the US thats similar to the standards of toronto?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good gao has to be ugly AND ethnic. Rich and handsome ethnic guys clean up in Cali. I am 75% asian and 25% french, and cali was the first place where b!tches asked me what race I was. There are millions of Asians and mexicans in cali. @Good Gao stop posting man. You are the biggest loser in the forum. Your perspective means absolutely nothing.

All you are doing is projecting your LOSERNESS to the forum. Loserness is not even a word but I created it for you.
Personal attacks? Lighten up, that is why everyone sees you as a joke.

I stand by what I say.

OP is an Indian guy and he will struggle a ton in California unless he only sticks with Indian women. He has a much better chance of landing hot white girls in the upper midwest, Florida, Texas, and even NYC than he ever will in California.

White girls in California are very very aware of racial stereotypes and tend to avoid races they see as "uncool". While black guys get the pick of the litter, all other minority groups are screwed. I've stayed in both San Fran and Los Angeles, seeing an Indian guy with a hot white girl (especially of the cali blonde variety) is unheard of and something that will turn heads in the state because it is seen as low value, even if the indian guy was handsome and rich.

Stop advertising your overrated garbage state and giving OP bad advice.

I say it with full conviction, it cannot be done, if you're an Indian guy, you will not get hot white girls in California period. You have a way better shot in many other states.
 

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damn, sounds pretty convincing. Is there any area in the US thats similar to the standards of toronto?
If your aim is to get hot white girls, then stay far away from California and Arizona, it is impossible to get hot white girls in those states unless you run into some foreigner but in that case, I'd recommend NYC anyways.

NYC

Miami (and most of Florida)

Austin

Chicago

All those places are far better than most of California, you being Indian will be a heavy heavy hit on your value if you're in the state of California.
 
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