"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Here's a slightly new take on an old blow off.

SuckItUp

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I asked a girl what her schedule looked like this week.

She responded with ... the beginning of the week is pretty packed but my schedule changes constantly.

I took it as a not interested, but perhaps it's a **** test on non needy persistence?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Krueg

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I work at a grocery store and my schedule / days off are always changing. So she could have a valid excuse depending on her lifestyle. Or she's just a b!tch playing games with online dating, women will do that!

Personally, I think if you meet a girl in person. You kinda know right then and there that you want her and you can tell right away if she is interested or not.

I would consider Online Dating as entertainment...
 

SuckItUp

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I work at a grocery store and my schedule / days off are always changing. So she could have a valid excuse depending on her lifestyle. Or she's just a b!tch playing games with online dating, women will do that!

Personally, I think if you meet a girl in person. You kinda know right then and there that you want her and you can tell right away if she is interested or not.

I would consider Online Dating as entertainment...
''Twas OLD, which I should just ignore as useless.
 

El Payaso

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You asked her what her schedule was like and she gave you an answer. I don't see what the problem is.

Why not ask her out with a specific day and time in mind and see what her answer is instead of dancing around the issue with questions like what her schedule is.

If she accepts or gives a solid counter, she's interested. Anything other than that means she's not interested.
 

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You asked her what her schedule was like and she gave you an answer. I don't see what the problem is.

Why not ask her out with a specific day and time in mind and see what her answer is instead of dancing around the issue with questions like what her schedule is.

If she accepts or gives a solid counter, she's interested. Anything other than that means she's not interested.

This.

"I am free on _____ and I will be at ______ around 8pm. If you can join, let me know."

Seems pretty easy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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